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Date: November 25, 2022
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Yes it's cold sores, but I read it can spread to genitals and eyes and there's no cure for it
OP, I am sorry if this is way out of line, but does your bf have BPD? I know this is clearly abusive behavior from him, im just wondering if he’s ever seen a therapist because I recognize this pattern of explosive emotions and apology and it could be undiagnosed mental illness. Doesn’t make it any better, doesn’t excuse anything. I’m just wondering if something is going on that treatment could help with. Please take care of yourself and regardless, remember you have not done any wrong here.
Ok. They were just asking for context
It sounds like your partner may have unrealistic expectations of how you should behave in social situations, and that he is not taking your feelings and preferences into account. It's important to remember that you are your own person and you should not be expected to behave in a certain way just because your partner wants you to. If you are not enjoying yourself in social situations, it's okay to politely excuse yourself or to let your partner know how you feel. In a healthy relationship, both partners should respect each other's boundaries and feelings. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about how you are feeling and what your needs are. If your partner continues to disregard your feelings and expectations, it may be worth considering breaking it off.
WTF
“Coercion” is the committing, or threatening to commit, any act forbidden by the Penal Code or the unlawful detaining or threatening to detain, any property, to the prejudice of any person whatever, with the intention of causing any person to enter into an agreement.” That’s what cohersion means . Stop changing the meaning of words or legal terms based on your own subjective feelings.
I know you didn't ask, you imbecile. I told you to show that you are not the moral arbiter for how people should feel or what determines truth. The fact that you continue to hurl personal insults with no basis is honestly just sad and shows that you are truly incapable of using logic at all or that you are seriously delusional. He admitted to nothing because we do not have the relevant facts of what happened after she mentioned it. There is a whole suite of responses she could have given that would have re-established consent that we are not aware of right now because of the details given.
The way you are responding honestly sounds like victim blaming to me and confirms how dangerous you and people like you are to society. Literally, all that can be said of the situation as is “You may have raped her. We need more info.” That is it. If you think more can be established than that, you are truly delusional.
Again i worked in schools, was around kids like this all the time. Never thought much about it. Common for me based from observation. But its cool dont have to agree
I had a topper with wax in it, it dissipates heat from your body, so nice and cool when you first get in!
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Get over it . We all have past loves that are now moved on .listen to some songs and be done. she's not coming bk. You shouldnt have gone And never meet her again .you are a 32 yo man
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Dude wants a mommy to take care of him and not a partner. I would run before you get too invested and get your heart broke.
The abuse gets worse over time. It never gets better. Don’t be like me and wait until she pulls a knife on you and then STILL don’t break up with her because you’re self esteem is shattered. You’ll be okay but you gotta look after yourself and move on from this.
Try this… think… relationships aren't power struggles. Be yourself. let him be himself. If it doesn't work, you're not compatible.
Let me clarify, I’ve known her for almost a year, been officially dating a 3 months. So yes, my child who met her as my friend at first doesn’t mind her company..
She's just always like this and overreacting over every little thing, she exaggerates everything all the time to me, so I'm not surprised she exaggerating again?
for example she would say the neighbours are playing loud music and when I go check it's barely noticeable
This, just honestly show him this post and all the replies saying he's gross and trying to pretend his views are all men's views, and other men are literally saying in the thread that this is stupid young guys talk.
Do guys look? Sure. They are biologically programmed to. Do they have the ability to control themselves? Absolutely. They cover women up in other countries by pretending men can't control themselves and the rest of the world thinks that's barbaric because they know it's not true. So he can control himself to look, move on, and be respectful to the relationship he apparently wants.
You want to marry someone, or have a life, buy a house, have kids… you're not sitting drooling over all the girls like you can't believe your eyes they exist and are attractive. Like, get drunk enough and have one of those girls start talking to or flirting with him… someone with this obsessive thirst isn't likely to show good commitment.
He needs to grow the fuck up or be single.
You clearly have your opinions. Let me know when you can keep a baby daddy
Firstly, this is one of the oddest and funniest things I've ever seen on Reddit. So, kudos for that achievement.
If it's really just about food, do you think it's okay to ask him for a recipe? Or, will that open a Pandora's box of history and emotions?
That's why I'm thinking her coworkers were jealous of them. She had a devoted, intelligent, successful partner.
Sounds like gf is very pretty and they probably used that to make her think she could do better.
Good for OP for not immediately forgiving her. If he had, she would have seen it as a weakness and been even more susceptible to her coworkers.
This is what it looks to stick to your guns. Good for you!
