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Your wife is a leech. I'd suggest marriage counseling so she can get an unbiased outside opinion to see that she is wrong. If that doesn't work, divorce her. Hope you got a prenup.
Do you though? You are like a child who wanted to play grown ups, but now can’t deal with the reality. Your poor wife is dealing with an actual tragedy and has to come back to….you.
I know. But that would be absolutely cruel i think, If i were to go back I dont rhink I have the heart to leave again. She said «If you tell me you regret it, I cant promise I would say yes to get back» Because she doesnt think she could handle the pain again…
Find someone your own age from person experience age gaps don’t work especially when it’s early twenties – mid thirties. Two different life stages. She wants different things. End it and run
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Exactly what the poster here said. Bisexual woman here, although I’ve been with my husband for 15 years now my last serious relationship prior to him (2 years, we lived together) was with a woman. I’ve slept with many women over the years, in relationships and not and never was it the norm for one person to never reciprocate. That’s insane to me because you WANT to finish, and she’s just basically like “you good? Cool.” Wtf?
Lol the kid is 6 months old – that’s not how math works. But it does mean he knocked her up about 15 months ago when she was presumably 18 or 19 and he was 26 or 27. Which is still ick.
I'm a typical modern woman and I have my cake and I absolutely eat it too
For the record i'm not a young woman
For the record I'm very well loved and cared for
And I love deeply and care for others
My relationships however are based on honest communication not on shutting down things that Each of us may need as we grow and change during the course of a long life
We Asian just still astonished with this name thingy you guys have. We go with logic. The women don't have to change their last name. So the kids name example roslan bin jeslan. That's it even the Christian also.
We Asian just still astonished with this name thingy you guys have. We go with logic. The women don't have to change their last name. So the kids name example roslan bin jeslan. That's it even the Christian also.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. First, she wants you to unfollow every girl that isn't her. Next, she'll demand that you cut all contact with every girl that isn't her.
Get out while you can. She's only going to get more unhinged.
She tells you all these reasons. They might be valid. But the truth is, she's not attracted to you enough. That's the biggest truth, but she can't tell you because she fears hurting you.
I understand why this is really appealing, but preventing your partner from spending family funds is a tactic of financial abuse. I hope other people in your situation can just skip that drastic action and leave instead.
Yea let tell the guy his wife has been cheating but have no proof of the cheating man you sound real smart. People get fuck up and beat for that type of shit you don’t just go around an start throwing accusations in someone’s life if you have no prof to backup your claims.
Was it a kiss like Hello/Goodbye? Or were they tongue fucking each other? There is a difference. The first is completely normal and if that was all it was then you may need to adult up.
yes exactly that I did get upset over her not taking accountability she’ll say she was at fault and apologizes but then when it was brought up again she tells me that it was just a vape and that I’m over reacting makes me feel like she isn’t actually sorry
As you've sensed, its very unlikely. Years of neglect can degrade a relationship to a point where no amount of sudden effort can save it. Built up resentment and breach of trust doesn't ever truly go away.
Its good that you're doing what you need to do in order to grow and be better, however it will be hot for her to believe that you are genuine when it took the very real prospect of breaking up in order to trigger that change.
On top of that, people often stagnate in relationships and cant hold on to meaningful self-motivated changes unless they are single and independent. You have to create good habits for your own sake – not just to save your relationship.
Read “The Seven Principles to Making a Marriage Work” I was skeptical when my couples therapist gave this book to us for “homework” and honestly, I expected it to suck but it was really good and helped me SO much. You both should read it. Also consider couples therapy as well!
I saw those links – I’m home from work and I’ll be reading them a little later.
It’s hot to explain that you don’t realize this stuff is happening or that it’s bad or whatever. It’s hard to put the whole thing into words so other people understand.
