You need therapy to deal with the emotions you're feeling. There is a way to process and better understand what went wrong and why, but you will not see it without some very long and personal conversations with some very pointed honesty about everything.
You seem receptive to feedback, and my first bit of feedback is that you likely hurt yourself in many ways that in turn hurt your relationship with him. Believe it or not, giving all of yourself as an act of good faith when you are not receiving that faith back is harmful both ways. First it breeds resentment in you because if you admitted it aloud, you would be resentful of him, and from his perspective whether you lashed out in anger or lashed out by distancing he's alone either way. I don't know the whole story, but my guess is that you chose using reasons to be busy to ignore him because you resented him. And ultimately, he sensed you losing interest and tried to get you to help him understand but eventually relented that there could be no future together because you'd effectively become strangers in your own home.
You need therapy to deal with the emotions you're feeling. There is a way to process and better understand what went wrong and why, but you will not see it without some very long and personal conversations with some very pointed honesty about everything.
You seem receptive to feedback, and my first bit of feedback is that you likely hurt yourself in many ways that in turn hurt your relationship with him. Believe it or not, giving all of yourself as an act of good faith when you are not receiving that faith back is harmful both ways. First it breeds resentment in you because if you admitted it aloud, you would be resentful of him, and from his perspective whether you lashed out in anger or lashed out by distancing he's alone either way. I don't know the whole story, but my guess is that you chose using reasons to be busy to ignore him because you resented him. And ultimately, he sensed you losing interest and tried to get you to help him understand but eventually relented that there could be no future together because you'd effectively become strangers in your own home.
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