The reason why I had sex with her is so she didn't feel rejected and wondering what was going on.
When I saw her genitals, I wanted to leave in that moment, but I didn't. You really need to improve your reading comprehension.
Idk, i think people are looking over the fact that OP reports that she told him that she doesn’t love him as much. If OP's wife isn’t feeling in love with him, it makes sense that his effort towards affection would make her want to pull away. This seems more than being touched out.
Cheaters that don’t learn from their own pain (or don’t feel any of the pain they cause others) will cheat again. A minority of cheaters are one-and-done, usually because they are young and stupid. Over 25, you cheat once, yeah, those odds aren’t great anymore. But it’s oversimplification to say nobody learns their lesson. Just… almost nobody.
Do not do this! He doesn’t sound trustworthy at all. And don’t buy a house with someone you aren’t married to.
I do understand why you are upset that he pushed you out of the room to pleasure himself.
He could have done it in another room.
It sounds like you do not mind that he masturbated a lone but he pushed you out of the room so that he can pleasure himself and he did not even tell you.
The best solution is to speak to him about it, let him know what has made you feel upset about it. No one can tell you you should not feel upset about it.
There are a few things that i would like to bring up.
Him masturbating should not be an issue, it is only a problem if it affects your sex life in a negative way. So where you wanted to have sex but he does not because he has already finished and now you are left all going dry again.
Porn is a risky topic because some guys do not understand howmuch is bad and how it can affect their partner. Personally, I use my GF's nudes to masturbate and I love it! I fortunately does not need other porn at all but if he uses porn a lot to get off, that will be a problem.
You need to try to initiate sex with him more, you know his sex drive is higher than yours, so even if you are not horny, suggest to give him a handjob or a BJ and play with his penis until he cum. I promise you that will bring you two closer together and it is way more hotter than looking at porn and play with himself!
You seriously need to have a good conversation with him and you need to create an environment where he can be open with you and figure out what is each other's sexual desires and needs
Agree! So OP gonna be a bit of a harsh bitch here being raised by a literal habitual cheater.
Let's break this down. Your gf who:
ignored ur feelings of discomfort about her “friendship” and made u feel stupid and insecure Kept gaslighting you about her so called friendship. Was cheating on you… presumably not the only time she slept with him. Didn't even tell u (which someone who felt honest and geniune remore would have) about it you needed to go above ur own boundaries and go snooping which already means yall had zero trust whatsoever. Is now sorry and saying it wasn't worth it probably only because the dude dumped her and was no longer interested in fucking her. Says she doesn't want to lose u… but was perfectly okay with that prospect while fucking someone else behind ur back while lying to ur face everyday. Was saying she had a low libido with YOU HER ACTUAL BF while it didnt apply with this dude. Says she won't do it again… when she already lied about doing it the first time and didn't flinch.
And you want to give her a second chance?
Because why?!! She's ur first gf? What does that have to do with her being a cheater? Or a bad gf? Or a liar? Or a manipulator?
Sure she's all tears now because she's lost her fuck buddy and got caught out by you. What did u expect her to do? She's gonna say anything to keep u in her pocket.
And you want to STAY?????
DO YOU WANT TO BE A DOORMAT? DO YOU HAVE LIKE ZERO SELF RESPECT?
What exactly do you want to salvage here? Been together for 5 Years… known her for 7… FACTS!
Did those facts mean anything to her when she was cheating on you?! NO
Sooo why are u trying to use them as an excuse to stay with someone who has no respect for u?
My advice is leave unless u get off on being used. Then by all means.. stay but id also advise getting a STD test and not having sex with her… she might just come tell u she's pregnant by “You”
Buddy. Guy. My brother in Christ. Don't ask questions that you can't handle the answer to. Not to mention, and this is the important thing, this happened six years ago. You need to either let this go, or break up with her. It is so unfair to her that you've held this over her for six years. I'd be mad at for this too. How is fair that you get to be irrationally upset at her for six fucking years, and she can't be upset at you in the moment for essentially holding a stupid grudge?
You need to grow up. Bottom line.
Does your shared spending are equal? What I mean is that depending on where you online and your level of spending, it's possible that the rent =/= everything else. Like the other person said, your personnel spending (car, cellphone, etc) shouldn't be included in the shared spending.
