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That makes perfect sense. I will say? I don't think it's an issue with you there really, I could see feeling similar if my partner was watching naked dudes constantly. I'd for sure feel insecure about my looks. But that's a whole separate conversation.
I say this as someone who has and does struggle with porn addiction; it's so easy to make excuses for yourself. It took me a LONG time to admit to myself to admit to myself that it's an addiction and not just a distraction, if that makes sense? I used it as an escape from the real world instead of a masturbatory aid. His first step is to admit to himself that it's sexual content, and realize that no matter what, it makes you feel uncomfortable. For me, it took therapy to work through the why.
From there, I'm sure y'all can find a comfortable middle ground that you both are ok with. I don't think it's realistic to expect him to never look at porn again, but it's VERY realistic to not pay for it and not do it around you, if you'd be comfortable with that compromise.
In the end, you are 100% valid with how you feel. And I really, really hope either a serious conversation or even therapy can help him realize why and how it hurts you.
That makes perfect sense. I will say? I don't think it's an issue with you there really, I could see feeling similar if my partner was watching naked dudes constantly. I'd for sure feel insecure about my looks. But that's a whole separate conversation.
I say this as someone who has and does struggle with porn addiction; it's so easy to make excuses for yourself. It took me a LONG time to admit to myself to admit to myself that it's an addiction and not just a distraction, if that makes sense? I used it as an escape from the real world instead of a masturbatory aid. His first step is to admit to himself that it's sexual content, and realize that no matter what, it makes you feel uncomfortable. For me, it took therapy to work through the why.
From there, I'm sure y'all can find a comfortable middle ground that you both are ok with. I don't think it's realistic to expect him to never look at porn again, but it's VERY realistic to not pay for it and not do it around you, if you'd be comfortable with that compromise.
In the end, you are 100% valid with how you feel. And I really, really hope either a serious conversation or even therapy can help him realize why and how it hurts you.
That will only happen if she wants to save the situation too. If she doesn’t, nothing will change. Have you told her how she’s making you feel?