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Since you can not tell what some one is thinking unless you talk to them. The best option here is to come out early and express your concern to him and what your plan are. Waiting might not be the best option as time is being wasted. What I can say is that communication is paramount in any relationship so you need to talk about it. I have very help full posts about relationship of which I will recommend. Just check my profile for posts.
He's too busy in college for a job I guess, and I offered to help. And it's kind of snowballed. He had a job before, but it got in the way of class. He graduates in 2 years. I'm just starting to reevaluate everything. This is not how I want to be feeling.
Most people aren't interested in helping others with their baggage. They'll lie and convince themselves they care, but really they don't.
Definitely ok to feel creeped out by the dude. However, it sounds like you are asking your friends to accept your feelings and terminate a friendship with Frank based on your feelings about him. That is unreasonable. Keep your actions to what you can control for yourself, and not try to control what others do or should do as that will cause you many problems in life. If he creeps you out don’t participate with your friends when Frank is around. It is fair to say he creeps you out and you don’t want to be around him.
I see your point, that makes a lot of sense out into perspective
The flags are looking quite red…
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Since the two of you started from a friendship I assume there was a meeting of minds besides the physical attraction and that you found him to be an empathetic, intelligent human being.
He might be just clueless but it seems to me that he is doing everything wrong.
If you still want to give your relationship a try (I'm not sure I would in your place) you need to call off any form of sexual contact and topic of conversation off, take a pause if you will, and see if there is something to salvage on a human level.
If you see that you still care about each other, you can try to approach the sexual sphere again – provided he shows you that he can do it gradually and respec your boundaries.
I don't think he is the man to go on such a journey with, though, op. You need someone who has more of a clue, frankly, who will listen to you the first time and who demonstrates a shred of empathy when he's horny too.
Don't have an affair, get a divorce. She is already checked out. Cheating would only make you more of “the bad guy” in the situation.
I wouldn't recommend couples counseling at this point but you can always benefit from seeing a therapist for your own individual issues.
Break up with her. You're incompatible! She should not be trying to manipulate you by claiming you HAVE to open the relationship in order to, “cooperate.” Cooperation requires BOTH people to agree to something. You don't WANT this and she does. Break up.
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I’d be leery as to true Intentions. People don’t change overnight, let alone in 2 years. Ask him if wants to talk on the phone then be Frank with him and ask why he really wants to get together. If it’s genuine you’ll know. Always trust your gut.
Your husband is verbally and emotionally/mentally abusing you. I have an EXCELLENT idea about how you can lose a ton of weight really quickly: DUMP HIM.
If you need couples' counseling in less than a year, it's not worth it.
You're telling me feet is the ONLY fetish you have!? That's the issue here… you obviously can't tell her the truth but you must have other fetishes or things you like? If not you can say something about not having any particular like…hardcore fetish but you're certainly into exploring and finding new ones and ask if she has any she wants to explore. Possibly even offer something to explore with her?
In an unrelated way you could also offer for her to get pedicures with you or on her own. I know it won't fix things but you have to admit it wouldn't HURT to have them look the best they could.
Like a bow around a tiny pecker. Still small but now it has a bow!
I was already questioning prior to his jealous outburst due to him asking my brother highly inappropriate questions, being very touchy with him when he isn't with anyone else and having a strange guilty reaction on multiple occasions when I happened to notice him scrolling through my brother's Instagram account. It came out because I asked him why he was acting so strangely when he got angry with my brother for spending time with his bf – he escalated straight gto asking “Are you accusing me of wanting to f//k your brother?” when I didn't reference my concerns at all.
He wasn't openly bisexual. Apparently he has known he was bisexual since he was a teenager but he never told me or spoke about it to anyone.
Tel him he is harassing and u will call the police next.
It isn’t love- he is unable to respect “no” and can’t handle not being able to control you. Toxic.
They are referring to this comment.
OP does clearly state they are able to pay their bills and contribute to savings.
Thanks for that. So OP is changing his story.
