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Then I would take that at face value. She isn’t going to change. Is this what you’d like your life to look like forever? I wouldn’t, and I would leave.
I’m glad for you after 12 years of prison you found Reddit. Cheer up you’re saved!
Thank you for mentioning all of this, but especially that statistic about black women dying in childbirth. I came here to say the same thing. OP has a lot to learn and is being completely self centered.
OP, you need to develop some real empathy for what your wife went through. Do some research and really learn about the healthcare biases against BIPOCs in this country. You need to watch the Hulu documentary “Aftershock” that really lays out the dangers of being a black woman giving birth in this country. It is not limited to poor women either. The statistic holds true across every education and socioeconomic level.
And wake up on your own to help with your baby. She should not have to ask.
Also for a bit more context, the company he works for is 100 years old or more and hasn’t ever hired women in this particular role. There was also some genuine curiosity behind asking.
Frankly, he doesn't sound like he is worth the effort. I would walk away and not look back. New people are on the horizon. Go have fun and mingle. Seize the day.
I have turned down many other guys waiting for my ex and it’s starting to affect my mental health. Neither do I want to spend any more time waiting to be in a relationship with him again. I have started to talk to another guy, who I told my ex about and he got mad at me. He said I bring negativity into his life and I should consider myself lucky to have him in my life
That is the nail the coffin right there.
And look, what I would like to tell people caught up in this situations… STOP listening to what the other person is willing to offer you.
Instead, start focusing on yourself and what you want.
If you want a real relationship… from the sounds of it, you won't be finding it here with your ex.
All that is going on is that he will keep you close enough to make you feel engaged, but far enough so you don't have the relationship… Its a dead end.
Additionally… this comment:
He said I bring negativity into his life and I should consider myself lucky to have him in my life
Is toxic.
To me, it shows how unhealthy things are with you and your ex. Stop clinging onto empty promises.
If your ex was serious about you, he would step up and demonstrate that here and now. Even if that includes “Hey, I have a lot of shit going on, but here are the steps I am taking to overcome it”… Something that makes you stop guessing about the outcome.
And for the future… On and offs… rarely work out.
I think its time to accept things for what it is.. and move on completely.
Love shouldn't do this to you:
Starting to affect my mental health.
That is not a healthy version of love.