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Date: October 8, 2022
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I saw this a light hearted way for people to express questions and thought processes that they regret why and then people ( myself definitely included) can get a view of why just accepting that past as the past is better then questioning
I have sat down done the financial part with her but I am gonna speculate she would rather do anything but understand that part
I am very close to my aunt who is 65+ and dating! As for the sex she says that there are so many hormone supplements and lube for older women that it’s very safe and healthy!
You would be superised how much energy older people have with life i would go with it the same way you would with someone your own age flowers are a great idea!
You probably aren’t putting out enough, and he is pent up. Honestly it’s your fault, and although I hate to say it, he was probably depressed because of this.
Funny because i DM this to the guy you blocked for saying the same thing like 20 times!
I don't give a damn about what some grinch thinks of me. “This is the internet” no shit! What ya thought? This was the Krusty Krab? I'm a real person, same as you, same as the ex you broke up hours ago and are happily throwing under a bus now!
Like damn, why do hoes always come to reddit, lie for validation and then say the real shit on the comments?? Just keep up the lie and people will agree with you! It ain't rocket science.
This ain't TV show. This real life. A real human is telling you that you are sad. You act like a kid and complain like a kid, and think people are weird for talking about your business when you are the one yapping about them online!
Next time, if you want a hypothetical, go to r/AskReddit. And if you want the opinion of men on a topic, you have r/AskMen. This is for RELATIONSHIP ADVICE! Is in the name, lol. If you already threw up the garbage bag, this ain't the place for that! This is too long lol
QUEEN, pleaseeeee leave him. That’s disgusting. You deserve the world plus some. Don’t let being married make you settle. Get out while you haven’t wasted WAY too much of your time. Sending love.
numbers difficult for you sweetie? got it. enjoy the rest of your evening.
No problem! Happy Holidays!
I find it funny that the label is what did it for her…
“My husband is drunk every night, for the last 7 years. Today he just told me he's an alcoholic. I should break up with him”
You need to move on. He is not the one. He is just passing time and it is unfair to you. When my dad died I leaned on all of my friends and needed their help and I asked for it. They were all there. He is sending you a message. I would just move on from him. He is stuck and you are wasting years on him.
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This is over and you need to walk away. He is still in love with his ex wife. It took him 2 years before you got to meet his daughter? Uhm, no. This was a huge red flag ip front. Now he is using you as a babysitter so he can go date her and sleep with her. I highly doubt this was the first time it happened. There is no coming back from this. He's made his choice. He is going to continue to do this on repeat. He doesn't love you or respect you at all. He doesn't value you or your relationship. You deserve better than this.
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Talk to your family about this asap so you can let them know what he said and get assistance in breaking up with him. They may have a good idea how to go about keeping you all safe. If you have this conversation down in text, file a police report.
Well, then I think you need to sit down with yourself first and figure out what it is that will make things better if you stay together. Like specifically in easy terms, what you need from him. I think once you know, then you can try to have a sit down with him and calmly and openly and honestly talk about things. If he’s truly willing to work with you to help find solutions and he’s willing to put in the effort, then there could be a strong chance for improvement. Maybe even couples counseling? Even just to improve overall communication and to better understand one another. Even healthy couples go to counseling. It’s like relationship maintenance.
If he wants kids in 10 years he means not with you. Cut your losses and walk away now. Also find a partner you are sexually compatible with it makes life just so much better! Before I met my 2nd husband I thought orgasms were a rare occurrence but I just hadn’t found the right man yet.
No. He hasn’t done this for 10 years. Maybe the last 3 years. On and off. We’ve been through a lot so I was thinking maybe it was taking a toll on him. He doesn’t want to see a couples therapist so I don’t know what to do.
What you're describing is a really complicated situation that you tried to sum up in two paragraphs.
Obviously it's highly emotionally charged for you, and I hope that you are able to get some therapy and support from an actual therapist. It sounds like something you needed to do for a while now.