For example, if he spend 1k$ on the rent each month and you are spending 800$ on utilities and the groceries is divided equally, then the total isn't equally divided. Something a division of cost in a couple can change over time. You said that he lost his job, maybe he looked the math more closely and realized that in a time where his money is short, he spending more than 50%
Personally, in my serious relationship I always agree on a division of shared cost based on our respective income. Since I have a decent job it usually end up more like 70/30 or 60/40. I also had one of my GF lose her job and so I told her that I pay more until she find a new job, because I know it can be a stressful situation. But that's just me, I know I'm financially secure so it's easier for me to take a bigger burden, not everybody is able to do that. So if we only look at the limited info you gave us about the financial information your fiancé might have a point.
But with all that said, the things he said to you are completely out of line and are not remotely close to the kind of relationship needed in a marriage. You guys are supposed to be a team and it doesn't look like it's the case at all. The problems in your relationship seem to be deeper than just financial stuff, those are just the symptoms of bigger problems.
You’re about the same age as my daughter. I truly hope you find your way. Keep your head up.
Everyone is entitled to their feelings. Your girlfriend needs to apologize for diminishing yours. You are essentially the 3rd wheel here. Recognize that this is going to be the case for the rest of your life. Most people do not change. Leave if this is not acceptable to you.
Guy here – would never do this.
There are handful of big things which make relationships work – an match in outlook on money, children, sex and responsibilities. Seems like you don't have at least one covered and if it will continue, you will either be miserable, or will be miserable and divorce.
God dump this emotionally and sexually stunted human, I’m sad for him that he was raised by idiots but Jesus girl don’t get tangled up in that. Imaging having kids with him ew
Do you have a custody agreement? If so talk to your lawyer.
I have large tits. I don’t need to book a hotel room to let you feel them. A room is an investment of money for time and privacy for a lot more than feeling my tits. He was going to fuck another woman.
Wow it’s really that hard to admit you just missed it huh? It was there the whole time. But I’m not touching this conversation anymore
No this is BS. You don’t just roll over on this issue. Wife needs to learn boundaries. He can apologize for being short, but she has several other things to figure out here herself. Text her husband, even ask if it is OK to have the guest, and if he’s feeling like shit, don’t go start an argument right fucking then. She did several things worse than being slightly rude to guest.
He either gets clean and gets help, you leave, or you subject yourself to a continuously horrible sex life until he decides to get help.
Those are your only options. If its a prescription drug he needs to go back to see a doctor. If its recreational, you should give him resources for inpatient rehab and NA.
Stop having sex with him until something changes. Theres no reason for you to continue having shitty sex and feeling bad about it because your boyfriend is an addict.
Sounds like an awful lot of drama for 3 months. Doesn’t sound like you are compatible. And she has major red flags that she might be a cheater on top if f that.
That was just one of the possiblities that is explored in a court of law. I just watched a “Murderous women” episode where a woman always called rape/DV/assualt on partners she is mad at. If vigilante becomes accepted, a woman who dislikes a man or who felt bamboozled after a hookup can just tell another man “he SA'd me” for that guy to beat the other guy up, while her hands are clean.
Cancel it asap. He's just using you. Get the money back and pay your rent! Geez!
Not to mention cheating on him to punish him. Yikes. Punishing SOs in any way is weird, but that is grounds for leaving the relationship alone if the hitting didn't already do it.
I get what you're saying. I was just hoping there was something out there I hadn't heard of that could give women a higher libido. I know women with high libidos, they crave sexual contact. They don't have to try and get in the mood for two hours beforehand…it's just a natural normal desire for them to want sex. That's all I'm asking about…if there's another option other than hours of foreplay and psyching yourself up.
Thank you ! I felt sick to my stomach after reading this , now I can relax.
Get another one that is just yours! Slowly start saving four months expenses in it. It's fuck you money so if he cheats or tries to screw you over you can walk away and have fall back. He's planning his exit you should too. You oversee the budget it's not hard to take a little bit to hide away.
Lmfao my first thought too. Art room!
No waayyyyyyy this is real???
No. You are putting way too much effort into making that work. It's not worth it. You'll have a connection with someone again. I don't know if it's connection you feel. It seems more like you have one of those rescuer personalities and made her your project.
It sounds like the reasons for the relationship ending are real and valid. Emotional pain isn’t an indication that the relationship should continue. You’ll hurt for awhile, that’s normal. Personally, I would continue with no attempt to get back together because there are major incompatibilities between you.
For fuck sakes dude..read this!
u put your own sexual gratification over your gfs consent over her own fucking body. That is the most disgusting thing you could've done.
When has NO ever meant anything else?!
Now after u got what u wanted you are sorry?! Why the fuck ddnt u just stop when she asked u to..
That poor girl..
Red flag for sure (on top of the age gap). From experience it will only get worse and worse so you either need to get him to shut down the crazy now or walk away.