Yeah, lots of commenters here arguing that “safe, stable, and secure” are compliments, all while ignoring the context, which completely ruins any positive connotation and makes her sound like a comfy backup plan.
I totally get why people are trying to reassure op. But people don’t make pros and cons lists about exes unless they’re trying to talk themselves into ignoring their gut.
By the looks of your comments, you seem to really hate women.
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Yeah, lots of commenters here arguing that “safe, stable, and secure” are compliments, all while ignoring the context, which completely ruins any positive connotation and makes her sound like a comfy backup plan.
I totally get why people are trying to reassure op. But people don’t make pros and cons lists about exes unless they’re trying to talk themselves into ignoring their gut.
Girls need to stand up for themselves as well.