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Date: November 3, 2022
How is this walking all over you? She doesn't belong to you and who she has sex with isn't any of your business.
He sounds like a jerk for showing that video to his friends.
Soooo….you have two chidren:
one in daycare and one in a man's body.
Interesting.
From just reading the initial post I agreed with you but I changed my mind.
So I’m in the opposite situation and I still don’t think she’s an asshole. My bf has a really high drive and I don’t. He initiates sex daily and I’ll say nah, then he makes a joke 90% of the time. If I feel like the joke was out of line we talk about it and he apologizes but they rarely are.
Regardless of my own situation I first sided with you. Pressuring people into sex isn’t okay. Then I read OP’s comments and realized she isn’t pressuring him. She’s offering an initiation that he says no to and they move on. Further, from what OP described it sounds like he wants her to predict his feelings. She mentioned that she would randomly hug or kiss him on the cheek and he would get upset (a fair boundary) but then after a day or two of not touching him -unless he initiated it – he got upset telling her when she touches him it makes him feel wanted. He has strong moods and expects OP to automatically know what he wants.
I have really intense emotions too and when I am too upset to be touched and my partner tries I just say “not right now, I’m not feeling good” and he stops. I feel like this dude is simply not communicating at all.
Sexism in these subs and discussions is nuts (I love the two very hot takes pod but they REALLY have double standards for men) but I feel like most of the comments saying she’s not at fault just looked a little deeper into the specific scenarios she’s laid out.
None of them have met me yet. That's all I wanted, just some consideration and compromise for me.
I'm 54 and my girlfriend is 30. Best decision I ever made. Age is just a number.
Have you mentioned this at all to him
You sound like an asshole. There’s really no advice for that.
If you keep him in your life, sooner or later, the violence will extend to your children and they will never forgive you for that, nor should they.
Gosh, there's so much going on. There's so much I could say. But I will try to stick to some points I don't think others have made.
Sleep Deprivation is AWFUL!!! do what you can to get some extra sleep. But, HERE'S THE PART OTHER PPL HAVENT SAID: making a major life decision when you are so sleep deprived and can't think straight may not be advisable. I don't mean do nothing but making a major decision like to divorce or not might be worth waiting a few months to decide.
If finances allow, hire help for non child care things (washing dishes, cleaning), lean on family to help if needed, or hire limited, cheaper help that doesn't actually come into the home (such as dropping laundry off at a place that will wash and fold it then you pick it back up or place a grocery order live either for pick up or delivery to save all the time and effort of shopping). Anything you can do to ease the burden on both of you for these next few months can be helpful.
When the legitimate opportunity arises, praise or compliment or thank your wife. If she has read parenting books, comment on her motivation to be a good parent. If she is trying to eat healthy to have nutrient rich milk for your son, tell her you appreciate it. Look closely and find things you can genuinely give compliments about, even if or especially if they are things are most people would take for granted.
do some reading (books, blogs, live articles, etc.) about what lt is like to become a first-time dad. Although your examples are more extreme than most, many of the issues that weelre woven theougj your story are part and parcel of beung a new dad (i.e.mom feeling exhausted/overworked/underappreciated by dad, dad feeling abandoned by mom, etc.) Once you feel you have a decent understanding of that, do some reading about what it is like to become a first-time mom.
Continue therapy with a cautiously optimistic approach (but not blind, i.e. hence the caution). When there is an abusive dynamic going on, traditional couples therapy can do more harm than good. When you have a moment alone [i.e. on the sldrive to or from work once u start back to work), call the local battered women's center/domeatic violence/ intimate partner violence center. they do work with men whose partners are abusive. doing some “work”/ counseling whathave you with them can help you figure out best next steps.
good luck to all 3 of you
Hopefully in the morning she’ll have a clearer head to talk about this. But rest assured if she tries to call my daughter ungrateful, that’s not gonna fly.
I think the BF's flaw is that he agreed to a boundary that wasn't realistic for him.
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I don’t see why your brother is asking you, seeing that it’s an event for your fiancé. Does your fiancé not control who does and doesn’t come?
I think it’s weird that you don’t like your brothers partner and don’t see them as a fit for long term, yet you chose to include that they’ve been together for 4years. You say it as if you’re part of their relationship. If you two don’t like your brothers partner like you say you don’t, own up to it and let your brother and his partner decide what they want to do. It’s clear you don’t think he’d want to be around you, so you’re deciding to omit the truth (lie) to keep him in your life. Hm
Tbh there could have been earlier signs, some resentment building etc. Seems odd that this was an issue, more likely he snapped.
