0 views
staceyjohnson chat
Date: October 8, 2022
The ad code is not a valid HTML code.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
PleasingMyPussyNow
The ad code is not a valid HTML code.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Isn’t the point of being a “godparent” is that you are taking on the responsibility of ensuring that your brother’s children will be brought up “in the church” in case of your brother’s and wife’s demise?
It is a construct designed to insure that children (who are not yours) remain in the Catholic Church.
I think people assign other meaning to the term, but that really isn’t related to being a “godparent”. Given that definition, you probably wouldn’t be the best choice for a godparent. Some people are incapable of separating your worth as a good person and your religious status. When we had young children, I put more emphasis on who I could trust to care for my children if my wife or I passed away. You may want to put it in those terms for your brother (that he could rely on you to care and love his children), and he could pick out a staunch Catholic to be a godparent.
I wish I could answer that, she says it is because of the jealous behavior but it came forward from her not telling the truth. And she knows that. Also I have spoken openly about this with her everytime I had an itch. To my knowledge she is not cheating but I guess I will never know the truth.
To be honest he just sounds like an edgelord arsehole. Can't really understand why you're with him, he sounds embarrassing to be with.
This.
If he thinks it’s tough now….
I’m so sorry to hear you keep getting dismissed, that is absolutely not okay. Women’s pain gets much more frequently ignored by doctors or written off as normal (it’s not!!). If you can’t find a better doctor, I would at least try to get a referral to a pelvic floor physical therapist— if your pain is coming from pelvic floor tension, they can help with that, and if not, they’re familiar enough to probably have some helpful info and ideas on treatment moving forward. Hopefully your shitty doctor will be happy to write a referral and not have to deal with it.
Girl… Come now.
Don’t marry someone who makes you unhappy. Life is far too short and you’ll regret it
Feeling neglected is more than enough reason to end a marriage. In fact you don’t need a reason to end a relationship. This was absolutely horrible to read dude I’m so sorry this is happening. Think about what’s best for your mental and emotional health, if that means ending your marriage than do it xx
Honestly I’m not sure how I feel. I’m just confused because what if I am triggered by past trauma and that’s clouding my judgement. I’m going to be honest that as of right now, I feel uncomfortable around him. I am still willing to communicate with him about this situation and set boundaries though I’m just not sure when yet.
He has an infection which caused a blockage in his reproductive tract.
He did at home tests, and shortly after the first one was hospitalised for this infection. The specialist he has seen said there wasn't any point chasing up these tests until at least 12 Months has passed because the infection has a known impact on sperm health.
Thank you! Like… it’s brunch. Not an expensive getaway or some large expense and he’s contacting her THE DAY BEFORE to see if she’ll split the bill? On their first date? I just can’t imagine being excited to see someone like that when there are many other options who wouldn’t mind paying and would never think to contact a woman the day before to ask this. I’m getting secondhand embarrassment for op
You're not a good person, I'd advise to rethink your life choices and why when uninhibited you'd want to cheat.
Info: what did your dad do?
Ok that actually makes sense, you should definitly talk with him.
It's like being one of the bosses of a subreddit. It can take up a lot of time and energy and you don't get paid for it. It means he spends a lot of time working on this subreddit.
u/Suck_on_ma_toes, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Stepdaughter posted in AITA, the jewellery WAS willed to her by her mother to have and she KNOWS the OP did this now.
You are with a narcissistic abusive husband. He gets off putting you down. Simple really. Get a great lawyer who will turn your excuses into distance and move on.
Yeah I know you’re right and I feel bad to that it’s such a common story nowadays but I was abandoned early on in life I lost my parents I lost my family I was in foster homes abused constantly until I turned 18 and that’s when I found him he took me in he gave me shelter and showed me what being loved and cared for felt like. I don’t have enough money on my own to move out and I have nowhere to go if I do move out so not really any point in calling my landlord. All of his money is illegal he doesn’t have a real job so idk how I’d go to jail he would be able to report it or he’d be the one in trouble. I feel like I was set up to fail ever since I was born I don’t have enough motivation to work and hustle but if I had this money I’d be able to start fresh start from scratch and maybe finally do something bigger with my life. I’d be able to get a car and move to somewhere nicer maybe somewhere where it snows, I’ve never seen snow before and get a little house or duplex and a new job I’d stash the rest of the money away and just work and use my paychecks to pay rent and whatever I’d have left over would go in the stash with the rest of the money. I’d have a plan for it. And the way his brain is wired with the things he’s done and said to me I don’t know if I’d feel bad leaving him stuck, because that’s what he did to me I used to be financially stable when we lived together I was paying only $350 a month and making over $2000 a paycheck he saw me getting money and starting my business up, buying stuff for my business and getting clients then he saw me buying myself nice clothes and shoes and taking care of myself and idk if he got angry felt jealous or something but he kicked me to the streets. I had to find the first place that would take me and it landed me $950 a month and farther away from my job so I had to get a new job and pray they paid well which of course they don’t I’m lucky to make $1000 a paycheck.
