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Location: South Carolina, United States
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Date: November 3, 2022
Don’t settle for her. You’re not married don’t let it go that far. That’s not normal behavior and you should tell the boyfriends of her friends
You are dating a child, not a man. You know you deserve better than that. If you had received two troubling phone calls prior to jamming with your boyfriend + his roommate, do you think you would’ve slapped his headphones off, shoved him, and told him to fuck off and eat shit? Probably not, because you sound like a reasonable person. Nip this in the bud (cut ties with him) before it spirals. His behavior is inexcusable.
Check my post history lol I'm at work right now
Are you spending more time with your male friends then with him?
I thought to do the same the only issue is that he is coming to sit at all times with me and our mutual friends and that’s the time when he really is taking the piss, also he doesn’t speaks to me when he is alone I guess he feels more powerful with friends around
I’m 5’3” and weigh a lot more than 110lbs – I wear a size 6 and am very healthy.
And three years was…just about the beginning of Covid, amiright? Everyone I know gained some weight.
I agree. If they don’t seek the service, it is not their place to “diagnose”.
At this point, you should take the loss and move on. If you aren't even attracted to them anymore and don't feel romantic about her , then the relationship is over.
She is probably feeling overwhelmed and stressed out. Transitioning isn't just on the outside, it's the inside as well. Getting used to the world around you fter changing yourself is very daunting.
With that said. Respect is respect. She doesn't seem to be able to pull her head out her own ass to see what it has been doing to you. That is not okay.
My advice? Just move on. You can tell her how you feel and your expectations, but that's it. Toy can't make her do anything. The court route is messy and will just add more financial burden and stress.
There are many times in life when people are at different rates of maturity. Maybe when you grow up some you can apologize to him for being an asshole.
I'm MORE CONCERNED THAT YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 34 Year old dude.
If you have daddy issues, unresolved trauma, NO BOUNDARIES, co-dependency issues, no STRONG MOTHER FIGURE…….what you needed was a therapist NOT A 34 YEAR OLD DUDE WHOSE MISSION IS TO GET A NAIVE 18 YEAR OLD TO GROOM AND CONTROL HER ENTIRE LIFE.
Break up, GET SOME REAL HELP, and for the love of God DON'T GET PREGNANT.
Get your mental and emotional issues in order. Whatever got you in a dark place can be resolved WITH TIME AND PROPER THERAPY.
DON'T DATE UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN IN THERAPY FOR 4 YEARS. You are in no position to date, let alone have a boyfriend. You are emotionally and psychologically COMPROMISED.
Sorry I thought it was a sarcastic question. I completely understand your angle.
Block him and call it a day
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The home is already broken. Get yourself out of a marriage that you’re miserable in
So he's a selfish lover. That's what you just said, and let me tell you. Life is too short for mediocre sex with a selfish lover.
That’s great! But unfortunately I think the assumption is that most arrangements aren’t. I can’t speak to OP’s situation, but I do think awareness and consent is more common in these situations than people who haven’t been involved in something similar tend to think.
Yup been together 4 years we fly up and down to see each other
Well, you threatened to break up if he didn't do specific things that he doesn't want to do, but also you “don't want to lose him” so you get to decide what is more important: staying in a relationship with someone you feel isn't there for you, or stand by your ultimatum and break up.
You get to decide.
What did you buy BEFORE the trash bags?
Well, hopefully he learned a lesson
Your friend is embarrassed that you Uno Reversed her. But honestly her take is judgmental and small minded.
Totally agree, it’s super weird. If I was the girlfriend I’d be finding other accomodation for me and my daughter because the dude is either a creep, or, he’s so arrogant he doesn’t give a shit about his partners wishes or his partners daughters comfort levels in the home. Red flags alllll over.
Not phone. But there are other options. Like wearable ones, even a bracelet i think. Of course nothing is completely guarateed other than chipping yourself , maybe that’s what he can offer! jk Although an Instagram influencer wouldn’t be likely to traffic her but still it’s not worth taking the risk.
My wife does the same thing, and sure, it bothered me as growing up that was about the worst thing you could do in my mother's eyes. I got it over it. Now I do it back to her.
he wants to keep working in his computer after work
Just realised I didn't even ask if he's getting paid for all this. I could give a mild pass for “nest egg” stuff, people sometimes get obsessed with that, saving for a mortgage etc…and nest egg could include you. But still, dude needs to online the moment.
Also his expectation of doing this to not work 9-5… is… naive at best. Does this plan come to fruition when he's 65? There's always “the next goal.” I know people do this when they're saving for a house etc… grab the overtime, put the money away etc…
The more you post, the less desirable this situation sounds. Initially I had a bias to give him a pass because I've had those nutty stress jobs, commuting 3 hours a day, barely getting time to breath (no texts) and just work takes over life for some months… and you don't even want it.
Almost sounds like he's courting that situation though. As if he's sacrificing the now for a future that might not happen. The kind of thing he'll regret when he gets older and looks back on it.
You’re no fun. Tell him to find a compatible girlfriend
Why would you want to have sex with a man who treats you like this?
I don't think they're mocking her at all, they're stating facts that are often disregarded and even suppressed
What the?! 7 years together and your bf is still playing these mind games with you? How does he not have 100% trust in you at this point? It sounds like your bf may want a way out. Check if there’s anything happening untrustworthy on HIS part.
Make a donation in her name.