I’m just glad I will learn and be able to be more aware if anything happens in the future. I wasn’t even aware of what a narcissist was until a friend (Bee) of mine was telling me about his ex husband.. who ghosted him. My “friend” had been drilling into my head that I was a narcissist & I told him that I’m a narcissist, my friend tells me all the time. Bee said, “I’ve known you for over a decade and a half.. you are far from a narcissist. A little self centred, but far from a narcissist.” That’s when I found out what a narcissist is, what they do.. etc etc which put more insight into what was going on with this person and their behaviour.
Separate finances. Just say that he damaged the trust by not being transparent about lending money (both the recipient and amount) and did not take your concerns seriously so now you’d like to have separate finances where you each agree to put a certain amount toward bills and then he can do whatever the fuck he wants with his money and you don’t need to know shit AS LONG AS HE CAN COVER HIS SHARE OF THE BILLS.
When he balks just tell him that you tried to explain and he doesn’t get it. Trust is lost super easily and needs to be earned over time. You’ve been abused in the past and you’re not dealing with that shit again.
You’re right. I suppose if I accept this behavior I’m committed to walking on eggshells for the foreseeable future or throwing away a few great years that have had far more ups than downs. Its really a hot thing to process and navigate. I’m glad I’m getting a lot of honest feedback.
I feel like neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. You sound incredibly insecure. Being threatened by you SO liking someone's pictures on social media as not normal, and you need to seek out some therapy to deal with your low self esteem. This is legitimately absolutely nonsensical. I had to go back and check the ages because I was sure this had to be written by someone who was 12 or 13 because I cannot for the life of me see a grown ass adult behaving like this. You are far too insecure to be in a relationship. Period.
Your wife is a leech. I'd suggest marriage counseling so she can get an unbiased outside opinion to see that she is wrong. If that doesn't work, divorce her. Hope you got a prenup.
Do you though? You are like a child who wanted to play grown ups, but now can’t deal with the reality. Your poor wife is dealing with an actual tragedy and has to come back to….you.
I agree with everyone here, but if all else fails, tell him directly or give him your number
I know. But that would be absolutely cruel i think, If i were to go back I dont rhink I have the heart to leave again. She said «If you tell me you regret it, I cant promise I would say yes to get back» Because she doesnt think she could handle the pain again…
He probably talks shit about you to his friends and family then. If you get his sister a gift he can’t really tell them you’re a bitch anymore
Find someone your own age from person experience age gaps don’t work especially when it’s early twenties – mid thirties. Two different life stages. She wants different things. End it and run
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Visit your parents and don’t return until it’s with them to pick up your stuff. If he is keeping you from visiting them or leaving call the police
Exactly what the poster here said. Bisexual woman here, although I’ve been with my husband for 15 years now my last serious relationship prior to him (2 years, we lived together) was with a woman. I’ve slept with many women over the years, in relationships and not and never was it the norm for one person to never reciprocate. That’s insane to me because you WANT to finish, and she’s just basically like “you good? Cool.” Wtf?
He was shocked when I said I took out student loans and said I should just drop out of college and start an on-line business????
Out of curiosity, had he have an experience with on-line business. What make he thinks that will work?
There aren't different types of control
Lol the kid is 6 months old – that’s not how math works. But it does mean he knocked her up about 15 months ago when she was presumably 18 or 19 and he was 26 or 27. Which is still ick.
I'm a typical modern woman and I have my cake and I absolutely eat it too
For the record i'm not a young woman
For the record I'm very well loved and cared for
And I love deeply and care for others
My relationships however are based on honest communication not on shutting down things that Each of us may need as we grow and change during the course of a long life
We Asian just still astonished with this name thingy you guys have. We go with logic. The women don't have to change their last name. So the kids name example roslan bin jeslan. That's it even the Christian also.
We Asian just still astonished with this name thingy you guys have. We go with logic. The women don't have to change their last name. So the kids name example roslan bin jeslan. That's it even the Christian also.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. First, she wants you to unfollow every girl that isn't her. Next, she'll demand that you cut all contact with every girl that isn't her.
