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Date: December 22, 2022
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To put this in perspective, after both of my kids my husband was afraid to ONLY wait six weeks. Your spouse is an immature asshole who needs some education asap.
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He gay as hell
Sorry but being insecure to this point is not attractive at all. If he feels like you’re not letting him breathe ever and always doubt him, how are you going to handle long term ? Life will make you separate at times for longer than 2 weeks. How is he supposed to handle the constant accusations ? You don’t trust him and you don’t trust his feelings, with absolutely nothing indicating a cheating behaviour. Your hints are so small. That’s nothing. Having strong anxiety is also knowing that part of your feelings are just guided by it and to take a step back when it’s start looking irrational. Imagine if the role were reversed. Would you be cheating because you get tired at night, because you took 10 minutes to send all your passwords ?
That’s the first time you’re being separated in months, of course the dynamics of how you communicate are going to change a little bit and that’s healthy. You’re probably more dependant on him that he is on you, so he’s enjoying his time while missing you. What’s not healthy is you going crazy on your own and then sharing it every little second, making any conversation with you a nightmare because he’s trying to reassure you and you don’t listen and just repeat the next day.
You are working on yourself, that’s great. If you want this relationship to keep going, stop sharing every little stress you have and find another way to get past them. Write about it, ask a friend, try to put yourself in the other’s shoes, do some sport, meditation, whatever ease out your mind even for a few minutes. And work on not being so dependant on your boyfriend. People are not out there to be responsible for our peace of mind. Being codependent to this point can’t be good for either of you. This situation is nude on you and naked on him.
Whenever I have people genuinely put in effort to give me a gift I am always so overcome by gratitude that I don’t understand his take at all. Something that thoughtful would have made it a really good gift to me. And to buy you a gift with your own cash? Idk, the whole thing seems weird. You essentially purchased your own Christmas gift and his gift
Where exactly did I say I “ain’t saying anything else?” It is so strange how many commenters have put words directly into my mouth. I have replied to a ton of people’s questions. Do you need to know the color of the underwear I am wearing today so that you can more fully understand?
Yup same for me and I let someone know early on. The lying and hiding it is another thing. People can totally make mistakes, but if they continue to lie about it after the 1st time, they're breaking the relationship trust too. Thats not worth it for something like smoking.
It might have been inconvenient for your husband and he probably did feel low, but he shouldn't be upset with you over this. You were protecting your baby, and he should feel protective as well. Also, your parents are older and staying with you so he should consider them as well. I wouldn't address this with him while he's sick, but once he's better, sit down and have a discussion about his inappropriate attitude that comes across as selfish.
Yup. He probably sucks too much for a woman his age to be interested in him so he took someone younger who is flattered by the attention, not very experienced thus a bit naive and not very demanding so that his failures are overlooked. He may not be using you per se, it's just that he is probably lacking majorly and not a great catch to more established women. You will most definitely discover it down the line but you should just move on now. Does he work? Does he have kids? An ex wife/serious relationship? Etc.
My fear on talking to her about it is she might get hurt. She has issues and gets very anxious on things like these because she always asks herself and people around her if she’s being “enough” amidst the reassurance I give her. I will still try but I don’t know where to start.
Also, we don’t do it that often. Or maybe for her it is. Will try giving her time before I give the talk to her. I mean I am not expecting her to have a pornstar libido, I just want her to want sex as much as I do and explore together what we want to do with each ither
I would reccomend talking to a therapist before ending the relationship.
I would reccomend talking to a therapist before ending the relationship.
I would reccomend talking to a therapist before ending the relationship.
You’re gonna get pregnant and be stuck coparenting with a useless lazy idiot. What about that sounds appealing to you, OP?
Wear the heels.
Your first sentence makes you sound obsessive & dangerous honestly. If you love her then leave her alone
Not at all. She can go to the embassy and they would help her return home. In fact the police would arrest anyone who took her passport.
Projects for work. I’ve been working around 60 hours a week.