It's naked to say much of anything about your girlfriend because you've painted it in such broad strokes. Obviously, she thinks there's something more going on than you do. You don't have to agree and you can break up with anybody for any reason. The comment about you taking it too far makes me think that you were expecting her to be an unpaid therapist instead of a girlfriend level of support, which obviously isn't healthy. But the way she responded wasn't either.
However, cold shouldering somebody is just abuse. It sounds like she's not your girlfriend any longer anyway so that saved you the trouble of breaking up with her. Time to heal and focus on yourself.
Yes— why a lull feels bad or uncomfortable is an important question.
Lulls aren’t themselves bad.
In fact, every relationship has them. But, they can uncover problems— with us, our relationships, or both.
When my partner or I spend weeks or months more heavily focused on work, are going out with friends more, or are deeply invested in a hobby, it’s actually a good thing.
It’s nice. There’s empty space, a break, time to put energy into our skills and interests and decompress and come back as richer people than when we were deep in our routine.
That doesn’t mean it’s sometimes uncomfortable. It can definitely uncover a weak point, places where I’ve gotten complacent in my life, a twinge of some negative emotions that get rustled up when routines get changed up or we’re not as in sync and close as we usually are.
But, again, that can be a learning and growing process.
If it isn’t, “why is this uncomfortable?” is an important question!
The answer will generally point you in the direction of what it is that needs work— and the answer might not be “go on more dates”. Sometimes the changes or issues are deeper, take more work and trial and error. Sometimes there are skills we need to develop.
There’s no one single answer, and it doesn’t mean it’s a forever relationship.
But, it also doesn’t mean it’s not, and I’d definitely do the reflection necessary to figure out why the boredom is such a negative thing, instead of a trigger for more inner work and development before you come back together.
Thank you
You have no right to this information, especially with the accusation of it not being false. I was an innocent man
Another aspect is, how long have they been together? Have they only ever done missionary? Repetitive positions can become boring, and either partner may not be able to get off as easily. Changing things up is good. Also, OP can take control for her own pleasure as well. Sex is about communicating what eachother likes. I do agree that the husband has a poor choice in words. But I very much understand what he meant. It's a different feeling, and lately, that's what has been feeling best for him.
baby ur a child still. and it shows. you have no idea what youre doing. but again, this is your fault, you fucked around and found out and you want to keep it, so anything from here youre on your own since youre so grown. for starters, get off reddit.
If she’s willing to start with couples therapy, do it immediately. You can’t make her do individual therapy, but you can do it yourself and maybe eventually she will start her own.
It honestly sounds like you two have just hit a plateau in the relationship, which happens, and you need to spark it up more. She probably acted enthralled when you spoke of things that interested you when y’all were dating, because…you were dating. But, maybe those topics bore her? Maybe after years of hearing about them, she needs new material?
How did you work on things back in 2020?
I know it sounds granular and pedantic, but some people hear “it has to do with” and think that means “it is in part because of this” rather than “this is the reason why”.
But perhaps brutal honesty and steadfastness is your only option from here on out until he decides to change.
Don't kiss him, don't cuddle him, refuse all of his advanced promptly and plainly, don't do anything that enables him. If he asks why you're acting this way, just tell him the honest truth. Remind him you lost the romantic spark because he chose not to uphold his responsibilities as an adult in your relationship.
How is him threatening to talk to his female friends an issue? Just say okay and move on with life
You've left one abusive household and landed in another.
he told me not to talk to her about my problems anymore because he feels exposed
…this is classic abusive behaviour, trying to separate you from the people who care about you and support you. Connecting with your sister is good for you.
would always sound annoyed when I show affection or If ask him to hug me. When I am sad, he does not really make an effort to comfort me.
This is not the behaviour of someone who cares about you and wants the best for you.
Are you able to leave? Is there somewhere else you can go?
I think him not being great at giving you a special birthday is the least of your concerns.
Honey, you are consistently let down by the guy and you aren't getting what you want or need out of this relationship. He isn't going to change.
I don't think it's fair for your girlfriend to tell you partially, but not fully. It's going to drive you crazy to know that SOMETHING that serious happened, but no concrete details.
