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Date: October 7, 2022
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Exactly. Someone stated this has been going on for 5-6 years or more.
Clearly the husband knows about this history and that nothing has helped the sister and doesn’t want a life of having to be affected by endless visits from her that cause him stress.
I can understand where he’s coming from.
This is just stupid. So if I get together with someone so insecure that they feel the need to police my every move I should just let them because love is irrational? What kind of babble is this? Get your own shit together before advising someone else.
You are a 72 year old man. From the looks of your other interactions it looks like you really spend most of your time on here trying to get under other peoples skin or pass judgement, it seems kinda miserable. All you have shown me is that you shouldn’t be leaving any comments regarding any advice. You don’t know anything about me aside from the 2% of information I just gave you on my relationships. For 25 years old I am doing extremely well for myself. And I know I’m very deserving of a bond as is everyone. Have a great day!
Updateme!
There are some situations that you don’t understand. My parents do not take no for an answer. They cut off my sister and had her sent to Mexico because she stayed with a guy they didn’t like. This isn’t a “live your own life” situation, it’s a “follow the rules or answer to the Patrón” situation.
Nope, the first chance you get, even if it’s a gas station, get out take your bags out and call a friend to come and get you. If he is going to pull this shit now, it’s only get worse. If he thinks your overacting, then just ask why was his mother in the apartment at all? She shouldn’t even be there at all, so no this is not an overacttion, this is an action that requires the both of you to think about what you want in your relationship. If he wants to get closer to mommy, get back in the car and leave without you. If he wants a relationship with you, turn the car around and drive his mother home and then come back to pick you up. If he says that’s too much driving and it won’t work. Calmly repeat these are you choices. Take it or leave it.
In my last relationship, I was miserable and thought that the right partner would make me happy. I found a much better human being as my partner, and I am miserable. I learned that I am the common denominator and should be alone.
No is an acceptable answer here.
UPDATE: She just responded about an hour ago. She said she's been thinking about me too and that she's missed me and is really happy I messaged her. Words can't describe how happy this made me to read from her. There are a lot of life things we need to catch up on, but I'm hoping for the best. Thank you all for your help, you guys gave me the courage to try to get my best friend back. I'm not sure if she'll consider me her best friend again in the future or not, but having her back in my life is enough for me. Again, Thank you.
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thanks for your reply. we've been on and off for 4 1/2 years. we're apart of each other's families now. its very hot. ive ended things with him twice over the past 5 years. its just hot. thank you so much ❤️
Sorry I just have to giggle at HR6.9 form
I wholeheartedly agree with your post. From context exclusiveness should be clear. Yes it could've been specifically stated, but I think your context is rather clear on the matter. If it hurts, it hurts. No matter how “fair” that is, your feeling matter and are always valid
fair. lol
I would not be able to trust anything she says anymore. If she's willing to lie like that, no matter what the cause and situation, I will assume that she will lie again when it suits her. This relationship is done. Good riddance.
As someone who abused and took her abuser back when he pulled something similar it is a big mistake. He claimed he went to therapy and changed. He loved me and would never hurt me again. I was a precious gift. Worst mistake of my life. He then went from emotional abuse to physical and giving me a black eye within two weeks of getting back together. This was in front of my child. She sounds like him. She is the same person who tore his life apart and treated him like scum. I guaranteer that if he goes back her family and her will go back to treating him horribly and probably it will be worse as he will be back under her circle. I know people will say I am projecting but domestic violence (even if just emotional at the time) doesn’t get better but worse. I know you were trying to help but she deserves to feel terrible. She deserves to see him happy with someone who treats him with respect and who actually love him. Abuse is not love. I feel for the kids also living in the vacuum of abuse and seeing their dad treated horribly.
H sounds like a weirdo. “Kind of ex” is so disrespectful. A man in his mid 40's knows this but what's a 21 year old going to do? Nothing. Accept it. Cut ties with him. By this post he sounds like a culty type guy.
Maybe consider your love for the other attached man who is not your boyfriend is based on the fact neither one of you is available to the other. It’s much easier to have strong feelings when the other cannot reciprocate.
As a general comment, many people put way too much emphasis on the time spent in a relationship as if it matters. It doesn’t. It means nothing. The years pass until they don’t. Each day, each moment, you decide if you want the relationship to continue. Most days it should be an obvious yes.
Respect your boyfriend and let him find someone that isn’t doing what you have done to him. Your other boyfriend should do the same. Get busy living.
I love that he openly told you what he felt. That takes courage. Also, knowing his position & choosing to continue a beneficial relationship on your end, knowing how he feels…is also taking a great deal courage.
Sounds like love is there. Real, honest love.
If sex is very important to the both of you, & you want to stay together romantically/platonically but not sexually, can compromise be made together? Can you both seek outside comforts? What about a 3rd party?
I really dont understand these women that insist their boyfriends fight some asshole for them. Fucking people are crazy in the real world and bar fights can end in the most unforeseen ways. I’m sure she would hang around while he is in a coma for a month
I agree
I did a double check, too. I was expecting maybe 20 or 21 years old.
Does your boyfriend ever make you feel heard during an argument? Is there ever any resolution? Does he always just get defensive and shut down?
I don’t know if one, or both of you are being unreasonable, but it definitely sounds like you are incompatible and not making each other happy. You should go to therapy to make sure that you can function, because your reaction is not sustainable, regardless of whether it is reasonable or not. But also you should probably break up because you sound very incompatible and just kind of awful for each other.
I think you've got the message but just to reinforce what has already been said – do not respond. There is nothing that will drive a narcissist as crazy as being ignored.
And there is no message that you can compose that will give you the kind of satisfaction you are after. That will only come from leaving him in your past and living well.
Exactly. Block her ass. Op owes her nothing.
It sounds like alcohol is a problem for you. Lay off the drinking. St Patrick’s day is no excuse for being drunk. You have kids. You sound abusive when you drink. Let this be a wake up call and stop drinking. You are showing your kids a toxic relationship otherise.
Stop dragging it out looking for more excuses to leave. You want to leave, that's enough reason. Also it's cruel to continue letting him go on thinking yall are happy and staying together. Call it off for both your sakes.
YTA.
Oh sorry wrong sub. Looks back at the post
YTA.
He might use this fight as an excuse to make a move. OP, this is an emotional affair. You two REALLY gotta talk.
My first husband was very anti-tattoo but I had one I wanted and I was turning 29 and sick of living by his rules so I did it. He accepted the tattoo fairly quickly but the realization that I didn’t want to live! under his rule stuck and I left less than a year later
My boyfriend is the exact opposite, he moved in and promptly installed a shower enema. He’s an adult and we have an adult relationship, it’s so freaking weird.
this is the second time he violated my body.
How many chances does he get? I don't see why you would trust this boy again.
I don’t know why I’m getting downvoted lol I completely understand what you are saying, but I was talking about her mind set, it’s just what happens at a certain age, well that’s what I’ve seen with basically every friend in my life from the ages 28-32? They all start pressuring or getting anxious about running out of time for those things. At the end of the day you will have to tell her exactly how you feel and see where to go from there, not everyone gets it together before they get married or have children, in the ideal world that would rock but it just doesn’t always happen that way. Hope you two are able to make a decision that works for you both