So your advice is to NOT respect OP's partner's identity at all?
Non-binary people don't have to have surgery/transition to another binary gender BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT WITHIN EITHER BINARY GENDER. Not transitioning to what your idea of androgynous looks like doesn't make their identity any less valid.
Just because your tiny, transphobic brain doesn't get it, doesn't mean others are confused.
He’s cheating. Deleting the proof, the only thing that could prove his innocence. Come on now. It may have just been an emotional affair, but you’ll never know.
It has crossed my mind that the comments here would be very different if the genders were reversed
You are being used xD
Go to your graduation. That is your memory to have as an adult that has achieved something amazing!!
If your family don’t understand that, then they don’t deserve to be a part of your success at any time from now.
Ask yourself: would celebrating someone else’s wedding make you happier than celebrating your own success?
If your brothers marriage fails, it will just become a day that you were forced to go to that eventually becomes meaningless. Whereas your graduation is the beginning of your fabulous life!!!
Time to acknowledge that you are JUST AS WORTHY as he is. Do this for yourself.
That was never said. Learn how to properly interpret what you’re reading. Did I say someone must smell like Indian food from hanging out with an indian. Or that if you smell like Indian food, you must’ve been around Indian food.
OP, do you actually want to marry your girlfriend?
You have not proposed. You were having a light conversation about nerdy weddings. YOU have already dictated that you do not like social gatherings or crowds so YOU will not do a big wedding even though she has a big family. But you'll compromise. So right there, YOU decided it was YOUR wedding. This was YOUR exclusion.
So in the course of light conversation, your girlfriend in the exact same light way said she wouldn't have this specific nerdy thing at her wedding. The exact same thing you did to her, first, about the big wedding.
And you completely flipped it around on her. You hurt her feelings, called her inconsiderate, and pulled the semantics card because the wedding that is not planned nor proposed for isn't just “hers” despite having done the very same thing yourself.
Your exclusion would require her to choose who among her family and close friends would be able to see her get married. Something she's been very vocal to you about as being extremely important to her (and likely to her friends and family). Her exclusion would require that one specific nerdy thing not be included, but that other nerdy things could be.
The way you behaved was really immature. It sounds like you don't want to get married, and you're taking pot shots at your girlfriend because of it.
There was no reason to instigate an argument/disagreement over this. Your girlfriend wasn't being inconsiderate. She followed your lead and said that she did not want Destiny related things at the wedding. The exact same way YOU dont want a big wedding. If you can make restrictions, so can she.
I understand why she was upset. You were being a hurtful hypocrite over a hypothetical scenario that no one benefited from. It's perfectly fine to not want a big wedding. It is perfectly fine to not want destiny themed or referenced stuff at a wedding. It's just preferences. But it's not okay to say it's fine for you to have a preference, but not fine for her.
Honestly, it sounds like you don't want to get married and you're acting like a jerk because of it. It's okay if you don't want to get married. But if that's truly the case, you need to be honest about it. Stop nit picking conversations with your girlfriend. All you're doing is instigating an argument. Talk to her openly if something is bothering you. And I hope she would do the same. Be kinder to each other and stop the petty nonsense.
They are saying your wife is acting like a child. Which she is.
I saw your update and I know this comment doesn’t really apply now but I just wanna say, jerking off to a co-worker’s nudes whether sent to him directly or not, is still fucking cheating. And it’s vile, revolting behaviour and you deserve better than that.
With the update in mind, I’m so so sorry! I can’t imagine how you feel but I’m sending you all the love and peace in the world. Don’t go back to this man ❤️
I appreciate you raising this. I think I responded the way I did because of the way OP wrote the post. He led with they’d been having issues, he didn’t say anything about the kisses being unwelcome or uncomfortable, and he didn’t “have time” to communicate with his girlfriend.
But I think this being a freeze response is totally worth considering, and I’m sorry to OP if that’s the situation here.
If your dream is to move to Japan, I'm going to say you should probably break up with your GF.