Question, even though you've kind of found your answer. Were you guys using condoms before? Her behavior is alarming since you've been back. Could she have been mad because you left for 5 months?
In future, a short letter is better. Just FYI.
One paragraph. 8-10 sentences. To the point, clear & concise. Mostly just the facts with some discussion of feelings.
Man, people really try to lock it down waaay too early. Good luck on the proposal though
Where I on-line ya graduate highschool at 18/19 – coulda been more like 4/3 years.
u/Lurreka_, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
I think you interpreted some of this way wrong, I absolutely do stick up for him. A lot of the time she thanks me for giving his perspective, and I do a pretty good job doing it. My thing is that its almost like me doing that is just me downplaying the issues? idk i definitely fucked up with boundaries but i genuinely care about both of them. I guess you just missed the part where I say “I would also like to say that Cody has given his perspective on some of this to me and his side isnt completely illogical”. I guess the issue now is that i am fine with setting the boundaries for me but i do think genuinely if I withdrew from our friendship Megan would not be ok, I am one of like 3 people she sees regularly, and the other 2 would absolutely drop her if they broke up.
He’s immature. And young, I’m assuming. I agree with the advice in this thread to not contact him and wait til he gets in touch. Then talk about it.
Hello /u/LawSpiritual7012,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Wow, how do you spell “hypocrite” again?
Hello /u/Ur_mom_and_ur_dad,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
I have met her a bunch of times when I go into his work. He moved her into an office next to his a few months back because he “needs her handy.” He is also constantly on the phone with her or texting her.
When I went through his phone (with his permission) his call logs show he will sometimes be on the phone with her for an hour or more sometimes at like 10pm, and there were almost 0 text between them.
Hello /u/ippasodimetaponto,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Cancel the lease and move out if you can.
That’s a good point, I definitely do want to set boundaries with him about it. Especially don’t tell me you’re not gonna talk to him (when I didn’t even ask for that) if you actually are.
Sounds like this guy is just dealing with some personal things and doesn't want to drag you into it. It's not uncommon for people to want a little more alone time when they're going through something, so it's not necessarily a red flag. That being said, it's totally understandable that it's confusing and frustrating for you. It might be helpful to try and have an open and honest conversation with him about how his behavior is making you feel. Just be sure to approach it in a non-accusatory way and try to focus on your own emotions rather than trying to solve his problems. It's not your job to fix him, and ultimately it's up to him to deal with his own stuff. If he's not interested in talking about it, that's his prerogative, but it's important for you to communicate your feelings and concerns. Just try not to let it consume you too much and try to take care of yourself in the meantime.
And if he keeps making those jokes knowing they hurt you then he doesn't respect you. One time, two times, that's one thing. But then once he heard that it's not funny but hurtful, it should stop. And NEVER during bedroom time. It's dysfunctional and hurtful. At the vertu least, you need couples counseling. In a big proponent of it, and it could head off behaviors that lead to break hips. It works.
She conned you plain and simple. You can't trust her. And she's def got more bad news for you down the line.
I gave in
The meltdown only comes from lack of maturity, which isn’t an excuse at 23.
If you have any desire to learn about this girl and pursue a relationship, your two days out from a trip and I would continue it with an open heart and mind. It’s not fair to cancel this trip so close to it and cancelling the trip and breaking up with her is brutal. It is a lot less brutal to continue the trip take the time to see if there is something there for the future and then wait a couple weeks after the trip with some time apart and see how you feel.
If you cant do this however without losing it, yes this then may be best to cancel and have the conversation now.
If you do decide to cancel then yes you need to have a period of singleness and work out what you actually want in a partner. The sort of larger questions and getting to know someone being an area of focus in the future.
what about her trauma??? She was literally pissed on by her boyfriend. I think being out of it after that is completely normal. She is a human being too.
I think ima start to just leave and go home if she doesn’t try to help the situation or forces me into something that’s too uncomfortable, bc I want to have a relationship with her family and I don’t want them to think I’m some weird bf that never comes around the family. So I think leaving early if things get bad might help. Thank you for your advice it really means a lot??
Rub one out beforehand so you don’t nut in your pants before you even get inside.
I'm not in college, I took a drop year and I'll go to college this year, like 8 months later. Till then I'll be absolutely lonely if I leave him.
