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Date: October 24, 2022
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But idk what to do about this? I don’t want to be like this. Do I just trust that my partner wasn’t that person back then unless he has given me a reason to think that?
Personally, I think so. I think it’s really unhealthy to be obsessing over everyone your boyfriend follows and likes photos of in the first place. This is some girl he dated years ago, and it sounds like you’re thinking about her way more than he is.
It’s not working (No pun intended) OP and it’s highly unlikely to improve. If you are going to make a big decision (and this is definitely life changing) as the saying goes, there’s no time like the present. If you were going to be really civil about it. You’d sit him down and tell him that you are no longer willing to share a life with someone who prioritises game playing over honest endeavour and ambition. Then exit stage left. Good luck.
He literally told OP that if she ever got fat that he'd leave her, brags about the age gap between himself and OP, and acts proud that OP is younger than him. Those sound indicative of a man who's shallow enough to value youthful beauty over a long term emotional connection. Why would OP feel secure in this relationship? She says herself, after reading his old DMs and thinking back on his behavior, that she worries he'd trade her in for a younger girlfriend. And given that he went to prom with an 18yo and hung out with actual CHILDREN in a romantic setting, I'm guessing he likes them too young for comfort. He also lied to OP and said OP was the youngest he ever dated and still keeps the former 18yo gf on IG, so it doesn't sound like he is particularly remorseful there. Lack of accountability for your actions is a big red flag for a partner's morality. Cheaters don't take accountability, and neither do liars.