Get out while you can. She's only going to get more unhinged.
She tells you all these reasons. They might be valid. But the truth is, she's not attracted to you enough. That's the biggest truth, but she can't tell you because she fears hurting you.
She's not into you, brother.
Move on.
no work meant she had fuckall
I understand why this is really appealing, but preventing your partner from spending family funds is a tactic of financial abuse. I hope other people in your situation can just skip that drastic action and leave instead.
Yea let tell the guy his wife has been cheating but have no proof of the cheating man you sound real smart. People get fuck up and beat for that type of shit you don’t just go around an start throwing accusations in someone’s life if you have no prof to backup your claims.
Was it a kiss like Hello/Goodbye? Or were they tongue fucking each other? There is a difference. The first is completely normal and if that was all it was then you may need to adult up.
yes exactly that I did get upset over her not taking accountability she’ll say she was at fault and apologizes but then when it was brought up again she tells me that it was just a vape and that I’m over reacting makes me feel like she isn’t actually sorry
It's not random after a several months of dating.
As you've sensed, its very unlikely. Years of neglect can degrade a relationship to a point where no amount of sudden effort can save it. Built up resentment and breach of trust doesn't ever truly go away.
Its good that you're doing what you need to do in order to grow and be better, however it will be hot for her to believe that you are genuine when it took the very real prospect of breaking up in order to trigger that change.
On top of that, people often stagnate in relationships and cant hold on to meaningful self-motivated changes unless they are single and independent. You have to create good habits for your own sake – not just to save your relationship.
Read “The Seven Principles to Making a Marriage Work” I was skeptical when my couples therapist gave this book to us for “homework” and honestly, I expected it to suck but it was really good and helped me SO much. You both should read it. Also consider couples therapy as well!
…..yeah you’re girlfriend has way better job prospects than you ever will bro. Hopefully she wises up and leaves your gold digger ass soon.
I saw those links – I’m home from work and I’ll be reading them a little later.
It’s hot to explain that you don’t realize this stuff is happening or that it’s bad or whatever. It’s hard to put the whole thing into words so other people understand.
I’m just glad I will learn and be able to be more aware if anything happens in the future. I wasn’t even aware of what a narcissist was until a friend (Bee) of mine was telling me about his ex husband.. who ghosted him. My “friend” had been drilling into my head that I was a narcissist & I told him that I’m a narcissist, my friend tells me all the time. Bee said, “I’ve known you for over a decade and a half.. you are far from a narcissist. A little self centred, but far from a narcissist.” That’s when I found out what a narcissist is, what they do.. etc etc which put more insight into what was going on with this person and their behaviour.
Thank you again!!
Op is delusional and not listening to shit.
Case closed.
What happened with the custody battle over his son? Did the son move across country with you?
Separate finances. Just say that he damaged the trust by not being transparent about lending money (both the recipient and amount) and did not take your concerns seriously so now you’d like to have separate finances where you each agree to put a certain amount toward bills and then he can do whatever the fuck he wants with his money and you don’t need to know shit AS LONG AS HE CAN COVER HIS SHARE OF THE BILLS.
When he balks just tell him that you tried to explain and he doesn’t get it. Trust is lost super easily and needs to be earned over time. You’ve been abused in the past and you’re not dealing with that shit again.
You’re right. I suppose if I accept this behavior I’m committed to walking on eggshells for the foreseeable future or throwing away a few great years that have had far more ups than downs. Its really a hot thing to process and navigate. I’m glad I’m getting a lot of honest feedback.
I feel like neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. You sound incredibly insecure. Being threatened by you SO liking someone's pictures on social media as not normal, and you need to seek out some therapy to deal with your low self esteem. This is legitimately absolutely nonsensical. I had to go back and check the ages because I was sure this had to be written by someone who was 12 or 13 because I cannot for the life of me see a grown ass adult behaving like this. You are far too insecure to be in a relationship. Period.