It's just a shitty feeling being poor and dating someone who comes from money. My boyfriends grandparents gave him $2,000 for Christmas and a bunch of gifts. My parents didn't get me anything. I've had to work for everything and he gets it all handed to him.Idk. He might just feel insecure and like he's not good enough. Because that's definitely how i feel in my relationship.
Be 100% free. These rules aren’t normal. Ditch the controlling boyfriend.
Your reaction is too much. Looking at an Instagram page feels personal, but porn’s perfectly fine? That makes no sense.
You know that there’s nothing logical about your reaction here. This is about your self-image and insecurities and really has very little to do with your bf.
I never said you should tell her what to do. I asked how you would feel about it. And I think you are full of shit if you would be ok with it.
I have pity for sex workers. I have compassion for those that have gone down that path. But respect? I’m sorry, no.
fellas this is why you DO NOT EVER agree to a stay at home wife. Op now if you get a divorce you will be paying alimony.
If I were you I would see a lawyer ASAP. Maybe there is some way that you can minimize the financial impact this will have on you. You're definitely being used.
Just be honest that you are not interested in any further interaction unless work related. You don’t need to have any concerns with being social with coworkers. If he can’t keep it professional then he needs to be retrained about workplace harassment. You need to make a log of what is making you uneasy and file it with HR to have it addressed.
His behavior was normal unless you were screaming in agony.
It is completely natural to find other people attractive even when in a relationship. What matters is not acting on it, which OP has not. BF expecting her to “only have eyes for him” is absurd and controlling.
He gets along really well with my daughter and loves to be goofy an play with her. It's not healthy right now there are times when things get unhealthy and we work through it. He's a good dad for the most part I feel like he's just too darn wrapped up in becoming a full time firefighter so he's stressed. I'm helping in every way I can. I taught him how to swim and tread water so he could pass that test. I've been helping him with his physical fitness although he is very resistant to my advice. He even tells me it's unfair the way I try to cheer him on. He feels like my positive motivation is putting to much pressure on him to succeed. Fuck me for believing in him I guess.
You may not have liked what she said but she was honest with you. I would rather my spouse be completely honest than bullshit me when communicating. I believe in allowing those I love to speak their truth and not punishing them for it. Think about what you want in your marriage. Do you want her honest or not?
realistically, i care and i dont know how to look at him the same way. They’ve never been open with affection, porn etc. yet hes openly following so many young models that are completely the opposite of my mother and i feel horrible for her and its making me realise hes just like any other man always looking for someone younger and more fit
Is it all gone again?
By listening. Don't provide solutions. Listen empathically. Listen.
So you did a survey of “almost of all” of them? Because I know many very well and that's not the case.
You don’t fix this with circumcision you fix it with a frenulumplasty
He's still deactivated.
I actually already have them in therapy, it’s been really helpful for them because your right my son sees what’s happening and it effects him a lot
Tell her “That's a great idea! I already have someone in mind to spend some time with” and see how she reacts
Someone that is a good liar will almost always be concerned with getting better at lying, rather than getting better at being a good person.
Just co parent as friends.
Idk how people lack empathy it‘s really unbelievable…
Idk how people lack empathy it‘s really unbelievable…
Well, I think it’s important to know whether he’s with somebody. Don’t help him cheat. Cheating destroys peoples lives. It destroys their trust. Some people can’t eat sleep work or function in any substantial way. Sometimes it goes on for months or even years. So it doesn’t just hurt their feelings. So find out if he’s single, he’s not leave him alone Please don’t be despicable. Think how you’d feel if that was a boyfriend you loved
First off, your boyfriend doesn’t know what a boundary is. Boundaries are for your own behavior, not someone else’s. Imagine having a boundary of “everyone who wants to talk give me has to give me $100.” ?
More importantly, it seems like you’ve gone from controlling parents to a controlling boyfriend. When are you going to spend time figuring out who YOU are and what YOU want for your own life?
She told her mother who didn’t do anything wrong & she was blamed. So you have to understand her hesitation & feared the same reaction from her BF. I completely understand why she didn’t tell him
She was understandably upset by this an I felt like u was betraying her by going without her.
You kinda did.
They couldn't believe she wasn't invited.
—
There is another group get together in a different friends house next weekend and same again I was asked not to bring her.
So they could not believe she was not invited yet in the end decide not to invite her as well?
There is a lot of context missing. You need to sit your friends down and get the truth.
Are you sure they are being divorced?
It sounds like you are her “side chick”. At least does the way she treats you feel like that.
Thank you! Wanted to say the same. Not just dumping him. Just RUN! Would never stay with a person who does not respect me. Can only lead to bad things