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⚡, Double penetration⚡ [548 tokens remaining]
Date: October 23, 2022
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He is hung up on not being one of the first people to meet his own son. His feeling are important too! Stopping him from being there for his sons birth is a serious slight many men would struggle to get past it. As a woman there is nothing comparable for you to be hurt over probably why all the insensitivity!
If you have a to make a deal to hide it from your wife it should probably be self explanatory that it is indeed a form of infidelity to you, her, or both of you, and it’s something you have prior knowledge of.
I am willing
I just don't know if I am being unreasonable and I don't know how I would even express these boundaries
Huh?
He’s not 100% sure y’all will work out. If he was he wouldn’t be so hesitant to move forward.
If you’re desperate to be a home owner why don’t you just purchase a home by yourself?
From here it reads like you have preoccupied attachment. You say you're working on your traumas, which is good, just be sure your therapist knows how to fix wounds that go that far back (first two years of life). Also know that just talking (conversing) about your traumas will not help, your therapist needs to have better tools, such as EMDR, somatic based approach or sth in that realm. Preoccupied attachment makes you not feel worthy, and it kinda reads. You ARE the whole package, that's for sure, but do you FEEL like it? It seems your attention is on “am I enough for them” and “do they like me” instead of “are they enough for me” and “do I like them”. The energy can be felt, and, especially in a society where women are thought of as less than, that can make them lose respect. Which is absolutely crazy, because you should be the one discerning if they meet YOUR standards, not the other way around. But I know that's easy to say, and when you nervous system has been conditioned to feel the other way around, almost impossible to do (without therapy, which you're already doing, go you). And honey, this kind of behavior from him tells me he's is definitely not worthy of your time and effort. Take care.
P.s. you might want to check out a book called “Attached” can't remember the author's name.