Don't do anything for now, go to your friend's place as planned. Then wait to see if you're part of the bridal party. Sure, you could have misinterpreted your level of friendship with that person, but the fact that you're co-organising the engagement party seems to mean that you're considered at least a good friend by your friend group. You could find out that you're not invited to the bridal party, but at least wait and see the reaction of the fiances when they see you there.
Some things to consider: did you alone suggest coming by and being a part of this or was this a mutual idea? Do you know how close you generally are to this group, are you their best/closest friend or not? I have a very good group of friends for 6 years and we do all celebrations together but I know that while I'm very close to some of them, others are merely friends now that time has passed. As a group, we are tight but one-on-one it's different.
I tried bringing it up. But I said I felt guilty that I wasn’t calling more often and it didn’t mean that I am not interested but that I prefer in person dating. He said that he wants me to open up more and he needs feedback. I am hoping that that is enough. But still feeling the pressure to call.
Don't do anything for now, go to your friend's place as planned. Then wait to see if you're part of the bridal party. Sure, you could have misinterpreted your level of friendship with that person, but the fact that you're co-organising the engagement party seems to mean that you're considered at least a good friend by your friend group. You could find out that you're not invited to the bridal party, but at least wait and see the reaction of the fiances when they see you there.
Some things to consider: did you alone suggest coming by and being a part of this or was this a mutual idea? Do you know how close you generally are to this group, are you their best/closest friend or not? I have a very good group of friends for 6 years and we do all celebrations together but I know that while I'm very close to some of them, others are merely friends now that time has passed. As a group, we are tight but one-on-one it's different.
Youre right…
I tried bringing it up. But I said I felt guilty that I wasn’t calling more often and it didn’t mean that I am not interested but that I prefer in person dating. He said that he wants me to open up more and he needs feedback. I am hoping that that is enough. But still feeling the pressure to call.