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Date: October 22, 2022
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Love you after two months? Surely you must be joking. He is just saying what you want to hear so you wont leave.
It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time right now. Your relationship with your parents is clearly strained and it's taking a toll on your mental health. Remember that it's okay to ask for help if you need it. It might be helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor about your feelings and experiences. They can provide you with support and guidance on how to cope with the stress and conflicts you're facing with your parents. It's also important to take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. This might mean setting boundaries with your parents and making sure that you have time to relax and do things that you enjoy. Hang in there and remember that things will get better.
Yes. It can be an outcome of idealization. They project a fantasy on to the object of their infatuation, and don’t have the emotional maturity to truly comprehend that you’re a whole-ass person of your very own, with your own flaws, issues, needs, and demands. They haven’t realized that their fantasy version isn’t you, that they haven’t taken the time to get to know the real you, and so they treat you like you’re their dream partner — which, to them, you are.
That being said, I like to differentiate between the absence of bad intentions and the presence of good intentions. For example, many narcissists (classic love-bombers) aren’t cackling evilly during the love-bombing stage, gleefully looking forward to hooking you so they can begin abusing you. They delight in idealizing you, it feels amazing, and they want you to make them this happy and excited forever; they want you to fill the void. That’s not a malicious intention — but it’s also not a healthy one. Genuinely good intentions in dating involve getting to really know your partner’s actual personality, actively evaluating the relationship for happiness and compatibility, and equally respecting each partner’s needs. No one who’s love-bombing you has healthy, mature, responsible intentions like that, so it is always a red flag.
Sounds like a lazy mofo
Grow some balls and be honest. I promise you she won’t kill herself
You're dope. That is mad sweet and I'm glad you told her how you feel. Obviously that coworker has their own insecurities and issues with body dysmorphia so there's no need for your gf to take any kind of judgment or advice from them. And yeah – that's rude as fuck
Do you go to therapy? I think most therapists would advocate for a trusting relationship with open communication but go off
Well, what did she say?
im new to this redditt I kinda like it
Yes, so she would be living in his home, just my boyfriend, her and their kids and I online somewhere in my own place. She obviously wouldn’t be working while she’s here and sometimes he gets finished with work by 10am. So they will just be hanging out together alone all day until the kids get home from school. That seems really weird to me.
Most couple discuss marriage before the actual proposal. Typically when the man proposes, the girlfriend knows that it's coming in the near future.
Not only that, she could become a victim of domestic violence. The chair was first, she could be next. It’s not a safe environment.
Yes. This is a more sane option than being fake all the time.
Then you're a shitty excuse for a human if that's how you manage your relationships.
I'm not hurt by not getting a thing. They could give me a dead leaf off the ground because they saw it on their way to work and it reminded them of this time we…blah, blah, blah. It's the lack of effort and then blaming me for the hurt.
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Lmao imagine downvoting OP because he has BOUNDARIES of things he doesn’t want to do. Boundaries will always be okay, dude. Don’t let these downvotes tell you otherwise. People need to get a fucking grip.
Dont find happiness in others to make yourself happy. You are actually making scenarios in your head that makes you like her more and more.
What i suggest Is that you should just be direct and go with the flow. The more you abstain from revealing , the more scenarios you make and you will just hurt yourself
how do I leave her gently?
I am on the waiting list for a care home.
As for rights, though… my life will be way worse at a care home. Can't decide what I want to eat anymore, can't decide when to go to bed and when to get up, no more money to spend aside from ~40 Euro “pocket money” a month (which will have to go into internet and stuff like shampoo and soap). Care homes aren't great. It's where I will end up, but I hold no illusions about how shitty they actually are, OCD issues aside.
Stay safe. Aka away from that guy.
Online behavior is not offline behavior. He may just be fantasizing. Any DMs with meetup info? It’s a little icky, but the vast majority of men are pervs. Have you sat down and established on-line rules? If not, now is the time.
You see why he doesn’t get along with the stepmother. If his own family can’t stand him then don’t bother yourself. Also, he had a seven year old kid and can’t get himself together?
OP said that they stopped their highly active sports life 2 years ago. You are taking the over a year out of context.
I've experienced this situation when i got a desk job and had no time for sports. This has been a steady weight gain over two years, with perhaps the occasional depression binge eating due to being overweight. (Meaning slightly escalated in the last year.)
Over a year ago, is when she crossed that line to what he is attracted to, and he started to pay attention.
You grabbed his phone (super rude, especially when he's already stressed) and then when he swatted your hand away you admittedly slapped him. More than likely in the face, because why else would he say it when you were in the wrong regardless? Him shoving also makes sense in this scenario because he was mad he just got slapped in the face. It was far from the correct response on his part but you both were in the wrong and you clearly have trauma to work through. Unless you both figure out better coping methods that will prevent physical fights, it's best to break ip
Well yeah, i don’t think she is that “dense” but she gets jealous easily
DO IT FOR THE GANG!
This sounds like a you problem.
If someone doesn't want to be tethered to their phone, you can't expect them to start. That's not a reasonable expectation.
Adjust your expectations. The fact she communicates perfectly fine in person and on the phone is not a communication problem.
from replies of OP in comments on this post, you are most definitely TA. you cannot say you are autistic without being diagnosed by an actual professional, coming from a psychology student.
you've already said that you make her friends uncomfortable and she has compromised with you instead of cutting you out altogether.