She should just get it over and done with already. If she planned to hold it in until he is dead, then she shouldn't have said anything in the meantime, in my opinion. Time to rip the bandaid off. (My guess is that your dad is a pervert)
Just marry your brother and let's move on.
Different dad though. So not so icky
Yeah, I have a heap of unread messages for days because I see them in a notification so don’t have to actually open the message. Stop making excuses for her.
Why are you with him? I don't see a single benefit you're getting. In fact he's making your life 200% worse. Record the verbal abuse. Keep records of everything. File for divorce. (I'd also send this info to a medical board so they're aware that they're certifying an abusive af doctor).
It's like you're holding a ball of naked lava and wondering why your hands are getting burnt. Pls leave.
Talk to him about it in a non-judegmental way. By all means, he should see his doctor if he feels he may have hormonal or mental health concerns. However, I will also say that people can be quick to judge men with a low libido harshly. Some people do just have lower libidos and that’s okay. However, that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to a sexless relationship.
The main issue here is the lack of physical intimacy (not the same as sex) and the insecurities this is creating in both of you. These are the first things you need to discuss. You need to be able to feel close to him even when he doesn’t want to have sex. He needs to be able to turn down sex without making you upset. You should also discuss your goals. Does he want to have more sex, or is he okay with how it is now? That will likely boil down to compatibility and shared goals, and isn’t easily resolved. If he does want to have more sex, The book Come As You Are is targeted towards women with low libidos but it’s a great introduction to sex positivity and an intentional sex life. Reading it or even going through the workbook together may prove helpful. Swap genders where needed.
If it’s obtainable a sexologist or sex positive couples counsellor could be invaluable here.
Can’t punch in early. ?
Okay so she's doing a fuck ton of academic work. Medical studies and latin??? That's just as naked as Stem. You need to apologize to her immediately. Pay for your own groceries and split the chores.
Really you messed up.
Did you two have any detailed discussions of boundaries when you agreed to an open relationship? If he had previously expressed these boundaries, then you messed up. But if he didn't say anything about it and expected you to read his mind, that's not reasonable.
My buddy took a “break” from his girlfriend of a couple years during college. She initiated it. She is a wonderful person so none of us were upset with her at all. That being said, it was very rough. Like you said, it came down to having the guts to actually end it, and for a few months she didn’t have the guts to do it. She basically stringed him along. It was really naked supporting him when all of us knew it was done. He would talk like in a few days, things would get better and go back to normal. No matter what he did he had absolutely zero control of the situation.
Breaks for the most part don’t work and it isn’t putting someone through it if deep down you know the end product is actually getting back together.
I make my husband coffee in the morning fairly often (depending on how I’m feeling sometimes it’s fancy lattes and sometimes it’s just an iced americano) and do little massages while we’re watching tv, but my husbands love language is acts of service
Perhaps you could write him little love notes and hide them in areas where he frequents? I do this for My husband too sometimes and he loves it
Exactly.
You look stunning!
Stand by your ultimatum, and don’t waste time on someone not willing to give you what you want. He’s 32 ffs, no little kid who is too young.
For that matter – why don’t you propose? Whatever he replies with, at least you’ll know.
He does oral but sometimes I miss actual sex
I think the hurting is totally natural! You can grieve the relationship while also recognizing that it needs to be over
I often say “never stick around for the second punch”. You have the rare opportunity not to stick around for the first one.
He's making excuses and doesn't want to buy a house with you now or ever. Maybe also a bad idea to buy a house together not being married. Try to get your own place. This relationship might not go anywhere permanent.
No. Piss off with your transphobia. “lol”
OP, if I gave you the best most delicious ice cream sundae in the world but added one teaspoon of shit to it would you eat it? No, because it’s a shit sundae. Things being great 90% of the time don’t mean being treated trash then manipulated not to feel understandably bad about it the remaining 10% of the time is ok.
Yeah, just say you like the video, and keep it light and friendly. Think of something fun to invite her to next time, and invite her when the timing is right.