She's 23 and living with friends, of course she wants to go out and enjoy herself. Why does it bother you so much? What do you want reassurance about? Why did you both say you'd never go clubbing?
It's understandable that you're upset that she seemed disconnected about your job interview. Is she generally showing less interest in the relationship?
People who deal with trauma hide things well enough trying to be normal. This may just be a dude who doesn’t know how to communicate these things. Most people who experience trauma don’t readily share it, despite whatever picture Reddit portrays.
But I totally get what you mean, that things like this can be communicated. But it’s not necessarily the red flag people think it is. It’s a difficult topic. Speaking from experience.
I don't think it's too soon to ask for that if you're feeling the chemistry from her side, too. I say go for it.
You are being used for one thing, and one thing only. Block and move on.
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oh you worked so naked especially with med school. you absolutely deserve to go to your graduation. you deserve to celebrate yourself and your accomplishments. let people be mad at you. congratulations!
I mean, oral sex is still sex…
But, maybe it's just because I'm older now, I wouldn't really give a fuck. They had a fling, it is what it is. As long as they aren't still flirting or wanting to date or whatever, then it's in the past, and apart from sexual health issues, it can stay in the past.
People have pasts, and we don't need to erase evidence of them to assuage the insecurities of our current partners.
Even still his response is out of proportion if you are being a reliable narrator. I suspect that you have been pursuing this for quite some time to the point of annoyance leading to him snapping at you.
You both are out of line.
Put all your stuff you can fit in YOUR car and drive it as far away from this man as you can. His behaviour is violent, unhinged and unpredictable and you are in danger.
Do you have a dental college around you? They do dental work for very cheap.
Some people are just “peace builders” who feel that being able to get along with everyone is virtuous. But keep working on yourself in therapy. You don't have to keep her in your life if this bothers you. However, we won't always approve of everything our friends do and people making decisions that benefit them (but not us) doesn't necessarily mean they're “disrespectful”. She's entitled to do what she wants and you have the power to either associate with her or not. Sounds like she's already put in a lot of time and energy on you. Believe it or not it's not fun or pleasant to have a friend in a bad relationship who talks about it all the time. So maybe cut her some slack. She doesn't owe it to you to fight your battles for you.
You earn respect which gentle authority, you don't instill it with force. Are you a cop?
Supposedly they we’re watching TV and she had to be somewhere early
Honestly I dated someone that did this sometimes and it made me sooooo upset and insecure. Dating someone like this lowers your self esteem and gives you issues so the time you find a kind guy, you don’t even know what to do with him.
It’s very disrespectful. He’s lying to you and doing whatever he wants knowing you would not be okay with it. He doesn’t care about your feelings. He’s using you to masturbate. It’s not okay at all.
I’m dating someone now who doesn’t even watch porn at all at my request, never mind watching it while lying to me or watching it while I’m right there. We watched it together once or twice and that’s COMPLETELY different because we both consented and if I seemed uncomfortable, he would ask me if I’m okay. This is the kind of respect you deserve too.
OP, you are just 1 in a soon to be long line of women who will leave him (if she's smart). His mother did him a great disservice in raising him to be her replacement husband. Waste no more time on Momma's boy.
I’d dump him.
As someone who has had a series of bad interactions with birth control of many types over twenty years, a man who prioritized his pleasure over the risks to your health is not worth being in a relationship with because they are more likely to not be there for you when you need their help.
The man I chose to marry has repeatedly demonstrated that it’s more important to him that I be happy and pain free. For him me being in pain is a libido killer.
Stop seeing him!!! It doesn’t matter what he is saying when he is drunk. He is not planning on being in a relationship with you again. Do not give him all the perks of being in a relationship with you, without his commitment.
As a partner I would at least want an explanation.
So “on what grounds” couple internally IS a valid question!
She may “not need to stage anything”.
But by the way it looks, seing their agreement from 2 years ago, she did.
Point out the behaviour calmly and ask her why she does it.