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You’re purposely giving someone a death sentence without their consent- so I think it definitely warrants a large charge like this
because being open to something if you’re partner is also open to it isn’t the same as needing it or feeling unfulfilled without it.
Omfg that’s so funny
My best friend dated a guy who thought it was disgusting when ANYBODY farted. She was sure he must fart but never heard or smelt him. She felt like she had to hold it in around him. One day she woke up and he was looking at her like she was disgusting and he told her she let out this massive fart in her sleep and he wasn’t even sure he could think of her the same way again. She dumped him on the spot, luckily the relationship was fairly new so no big deal.
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My concern is if it gets brought to light, that they will kick him out since he's 18
I really think you should give them an explanation of what is going to happen and that you won't be getting back with her. Give them a game plan what is going to happen.
Don't waste her time.
Hun I think you’re actually UNDER reacting as a result of your trauma. A “normal” reaction would be “what the fuck, never do that shit again because it’s literally assault and if it happens again I’m leaving you”. You shouldn’t TRY to be “non-accusatory” because he’s objectively doing the wrong thing! This isn’t some kind of misunderstanding. Sadism in the bedroom is one thing but done healthily it’s coupled with excellent, clear boundaries and a huge amount of love, respect and aftercare. It’s a consensual dynamic specific exclusively to sex – what this guy is doing is not “sadism” in a sexual sense, it’s just abuse. And I think he’s with you specifically because he could tell that you would have a harder time standing up to it than someone who hadn’t been abused as a child. He saw you were vulnerable and picked you for that exact reason, and now he’s using that to make you feel like your reactions are overblown.
It’s on the way. I’m more confused about what to do about the relationship aspect of it
This is emotional abuse. A loyal boyfriend is the bare minimum and he’s not loyal at all considering he has a dating profile. He’s trying to manipulate you “All these women hit on me so I’m clearly better than you. You should be lucky that i even like you.” Leave this man now. It will never get better.
Nah you were trying fuck her you dirty dog
Well leaving his family isnt something he would ever do for anyone. I would want to be a part of his family, not being the one ripping it apart. We are different from you.
Can’t. I’m blocked on everything now.
This is so stupid. I just wanna move on and forget about this. This is such a minuscule moment of my life and it doesn’t deserve another second of thought.
Are you sure he’s even paying his mom?
Also, maybe so the person doesn't sexually assault anyone else.
hate to say it, but I agree. Some people never get their spending under control. That she spent your savings like an allowance when she was supposed to match it and invest it???? Dawg, that's brutal. It means she doesn't on-line within her income. You would be facing years of financial stress with this woman if you stay. Plus, you stay with her and she will be asking you to pay for a wedding when the time comes. Find someone new with similar goals as you.
Your “core values line up?”
Do your core values include not disrespecting and emotionally abusing your partner? Because his clearly don’t.
You are massively in denial about the state of your relationship.
I think it's like that toxic masculinity but he's not masculine lol. I really don't know and he could never answer why he just never did. I don't think he's afraid of them, he was in the military so he's used to the exposure and all the needles
This is supposed to be your person, not your competition. This isn’t some friend that you low key resent. It sounds like she is the only thing you have going for you right now, so don’t fuck it up by not being supportive.
I mean personally I would joke about, but If she has not mentioned it, or joked about it, and you're super embarrassed about it, then just leave it there, and setup a new date.
You won’t recognize this teenage boy In 10 years if you trip over him on the street.
He broke your boundaries and cheated on you. You should NEVER presume that your partner is “open minded,” especially when it comes to polygamy. Now he’s not taking accountability, he’s just making excuses and making you feel guilty for not being happy for him.
Hate to tell you, but this won’t be the last time he cheats on you. He doesn’t see anything wrong with it, and he still has 2 months with these “temptations.” But now that he saw your reaction, it’ll definitely be the last time he tells you about it.
It’s time to break up
As a wife I would actually feel wayyyyyy more uncomfortable having lunch with someone I suspected my husband was cheating with. It just feels gross and if it were happening I’d feel like I’d have to be competing for some reason.
If there’s ever a woman I feel uncomfortable with I simply ask my partner to not mention them until I grow a bit more comfortable or if it’s important to a story. Them being the super understanding partner that they are understands that I don’t think they’re cheating, I’m just having mental problems and need time to adjust.
It always strikes me as interesting that these “Friendly/flirty” types don’t tend to put their hands on their male colleagues knees, napes of necks, and small of back (my personal fave creep move). And it you have any womenfolk in leadership at your company I’ll bet my right arm he never ever puts his hands on them.
That’s bc those are ppl he has to at least pretend to respect. Does he tell your male coworkers about how handsome they are? How this polo really shows off his arms? No. And if it did happen there’d be sensitivity training for the whole damn staff the very next day.
It’s fucking exhausting and if you comply in they’ll gaslight you into imagining it or make fun of you for thinking you’re so hard or tell you it’s a complement and don’t be such an ice queen.
Honestly, they best thing about getting old and fat is nobody puts their scummy hands on my knees anymore. I found the ONLY way to deal with this sort of loser is to be real fucking clear: do not touch me. It will take multiple attempts. This dudes works everywhere and at every level. He’s a nurse, a doctor. An accountant. Doesn’t matter the education, the problem is he doesn’t think you’re quite a person. Real close to a person but not quite. Which is why he gives himself permission to put hands on you.
You are not an asshole! Can't you see how he's got you all twisted up and taking ownership of the situation when HE CAUSED IT with his reaction? Jesus, he's an emotional abuser. Can't you see that??
A lot of people have a fetish they are not comfortable sharing with their partners. I won't say that's right or wrong, I'm just saying it's more common than you think. Most of those fetishes and fantasies have no parallel in our real lives, and we probably wouldn't act on them – certainly not at the risk of our relationship.
I can't speak to how your GF would react…but a mature partner isn't threatened by a relatively harmless fantasy or fetish. You two, however, may not be all that mature…you may want to talk about fantasies in general to test the waters.
But I'm not convinced that every partner needs to know about private fetishes and fantasies. The images I use to masturbate are really nobody else's business. And the same for my husband – I have an idea, but I don't need to know the details. As long as it isn't criminal, and everybody involved is a consenting adults, I don't care what he thinks about during “private time”.
If you are afraid of her going through your phone and being upset, you may want to start talking with her about it.
you sound like an average selfish and pompous 21 year old. if it’s this big of an issue for you, break up with your girlfriend so that she can find someone who actually gives a shit about her needs and limitations and you can go find your “perfect submissive”