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Hey Susan^_^ [Multi Goal]
Date: December 21, 2022
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Why don’t you just ask him to stop bringing women up in conversation with you until you get a handle on things?
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He’s negging you
As someone who is 5 days post partum…this really made me emotional.
A couple days ago I watched a movie; dude got off work early and went home to see his wife getting banged, and I became irrationally hysterical thinking about how my husband would feel if I cheated on him.
I also keep having dreams of our son not being his. It’s really fucking me up.
I’m so sorry OP. My heart is hurting so much for you. I wish I could give you a Mom Hug. I would surely be banned if I were to say what I really think of your girlfriend.
I hope you have some support. Friends, family…anyone. Please reach out to someone. You shouldn’t be alone in this.
You need to have a heart to heart with her, and Tell her you will steer clear of her husband in the meantime.
Trans people can pass and your silly little cis ass doesn't always know. I work in an auto shop completely staffed with men and I am stealth.
I refuse to believe that this is a thing
So there’s one of two possibilities:
She’s irrational and can’t make up her mind. Don’t let her get to you, she’s the confused one.
She thought you were trying to seduce her by being shirtless and was being sarcastic about it. Thought it was a douche bag move after she decided to go slow and decided to block you.
Not really sure which is it. I’m guessing its 1.
I’m gonna need more info here.
Have you ever asked this of your previous partners?
Is there something that you are looking for or are you just being nosey and trying to take control?
OP, I can't get passed the STD thing, from the OG post. If she's such a child she won't take care of herself or protect you, how is she going to handle a kink? I guarantee she's LGBTQ positive because she saw it on social media, and “you're supposed to be”.
Do I salute a red flag or avoid it?
I think the 'stop expecting sex' is going to be the major thing here. Unless OP can start rebuilding intimacy with his fiancee WITHOUT sex – for quite a while – she's going to continue feeling like he's just sitting there stewing about when the next time is he can pressure her for sex. Which it frankly sounds like he's doing. NOTHING puts me off feeling like sex as much as someone pressuring me FOR sex.
Or you could do the planned method and schedule sex like an adult and start taking pills 2-3 days before D day and then come off the pill.
compromise is a thing where you don't have to go all the way to an extreme yes or no.
there are other birth control options.
She was up front about that in her first comments I was 18 and in HS bc of when my birthday falls so what's your point?
Sorry not seeing any smoking guns here
Yeah no it's not complex at all you were 16 even if you were 18 it's still creepy he was creeping on you. Guy is a clear pedo
“He breaks things when angry”
That right there rang all the bells, atleast for me. I understand anger, I have struggled with anger issues all my life. But that's MY problem and should never manifest itself into destruction of even my own property. It took therapy to realize I was in the wrong when I'd fling a phone into a wall, or punch a hole in the drywall. There are healthy ways to deal with the anger, but as you said, he is unwilling to get help.
If you keep looking for red flags, but ignoring the scarlet and maroon flags he's putting up…. You know what I mean? I understand too well the feeling of loving someone but also knowing that it's not a healthy relationship. I was lucky enough it ended amicably.
I really hope things turn out well, however it looks. Whether he gets the help he needs so the relationship can keep going, or you end it with him for your own mental health. I really feel for you both here.
Just make an exit plan as soon as possible. This is horrible.
Move on.
Then I’d bring it up to her by telling her about the upcoming stress test. That’s a pretty organic way to roll it out.
Meh, it could be purely a snap-chat issue, that existed and was fixed. All those communicator catch problems from time to time.
Incidentally, did you ask her where she was at the time?
You should edit this detail into your main post, OP
Who do you value more, your husband or her?
I'm a woman, and I hate giving head.
While this reads like some creative writing, your wife hit you. Do what you will with it. I suspect nothing.
My advice is that you are still so young. I mean this sincerely, take a moment to answer these questions for yourself:
Why do you want to talk to her?
What are you looking to get from her?
What issues do you want to bring up that you think can be resolved?
Will she want to resolve them?
Will she actually resolve them?
Were I in your position, I would send something like:
“I have tried to get a conversation going, but you keep blowing it off, so here is the truth; I cannot continue this relationship anymore. You know full well that is in love with you, and it feels to me like you are leading him on. At the very least, you are letting him hang on with those feelings. I feel disrespected by that.
But even more so, I feel disrespected that you are starting and abandoning conversations to go hang out with him. I am not happy, and it is clear you do not care if I am happy or not. I need to move on for my own well being. Do not attempt to contact me anymore. And look at the bright side; at least now you can officially get with “