His parents are very stereotypically narcissistic and his sister is also a narcissist which I assume comes from being raised in that household. She has a lot of issues and insecurities and his parents justify her behavior with this. My husband is a people pleaser and now I also think maybe a compulsive liar? due to the same abuse not only from his parents but his older sister. They have one more sister who is also not exactly a delightful person to be around but I don’t know how she’s really been affected by her parents because I haven’t interacted with her much and she doesn’t like me either. It’s weird for me to see how abuse really is passed down and how it could be so difficult to break that cycle. Part of me feels consumed with guilt for leaving my husband who wants to break out of the cycle so badly but he’s also mistreating me in the process. So I’m extremely conflicted.
She wants to get married so bad probably thinks it’ll fix their problems lol nothing changes after marriage so why do it
His parents are very stereotypically narcissistic and his sister is also a narcissist which I assume comes from being raised in that household. She has a lot of issues and insecurities and his parents justify her behavior with this. My husband is a people pleaser and now I also think maybe a compulsive liar? due to the same abuse not only from his parents but his older sister. They have one more sister who is also not exactly a delightful person to be around but I don’t know how she’s really been affected by her parents because I haven’t interacted with her much and she doesn’t like me either. It’s weird for me to see how abuse really is passed down and how it could be so difficult to break that cycle. Part of me feels consumed with guilt for leaving my husband who wants to break out of the cycle so badly but he’s also mistreating me in the process. So I’m extremely conflicted.