What does she say when you ask her not to do it? Has she ever explained her reasoning? Not that there's a good reason for it, I'm. Just very curious why someone would do this
He had these friends before he started dating you. Meaning that if he were interested in trying to date them he'd have already made his move on that. Since he was single to start dating you that means either he's not interested in these women or he's already shot his shot and been turned down. Ergo, these female friends represent no threat to your relationship. But of course you should work on your insecurities. Get into therapy if you need it to overcome this. If you can't “fix” it it'll color every relationship you ever have.
Maybe the problem is the size of the condom, he should try other sizes and one of them will fit and will be comfortable
Big loud trucks for small insignificant men. When your presence doesn't draw attention you car will, and we're all thinking the same thing. Dam OP, it must suck to be so unsatisfied.
To all the skepticism, it is possible to fall in love very quickly. I say good on you and good luck. Keep it adult, be mature if any unhealthy jealousy or dependency happens then consider ending it but other than that. Have fun.
Cultural differences aren't an excuse for racism. Either marry another Nigerian and please your parents' racism or stay with him. But please don't lead him on and excuse their racism.
I didn't get passed agreements before I saw a solid reason that most people would end a marriage.
I DO say she lied. And I bet that she knows PERFECTLY that she lied. She lied first by saying that they only kissed, unless she counts oral sex as the guy kissing her vagina. Then she lied about not having or wanting sex.
She had ORAL sex. Sex is sex, its not just about having a penis in a vagina, m8.
You cant tell yourself and convince yourself that she has not lied to you :/ But she has, even if you deny it.
I’m having a nude time believing this is real. How do you date someone without any physical affection (kissing, cuddling, etc.) for a full year.
On top of that how did you never have the “are we official”/“I want you to be my girlfriend” talk
That does make it really difficult. Do you or your girlfriend have any family you can go to for help with childcare through this? For breaking up, confrontation is really nude, and it's most important to do it in whatever way feels most doable and safest for you and your child, even if that means just leaving in the night and leaving her a letter. I'm so sorry you're going through this difficult situation.
Any time a guy asks you to drop all male friends, co workers etc it’s a huge controlling red flag.
It is normal for coworkers who get along to congratulate each other or send an occasional benign video.
It’s not normal for your partner to throw a huge snit and got “sleep over” at an exes house.
How convenient he is staying with her and he is trying to twist a very normal text as a way to try and make you think it’s your fault.
This isn’t someone who loves you. Rock on with your promotion, you are worthy of a healthy relationship.
True. But what if this scenario:
You think your wife could be having an affair with her sister’s husband because:
1-He tells you he’s been hanging out with your wife while you’re away on business
2-He walked by you and dropped a pair of women’s underwear in front of you.
3- Your SIL picked a fight with your wife for no apparent reason
4- Your BIL tells you he envies you bc no matter how much your wife strays she always goes back to you.
All this is circumstantial but it really feels like she’s having an affair with her BIL but you have no smoking gun.
What do you do?
Sounds like you’d be dodging a bullet by breaking up, really sounds like your girlfriend is trying to isolate you
You need to cut contact today. He is trying to keep you around in case the other girl doesn't really want him or it does not work out.
He poured a 6 year relationship down the drain? Be thankful. He is a liar.
The other option would be to move to wherever she decides to travel to next instead of her home, but I honestly am not interested in constantly picking up and going wherever the wind blows, never having an anchor point for more than a few years at most. I already have a life here and goals I’m working towards
OP, please stop this. There are numerous places in the US to volunteer if you want to help. El Paso has major problems now and I'm sure could use your help.
Do not listen to all of these jerks talking down to you. I think people tend to forget that the US is one of the most dangerous places in the world.
The number of people dying due to gun violence in the US is higher then in most wars going on with the exception of the war between Russia and Ukraine.
Take off – but of cause be careful!
Block. Him.
What so because your boyfriend doesn't like it you shouldn't accept the property either? No, the property is for your benefit, not his.
LOL like in Muriel's wedding, her dad's mistress kept showing up
Oh hey look it's Deidre
Yeah she might be dealing with something heavy, but you know what? This is why long distance relationships are a bad idea!
Whats the insta my guy
Jfc no wonder he is depressed. Doomed. Why on earth would anyone have a wedding that size, insanity. Poor guy.
Ig if that’s the general consensus.
I don’t wanna be friends with a cheater than at the least.
My dude, 67% of the population has oral herpes. You're an idiot if that's a deal breaker and you don't mention it.
That first of all. Secondly, please cite me the law that says you have to disclose ever having had a cold sore?
The fucking drama. Omg.
Reading between the lines – your fiance's friend has an issue – possibly gambling, addiction. I would move my money before your fiance's generosity puts you in a financial bind.
Why are you concerned who he goes to? Isn't it enough that he has someone?
Marriage isn’t going to fix this level of enmeshment.
You could marry tomorrow and he will still be ditching you to take care of his mother.
This is an issue of boundaries that require your boyfriend to learn about in therapy.
There really IS a subreddit for EVERYTHING.
It is pretty obious that your girlfriend is stepping over boundaries, at the very least to bath in someone elses attention.
It is very telling that she gave out her number to someone she just met while telling you that if the shoe was at the other foot that she would have forbidden it. She obviously knew she was doing something wrong and is now lying to you in order to controll the potential damage.
Furthermore she immetiatly pulled you out of hearing range of her male “friends”, most likely so you couldn't tell everyone that you are her boyfriend.
In my opinion she is either already “stepping outside ” or is right now building a situation to get the chance to cheat.
If you want to stay tell her how the situation is looking for you and that you will not tolerate any kind of “shareing” in your relationship. And that after breaking the trust that it is her task to rebuild it now
If you do not want to stay after this you know what to do. And be honest why you want to end things with her to give her the oppertunity to better herself for the future.