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Rage, lust and greed sound like a dangerous combination to me. Have you ever thought you should have something just because you want it? Just taken something you wanted because you knew you could?
Give me a thorough definition of rape and outline how you’re dealing with your anger issues and I would be deeply relieved.
Either enforce your boundary by dumping him, or drop it completely. There really isn't any other option (except maybe regularly sending him setting videos to get off to).
Warn her first. If she doesn't come get the cat, get rid of it. (Not in a cruel way.)
I've owned cats all my life. I'd be pissed too.
Hey OP, I really wanna recommend the short story “Definitely Not” by Yasmine Lever. You might find it enlightening.
I've experienced your situation from the other side. It has changed me as a person and for a while I was quite resentful that the person who wouldn't stop when I told them that I wasn't comfortable to continue will never even realise that they did something wrong in the first place (even though J did tey to discuss it later on). I know that you didn't mean to hurt your ex and that this is probably a really difficult thing to deal with for yourself. Maybe you will get another chance to talk about it and even learn something for the future.
You don't make him cum til he makes you cum. Put your foot down ffs.
It's understandable to feel worried and overwhelmed right now. It might help to talk this out with your girlfriend. Have an honest conversation where you can both be open and vulnerable about what's been going on in the relationship lately, and create a plan of action together that works for the both of you. This would likely ease some worry from overthinking, because you will have a clearer understanding of the situation if it is discussed openly.
At the same time don't forget about taking care of yourself first! Allow yourself to take breaks from this mental energy by doing something relaxing such as reading or listening to music for example – things that bring joy into your life rather than stress or anxiety. Lastly, I would recommend speaking with a professional therapist if needed – discussing these worries with someone neutral could also provide clarity as well as helpful resources and advice to continue healthy communication within your relationship.
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Sorry bro
Yeah make a move bro, don’t wanna be the asexual nice guy friend in x months time back posting this same post
Honestly, grow a pair and be a father and uncle.
You haven't bought your daughter anything for her bday for 2 years because of fear of criticism from your wife? Wtf is that?
If your wife was a kind person, a decent wife, she'd want you to be the best father you can be. She'd encourage it. She wouldn't let children suffer for her happiness.
You, your daughter and your nieces are a package deal. Any decent woman would accept that. They'd celebrate it.
Either get counseling with your wife and fix this ASAP or divorce her. Your daughter always, always comes first. She has one father. You can get another wife.
No I need a dentist for my feet. Pronto
I'm guessing I have seen more fights than you and seen more of my friends get hurt while defending others. You might be right about him but you don't know. A much more likely scenario is that he recognised that he was her bodyguard in this situation.
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She literally said that ? why you beating a dead horse.
I will get downvoted, I know, people defend this shit all the time, but I'll still say it because someone might need to hear it:
If the only reason you broke up with your ex was incompatibility as a couple and you have no naked feelings between you, and you CAN NOT stay platonic friends because you had sex with them before, you need to go see a therapist and get mental help. That shit ain't normal or healthy.
He sounds like a peach
Yeah, that's a really crappy excuse for not telling you he was working out with another woman in your home. This is one of those things that shouldn't be a big deal, but potentially becomes a deal when a partner tries to hide it.
Hiding it makes it suspicious.
Thank you for your response. I think I could forgive and move forward if he apologized and took responsibility but I don’t think he wants that. I think he wants to be friends just to soothe his own guilt and conscience ?.
Funny enough he broke it off with me before I could pull the trigger. The conversation went so fast. I think he said something like “I don’t want this relationship,” and I agreed.
I was hoping that maybe it wasn’t a show. That he’s just not good at expressing himself and that him being nice to me is a way of communicating…but I think I’m foolish for thinking this…he has to apologize properly.
I’m so sad. I meant so little to him
She's not going to stop chatting with people over your discomfort. If this is a real boundary, break up. If it's a preference, accept things how they are.
Not much of a middle ground to be found here.
You mentioned a few things in your post I don't know what you are exactly asking tho.
Are you worried that he wants to cheat, the names, roll playing?
Send this Oompa Loompa sounding bitch down the chocolate river to your attorney
Dude, you’ve got a whole decade+ on this chick….what the fuck do you really have in common with her? Leave that shit alone and move on.
used to be like you. I'm 32 now, in a happy stable relationship with a girl I share common interests with.
