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Date: October 9, 2022
yeah just brush it off. you wouldn't walk up to him and ask him straightaway would you?
Ok I get your point I really do but betrayal seems to be reaching at this point he was honest and said he wouldn’t tell you or unless you asked you asked before hand. Betrayal I don’t see it
If you want to break up, break up.
That is the advice. Be kind, but be firm. Do it ASAP. Otherwise you will have been lying to her face. “I am sorry, but my feelings have changed and I do not want to continue in this relationship. I am breaking up with you.”
Kick him to the curb. He has no respect for you.
I think the best thing is after sessions just to ask, “how did today go? Do you feel like it was productive and helpful?”
Then allow her to share whatever she is willing to share and leave it at that. If it went well, “great, I’m proud of you and your progress”. If she said it was meh or maybe not well, “hey, that’s okay some weeks are just like that, but next session will go better.”
This is pretty similar to the interactions I have with my boyfriend after my sessions. I personally like to share some details with him, but there’s also plenty that I keep to myself.
Dump his ass and never look back, he is negging you and slowly tearing you down. I agree with you, if he doesn’t find you a 9 or a 10, why is he then with you?
I try not to overthink it but it does make me curious
Just because you don’t agree?
Empathy, you either have it or you dont. It’s something he doesn’t have and will never develop.
Just look at how many times you said the world ‘I’ in your post. You aren’t thinking about what’s best for her, you’re thinking about what’s best for you. Does she really deserve someone who would cast her aside while you were in a relationship, but expect her to drop everything for you now that you’re single? That’s not how it works, dude.
Im sorry this happened to you.
A long time ago, my boyfriend of a year told me he needed time to “figure himself out”. There was a lot going on within his family at the time, he was moving, and I figured he was just stressed and needed space. I said ok and we stopped seeing each other for a while. We lived pretty close to each other and his house was on a main street so if I was driving anywhere I'd go past his house. Well one day I noticed a girl getting into a car, having just come out of his house. This girl is one that I was told at one point, I had nothing to worry about. Well apparently I did because he was sleeping with her. He lied and told me he didn't. I asked her, she told me they did, then he lied about what they actually did but admitted that they did something. Anyway, I had my answer. It turns out, he left me for the sole purpose of being able to sleep with her. They were talking while we were together. He was very apologetic and I genuinely thought he was sorry and regretted it. We got back together 2 weeks later. A month later he cheated on me and broke up with me AFTER it happened.
I'm not saying your guy did it on purpose but I am saying that it is entirely possible.
I'd say track everything she does like when she goes and how she goes and if you get a chance try and catch her potentially doing anything I'm the act. It seems suspicious.
Hey there, aro/ace woman here.
This is definitely a difficult situation and I think the main issue isn't whatever his sexuality is, but the fact that he doesn't communicate with you. He might be scared of losing you, but no matter what his reasoning is – he isn't talking openly to you and a lack of honest, open communication makes every relationship bad, if not even toxic. Just look at how it has ruined your self-confidence, self-worth and self-esteem! This relationship isn't healthy and his lack of communication is actively causing you harm.
Beyond that, when it comes to asexuality, you need to understand that being asexual doesn't mean you're also aromantic. Someone might be sex-averse, but still be utterly in love with their partner. That said, people can also be asexual and homoromantic, biromatic or panromantic – or heteroromantic.
You wrote that he is “a bit too concerned” what the men in his life think. That's really not very detail-rich. Does he care about how they think he looks or something? Because I feel like this doesn't say anything about his attraction to a gender. Some people, especially those with bad family histories, are sometimes trying way too hot to be accepted by their peers. Especially if your boyfriend never dated anyone before the last guy in his friend group got married, it's likely that he was always an outsider and had gotten mocked for his lack of partner in his younger years – I wouldn't be surprised if he grew up trying badly to fit in and be one of the “cool guys” despite being different from the rest.
Unfortunately, there is no magical way to make your boyfriend spill the beans and explain what he is feeling or thinking. Either he wants to – or he doesn't. But you should take him refusing to communicate with you as a sign that you are caught in an unhealthy relationship. I don't know how often you communicated with him that you thought your sex-life was unsatisfying or or unhappy you have become, but if you did and he didn't react, then he also doesn't care about you.
That said, him sleeping turned away from you means nothing. I just asked in my friend group and 90% sleep turned away from their partner. Apparently, the other person's breathing is a hindrance to falling asleep or sleeping facing the end of the bed is easier in general (better air, feeling less of the partner's movements).
He does know that but he sees me doing it as a way to get her to compliment me. He gets annoyed when I offer for his guy friends to stay for dinner bc he says I only do it so people will compliment me and since I like the compliments then my actions aren’t genuine.
I mean, the foundation of their relationship was built on this 28 year old knocking up a (hopefully) 18 year old. Could have been less, if you consider gestation.
If that's the foundation of your relationship, it says a lot about what advice we can give. Like, good luck. You got into a relationship with someone who likes to be a dominant partner, and is likely to be abusive and controlling.
If you ask someone what they want, and they answer, just do what they want. No need to improvise when you know the answer
Sounds like he had a good time on his date with her. s/
OP you need to be honest with him about your feelings over this situation & about him prioritizing another woman over you. Speak up & don’t let him gaslight to believe he did nothing wrong.
