Literally all I do on Instagram is like/follow accounts of people I know in real life, and watch rock climbing clips because that’s a big hobby of mine.
Go to my discover page and it will be about half rock climbing stuff, half influencers in swimsuits and underwear models, with the occasional ripped male fitness account guy. Every single one of my guy friends has the same experience with their discovery page.
Instagram shows you stuff not just based on your behavior, but what they assume you’d be interested based on your demographic. If you’re a guy in your 20s (and maybe still 30s but idk), you’re going to get young skinny instagram models on your discovery page because Instagram has data suggesting that’s what people with your demographic profile like.
You might have already tried this but you need to sit down with your guy and talk this out. First off, some ground rules for the “neighbors” things like must call and get permission before coming over. A “no call, no visit” (unless an emergency) time for you and your partner. Work out the details with him and have him talk to his mother and siblings about it.
Have him also sign an agreement that if they break those rules, it will trigger him putting up the house for sale and moving further away. Make it as part of a pre-nuptial agreement and will trigger a divorce if he fails to live up to his end of things.
You know it could very well be that he isn’t all that happy with his family intruding all the time and would welcome a change. Just tell him how you feel and if your feelings aren’t properly addressed, put the wedding on hold until you come to an agreement or break up. Good luck.
Literally all I do on Instagram is like/follow accounts of people I know in real life, and watch rock climbing clips because that’s a big hobby of mine.
Go to my discover page and it will be about half rock climbing stuff, half influencers in swimsuits and underwear models, with the occasional ripped male fitness account guy. Every single one of my guy friends has the same experience with their discovery page.
Instagram shows you stuff not just based on your behavior, but what they assume you’d be interested based on your demographic. If you’re a guy in your 20s (and maybe still 30s but idk), you’re going to get young skinny instagram models on your discovery page because Instagram has data suggesting that’s what people with your demographic profile like.
Do yourself a favor and block her.
Take care of yourself and move on to something better.
You might have already tried this but you need to sit down with your guy and talk this out. First off, some ground rules for the “neighbors” things like must call and get permission before coming over. A “no call, no visit” (unless an emergency) time for you and your partner. Work out the details with him and have him talk to his mother and siblings about it.
Have him also sign an agreement that if they break those rules, it will trigger him putting up the house for sale and moving further away. Make it as part of a pre-nuptial agreement and will trigger a divorce if he fails to live up to his end of things.
You know it could very well be that he isn’t all that happy with his family intruding all the time and would welcome a change. Just tell him how you feel and if your feelings aren’t properly addressed, put the wedding on hold until you come to an agreement or break up. Good luck.