Because at the end of the day he's still someone that I appreciate a lot, he's basically one of my closest friends. I know that he will try to contact me before the 3 months mark btw, I even bumped into him yesterday evening lol. But if he doesn't want to commit, I'll make sure to give him exactly what he wants: a friendship, but with no advantages.
Might be petty of me but I'd make sure to flip the script first and call her the sicko for even having those thoughts in her mind. Call her a pervert, digusting and heartless. Tell her she has no compassion for others and obviously hates and discriminates against disabled people and you have no room for people with that much hate inside them in your life.
Then leave her and block her. This should either leave her feeling like shit or will leave her seething that you reversed it on her. Either one is a win.
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
Because at the end of the day he's still someone that I appreciate a lot, he's basically one of my closest friends. I know that he will try to contact me before the 3 months mark btw, I even bumped into him yesterday evening lol. But if he doesn't want to commit, I'll make sure to give him exactly what he wants: a friendship, but with no advantages.
Why do you stay? Don’t you think you deserve better?
So she doesn't hurt you in day-to-day life, just in that part most people associate with intimacy and trust?
Might I suggest that her cruel treatment of you and her being into the BDSM scene is more than a coincidence?
Might be petty of me but I'd make sure to flip the script first and call her the sicko for even having those thoughts in her mind. Call her a pervert, digusting and heartless. Tell her she has no compassion for others and obviously hates and discriminates against disabled people and you have no room for people with that much hate inside them in your life.
Then leave her and block her. This should either leave her feeling like shit or will leave her seething that you reversed it on her. Either one is a win.
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
You gotta talk to your wife and confront your friend. He crossed a boundary, and your wife went along with it, which she should've known it was weird.