The girl I had a crush on when I was 20 who I used to go to the club with and watch her leave with her abusive ex is now a single mother after having two kids with her drug dealer and marrying him.
She really has matured so much and I'm happy for her… but some people need to go on a journey that you don't want to join them on.
You can do so much better. You don't need to put up with that! Leave his immature ass.
Did you actually talk with her? What is she like? What did she say?
Well that’s going to be an interesting conversation when she is back. I would at least send Her a note. So who is sharing the bed with the dude and WTF
Never start a relationship or be in one thinking someone needs to change. Be with a person who is already the person you want. Im proud of you for starting therapy. Boundaries and learning how to never accept misogynists near you is so so important to learn.
Leave dudes a fucking dumbshit
He’s simply trying not to slip back into old habits. If he does you’ll leave him and your friends and family will take your side so he has to be on his toes or he feels he’ll lose everything.
At some point he’ll crack though
She’s an anonymous person. What difference does it make? Her privacy isn’t compromised at all
Dump and block him. If he kills/harms himself not your problem. Though a word of advice is to let your place of employment know about him along with a picture to be on the safe side. If he tried anything be quick to get a protective order from the cops. He doesn't have to let you break up. You want to end things so you do.
Being able to coparent and provide a stable environment for your son is way more important than this relationship. If your current gf can’t get on board then she is not the one for you.
Write her by hand a love letter.
I think an almost 40 year old “deeply unhappy” about lack of social media validation is a little off. She wants you to acknowledge her on social media when you're sitting right next to her. To me, that's weird.
the main options for sudden loss of interest in sex are cheating, health (whether physical or mental), or following out of love. pick your poison
Then you need to contact your local police department and let them know. Always stay alert. Let others in your classes know what is going on, use them for eyes and ears. Always be with someone at all times until this is settled and for at least 3-4 months after. Never let your guard down even after 3-4 months.
OK, let's say all that is true.
What relationship advice are you looking for? YOU don't control her behaviour, and HE doesn't control her behaviour. If he's engaging with her it's because he chooses to. (And you don't control HIS choices or behaviour either.)
Did; doesn’t answer my question, and the other major reply thread didn’t agree with you. And you’ve been told multiple times to ask and listen. Not much more we can tell ya, kiddo.
thank you for sharing your experience. I am and will seek help because I am tired of feeling this way also
Really hate to say this but from a woman's perspective? You're screwed. This relationship is over. She will never get that image out of her head and it will cause argument after argument. She won't be able to give you a blowjob now and your sex life will go out the window. She's also probably gonna be worried about you recording her and doing the same when she's your ex. It's over, you destroyed the trust completely and that's the foundation of a healthy relationship.
This is so sound and comforting. I just wish I didn't love him so much, or at least have these intense feelings for him. I wish he could've cared about me the same way, and he does a little, but its not enough i guess.
Fuck can you stop describing me and my anxiety response plx it hurts
Sorry, I should’ve elaborated in the post. I don’t think his desire for privacy is wrong at all. It’s a double standard type thing. He memorized my phone password, he always wants to see who I’m texting or what I’m doing on my phone, etc. however, if I ask the same, he gets upset and offended because I don’t trust him.
A few of the reasons I want to be able to touch his phone :
• I want to be able to move it (like if he set it on my computer or my bed) without him getting upsetting because I touched his phone. • He still texts his exes. We’ve discussed this before, and he knows I feel about it. I’ve expressed I would like to, on occasion, see some of the texts between them just to ease my anxiety while we rebuild trust in therapy. • This one is probably dumb, but I’d love to be able to take cute pics of myself for him or sometimes post a little hacked pic on his snap or something just to be cute because he likes getting pics of me. It makes him happy.
As for trust, I’ve offered to give him access to everything on my phone before. He’ll say he doesn’t want it because he trusts me, then look over my shoulder constantly to see what I’m doing, constantly wanting to know who I’m texting, etc. All things I can’t ask him without having to apologize to him afterwards.
Also, I’m very aware I don’t fully trust him yet. He’s aware of this too. We’re currently working to rebuild that trust. As for the throwaway account, I’m using it so it isn’t linked to my other Reddit account because I have some personal stuff on it.