Ima just say it. Your post/reaction screams insecure man child who isn't ready to date seriously. I read your post first and was like, “Oh it's just some young silly drama”. Then I saw you were 25. You're a little too old to still be controlling and insecure when she objectively handled things decently. Could she have handled them better? Sure. But youre also dating someone 5 years younger than you. Perhaps she hasn't had the experience yet to say no.
She was honest. She said she was going to block him. Honestly, she is the one who should be running from you. Making her change numbers over this is just controlling and insecure. It's honestly a shocker how little comments are not telling you how insane that sounds. That is a giant red flag about how controlling you are and if she was posting the story I guarantee you the comments would be telling her to run away from you as fast as she can.
Reading your comments I'm guessing this is a troll post. Way too comfortable showing how insecure you are.
I did read the post more than an hour ago and had forgotten the OP mentioned koalas first! Still cracked me up.
No we had a conversation after I didn't reply bc it was the end of the conversation the type of messages that just u think to yourself what would u say? It just ends and honestly I can feel he changed and I'm already busy with college and stuff so I didn't want to stress much over a guy who I talked to for a month only and I'm not blaming him I'm wondering
Lol you call it insecurity, but if the tables were turned and your date brought a man over to the house to sleep over, you don't think your thoughts would go to “hes having sex with her” I would definitely not want to date you after this.
I mentioned the chroes so that i wont be seen as a “Do as i said” man. Cuz i am not one of those.
Not cheating if it is in the way you described but you know perfectly that she will say something totally different. So you may get more evidences.
1) Call some kind of sexual assault hotline from the numbers others have provided. 2) Consider reporting the best friend to the police after your conversation with the hotline people or (if you’re in college) an on-campus counselor. 3) Consider secretly recording yourself confronting the best friend to try to elicit a confession. Be explicit but neutral about what happened:
“I’m pretty upset that you tried to have sex with me. Did you think I would just go along once I realized that you were not my GF?
“You know I was out of it and half asleep. Did it not cross your mind that I might think it was my GF giving me head? Is that why you initiated sex rather than making it clear by asking me or waking me up?”
“What made you think it was ok to do this?”
“Were you surprised when I rejected you?”
“When you saw how upset and distressed I was when I realized it was you and not my GF, why did you think it was ok to try again to have sex with you?”
Best of luck. You were sexually assaulted. At one point you will have to tell your GF. Don’t let the best friend do it first and spin a false narrative.
You may even try to tell your GF that you’ve just gotten off the phone with a sexual hotline because this morning “your best friend snuck into the room while I was asleep and tried to pretend she was you to initiate sex. I slowly woke up and it took me almost a full minute to realize that it wasn’t you going down on me, it was your best friend. The second I realized, I physically pushed her off me and started shouting at her. She saw how upset I was, she knew full well I thought it was you — and on top of that she had the gall to THEN ask me to do stuff with her. I kicked her out of the room, obviously. I’m completely shaken. I tried to secretly record her while I confronted her and am considering pressing charges for sexual assault — though to be honest most cops don’t believe male victims even exist.”
Seriously, take this persons advice and under no circumstances should you reach out to him.
If I were your current husband and saw my wife reaching out to her ex after finding out he had a glow up, that would crush my self esteem.
Absolutely, this has been discussed for sure.
You were complaining about them texting him. Now you're saying he's going out and hanging out with them countless times. You didn't say anything about going out with them. That does make a bit of difference. You need to add more detail there. What sort of nights out were they?
If it's a work happy hour sorta thing, he probably can't actually take you out. If it's on the company's dime, he has to follow their rules. They're the ones footing the bill, they get to say who comes and who doesn't. Also, you can't always get out of going to those. Sometimes if you don't go you get encouraged to go to future outings the next day at work.
If he's hanging out after work with them on a personal level, it's a different story. He should absolutely introduce them to you.
He started by being controlling and jealous, and now he's skirting around the rules he made as if they don't apply to him.
He is openly disrespecting you and lying to you.