Won’t work unless one of you compromises. And if one of you does, will probably cause resentment
Go out and get the tattoo and then get your hair done. Wear shorts when you come home. How's he going to stop you then?
I'm willing to bet the liberation you feel from doing that will give you the kick you need to exit this relationship and start to be the independent person you want to be.
Perfect comment. These are the only options.
You’re being used
Why are you intent on removing this grown woman’s autonomy? The OP repeatedly asked for and received enthusiastic consent. She had the right to consent or remove consent at any moment and the OP had the right to believe her.
and why do u want him?
He might also benefit from individual therapy – he was effectively stuck in an abusive relationship for 9 months with no support, I can’t imagine what I’d be carrying after that.
You don't need to talk to him about “letting” you hang out with people, you need to TELL him you will be hanging out with your friends and then talk out the compromise to make you both comfortable.
You are a whole, independent person and that doesn't change when you get married. You have a partner now, so you talk things out and compromise, but in this case, HE has decided he gets to tell you what to do, and you can simply tell him no.
Tell him you are going to socialize with your friends, even the single ones, and friends are not different than family in terms of socializing. The end. He can then weigh in on what would make him comfortable- not clubbing, communication, etc. – but you can certainly hang out with your friends in the same ways he hangs out with his family- dinner, movies, happy hour, hanging out at their homes, your home- and he doesn't get to just tell you that family is different than friends.
Stand up for yourself, especially before you bring a child in to an unhappy household.
What is the lie u told exactly?
Who is the one saying the vacation is “mandatory”? Are you visiting them or do they visit you or you all agree to go to y destination?
I’m sorry if my question wasn’t clear. Im finding it nude to word out as it’s a difficult situation. I’m (white) and my boyfriend who I’ve been dating for the past year a and a half, wanted a different look (Asian) in a girlfriend. But now he says he no longer wants that Asian look. If someone was in my place would they be okay with that fact that their partner wanted a different look to what you look like during the relationship?
This is kind of tricky because he legit thinks he weighs more and so what seemed to him like an innocent joke struck right at something you feel insecure about.
And if you tell him that, you're afraid he'll think less of you.
Women store body fat more than men do and that's just the reality of it. You're both young enough you can be excused for not knowing and understanding that.
It's just how mother nature built you.
I'd say just rip the bandaid off and tell him. If he's a good boyfriend he'll apologize, and try to make it up to you. Just let him off the hook quickly and put it behind you.
If he actually gets weird about it that would make him a bad boyfriend and you're better off without him.
Time to move on. Red flags if his yelling got you evicted…gtfo of that relationship it's toxic.
I aint reading allat
Might break up? She cheated on you and still talks with her ex and you are not sure about breaking up? hahaha
Go enjoy your romantic getaway.
I’m more confused to he was uncertain about having a relationship but also seems a little uncertain about the break up
Breakups suck either way, but I just don’t want to be played here either
Starts a with C ends with a M, six letters, can save lives by avoiding creating ones, anyone wanna take a guess?
Tell him before his kink gets any more traction. If it ruins the relationship, that is 100% his fault; however you should have told him immediately. He should not have a double standard for a woman to be a virgin while he himself is not. Sounds like a box of red flags wrapped in douchbag colored paper.
Sounds good for you two. Try having a relationship with A, it sounds like it's working. M can suck a fat one.
I didn't really think your fiancé's financial habits were a big deal until you said that you can't afford a wedding or honeymoon.
Not being able to afford an average wedding or honeymoon (with both your finances combined) is pretty bad. It shows some real financial instability. Children and houses are significantly more expensive than that.
Is there a reason you need to marry so soon? I think it would be a good idea to postpone the marriage until you're in a better place financially as a couple.
Especially since she’s really 18 and he’s 19 and he’s an emotionally abusive dick according her the rest of her post history.
How about don’t worry about finding someone else attractive right now. Leave and spend time getting your life together before you start looking again.
There are a few land mind arguments you need to learn to avoid. Common ones include insulting their interests, family, cooking or appearance. An insult doesn’t need to be a direct insult. It can be something you might perceive as innocent like: my mom makes this dish better.
You need to be tactful. Appreciate what they do for you. Try to show interest in things they find interesting, if for no other reason than the person you care about likes it.
If you want to put out a fire? Spend a bit of time listening to her dumb songs and find one you like more above the rest. Tell her your sorry and you’ve done a bit of self reflection and actually do like blank song. You shouldn’t have said what you said and you’re excited to spend that time with her.
The person even asked me to not even flirt with people and wait for them.
Uh… a non-partner has no right to request this. Doing so is disrespectful as they clearly have more liberty than you.
What I’m confused about is how people deal with this feeling or if it is even a valid feeling.
You are being fucked over and that’s what that feeling is. It’s a very valid feeling.
I don’t want to act rashly or say something i’d regret, but what should I do in this situation?
What would there be to regret? She seems to know that she was more included and ready to be physical with other people. That’s okay for an adult to do, but to string another person along for one’s own convenience is silly and whatever your response is will be more valid than the bullshit she’s been pulling off… especially if she genuinely expects y’all to be “cool about it”.
You didn't say how long things have been “fixed”. It takes awhile for your body to recover from stressors. You might just need to give yourself a bit.
One word: bonfire ?.