Given how you respond to conflict with weird emotionally manipulative mind games I’m guessing you’ve given her more reasons not to trust you than just smelling like perfume once.
This is the sequel for the other Reddit post where the husband, and his dad planned on killing the wife after she had her baby.
A paternity test closes the open question of whose the child is. It does not heal the wound caused by his behavior.
If I were OP, no apology would make up for treating me like a cheater. And the bit about him trying to put another baby into OP so it will be his is just ducking nuts.
Time to decide if this relationship can be healed. I am sorry.
You’re right. I just need to figure how to go about it in the most tactful way
Neither of you should be bringing any side pieces around your kid unless you’re both CRYSTAL clear on boundaries such as no parenting by partner, no meaningful interaction between child and partner, no gifts for child from partner. I agree calling the man uncle could circumvent some awkwardness of your lifestyle getting out at her school but regardless y’all were extremely irresponsible allowing your extra curriculars into your home around your child. Go to a motel or their houses if you want to bang so badly. Your child has no place in your sex life.
I wish more people realized that when you become a parent your job is to protect your kids from any harm- that harm includes their other parent or your partner.
You are doing to find and feel just how little she loves you if you choose option 2. This is monkey branching. Never be someone’s second choice. You will never be a priority for her going forward and she will always prioritize him over you.
Do you guys have sex? Sounds like you both need to … take some edge off.
Fair enough. I don’t play OW. I heard OW2 was a rocky launch. But if playing with your friends don’t help then you should just straight up find a FWB or just… service yourself I guess?
Post-nut reality is real lol. You are pent up on meeting someone for romance so you just need to get that out of your system (in a healthy way of course).
I’m sorry but I think you completely have the wrong idea. I only talked about all of this stuff and tried putting my finger inside her for the first time that night because she has literally told me unprovoked she wants to have sex and do everything with me eventually but wants to continually try more things. I’m willing to wait a long time and I told her that, I’m just scared in the future that she won’t end up enjoying it at all and my first time will not be a good experience for me and her. I just want advice if girls are usually afraid about doing stuff like this and have the same worries about their first time my gf has.
this sounds like a very toxic, unhappy, broken situation all around.
it's clear that neither of you are happy or satisfied. your lifestyles are incompatible.
his life seems pretty incompatible with any long-term, committed relationship at the moment. your whole life centers on HIS life and work schedule. what kind of life is that?
imo, a pretty empty, sad, and unfulfilling one. because you sound empty, sad, and unfulfilled by it.
if it were me, i'd probably cut this off and start fresh elsewhere. it sounds so draining, frustrating, and exhausting.
does that sound about right?
No worries! 🙂
Stop having sex with her, she’s clearly trying to get pregnant
Is that your benchmark? That he DIDN'T hit you?
I feel very sad for you. Honestly, this man sounds abusive. That is not a stable environment.
Have you thought of leaving him? You should consider it.
God forbid adults have an honest conversation
I hope so
You just leave, and if he threatens to self harm, you call the police and ask for wellness check, that he's threatened his life.
omfg! when you marry her its automatic responsibility – you are responsible for the baby. That's why everyone here is wondering why you continue with the engagement when its auto broken when she gets pregnant by another man + when you don't want anything to do with the baby in every aspects of it but still want to marry her !!!???
what is wrong with you? with all your replies here you are totally unrealistic & illogical with the dynamics of having a family.
If you don't want to have ANYTHING to do with the baby that is NOT YOURS then don't marry her as YOU WILL have to do everything for the baby. You cannot just marry the mother & ignore the baby.
If somebody tells you they want to date a good christian girl right out of the gate, you should run for the hills. That's just a codename for “a submissive woman who will always do what I want and not have her own opinion”.
And aside from this thing he’s great.
Dude's a classic fundamentalist mysoginist. This statement doesn't work. Everyone can be fun and good to spend time with, when they're currently not proselytizing anyone with their toxic views. Doesn't mean it's good to have a relationship with them.
If you want him to prove to you what he really is, just tell him the truth about your sexual history. His reaction might be a bit unpleasant though so do it at your own risk.
That's good. I gave you that link without making any comments just so that you can see for yourself that proposing an open relationship to a monogamous person very, very rarely goes well. The vast majority of the time, the person in your bf's position will just feel deeply hurt. They'll feel like you're telling them that you want to cheat. And they'll wonder why they aren't enough for you.
Even if all the other things are just right, if this one thing (his physical condition) isn't enough for you, then you should just tell him that if he doesn't start taking care of himself, you're going to end up leaving him. Or you should just go ahead and leave him.
Despite what other commenters are saying, there's nothing wrong with wanting a partner that values something (in this case fitness) as much as you do. Just don't keep the relationship on life support hoping that he'll suddenly change one day.
Why are there so many emasculated and weak minded men? is it in the water?
I think you're reading too much into it too early for just 1 date, plus the “I miss you” text is a lot (IMO) for a first date and tbh would be ick and make me uncomfortable. It would make me think clingy.
This is grossly inappropriate. I don’t see anything wrong with him remaining friends with his ex as long as it is established they’re both totally fine remaining platonic, but him saying he loves him and knowing the ex is still jealous is major red flags.