At the end of the day what you're saying boils down to, if a woman has a problem with what a guys wearing then it's his fault and he needs to change. However, if a man has a problem with what a womans wearing then thats still his fault and he needs to get over it. Massive double standard and completely sexist. In public is even worse because you're forcing it on people that don't even know you and its a PUBLIC space, why should a guy have to leave a public space because he doesn't want to be around young girls with their ass hanging out?
I didn't say she overreacted either. I'm just saying that he wasn't malicious or selfish. He said something dumb out of ignorance and let's face it, youth, and she reacted as any tired, hurt, new mother would. No one's in the wrong (except hubby if he continues to stay ignorant.) They really just need a break and to talk about it.
Very wholesome and cute story cuntpunt2k ?
Okay, I will be civil here. Exactly who do you think you are? Your girlfriend works very hot at keeping her body in excellent shape and she is rightfully proud of that. She is not responsible for any “thirsty” reactions from anyone and she certainly isn’t responsible for your insecurities that are dancing on the line of controlling behavior. She isn’t posting spank bank material for pervs, she’s posting the results of her hard work and dedication. I assume you knew she was into fitness when you got together? People are going to hit on attractive women regardless of what they’re wearing and if you can’t handle that, maybe you need to downgrade or better yet, take some time for yourself and explore in therapy the root of your insecurities so you don’t tank another relationship with jealous hang ups.
This is a really interesting possibility, and definitely likely. Even if she isn't cheating, she's definitely stepping outside the boundaries of the marriage with this man, and OP really needs to stop lying to himself.
Are you dating your friends or this guy?
So you’re asking for reciprocative love and affection and he’s asking for a “better” maid. Sounds like you’re in a transactional relationship not a loving one.
To be honest. We are so far past that now. Me bringing it up could cause an unnecessary argument.
This is just something that popped in my head a few days back and it's played in my mind a little.
But we aren't talking years. It was a matter of months between the last time she did it and when we were first dating and being sexual. And to a point where we was exploring each other.
Honey, think about how you're feeling even just considering doing something petty to him.
Think about how many times you've told him this bothers you.
Think about how many times he's chosen to hurt you this way anyways.
You don't even want to inconvenience him in the slightest, he's doing things to make your life harder on purpose.
Your problem is so much deeper than dishes. It's about self-love and self-respect. You deserve better than what he is giving you and you should be demanding it for yourself.
I personally don’t like them but have you seen those disposable bags you can put inside the crock pot before you put the food in so you can just throw them away after you’ve served the food and don’t have to clean the crock pot?
So then…what exactly are you going on about? They both made a mistake, that ended in a baby. It happens. Both people are capable of raising a baby, and she seems more than capable of raising the baby without him. You’re just another person on reddit who thinks their hateful opinions on here are more important than anyone else’s lol grow uppppp
His sexuality doesn't matter here imo. He did a sexual act with someone else and deliberately went somewhere it was likely to happen. That's cheating. I personally wouldn't put up with it.
ETA: nvm I just read allll of your comments. You’re a weirdo lol. 2 weeks ago posted on conservative Reddit saying you’re pro-life, yet here you are telling this woman she should’ve had a kid w someone else and it’s selfish of her to go through with it. So, so, SO weird. On so many levels.
Technically, she is not a teenager, because there is no “teen” in “twenty”, but your comment made me laugh ?
Why you out here demanding women to have big boobs and wear makeup to be worthy of attraction? You are literally body shaming. You go ahead and tell women with A or B cups that men who find them attractive are pedos. Go for it.
Why you out here demanding women to have big boobs and wear makeup to be worthy of attraction? You are literally body shaming. You go ahead and tell women with A or B cups that men who find them attractive are pedos. Go for it.
Wow. You really suck. Good for her. Maybe you should grow up a bit.
I like it deeper
Why so harsh? Having worries and insecurities isn’t a cardinal sin, it’s human. How you react to them is the important bit.
You get along with her because there are no stakes or consequences. That's how emotional affairs work; you are both living with fantasy versions of each other in a fantasy situation. Once you're together with her, the fantasy will be replaced with reality.
You say that you heard someone was looking for you & you could see on the security footage that it was his mom.
That still doesn’t mean that she shouldn’t be able to go on her own trips with friends. She wants some time to spend with friends only without her husband. He has no right to stop her.
Ok ignore that part then. The rest still stands. You should still apologize for blowing up and then work on being more understanding of accidents.
They do need their own subs. I’m tired of telling 19 year olds that that 40 year old man will not marry you.
I agree I am obtuse. I took this to be a helpful sub, and asked for advice. Clearly I was a fool.
I wonder why ?? Jenna doesn’t need to bullshit them. She just needs to tell them the truth for them to realise that’s not what they want for their son, whom they’re probably extremely disappointed in.