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Date: October 23, 2022
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You were a virgin when you got married, yet he freaked out about your “past”? Wow.
It isn't clear to me if you are a British citizen studying in Canada, or a Canadian studying in Britain.
Since you are from a very conservative religion, a woman being a virgin is considered far more critical in your culture than for most people in your country. I totally get it. I likewise am from a very conservative religion (not the same one as you), and we are pushed to be virgins at marriage. When I got married in my mid-20s, my wife and I were both still virgins. I'm now in my 50s, and a friend of mine who isn't conservative is shocked that my wife and I still have only been with each other. Most people just don't understand.
I suggest you should be 100% honest. Our past always catches up with us, and it can never feel good to on-line a lie (even if we aren't caught).
While you want to continue with the fundamentals of your customs, you somehow need to find someone who is more flexible than most.
Your success is far more likely with someone who wasn't born in “the old country”. Somebody who moved to your country from a traditional country is more likely to be focused on the woman still being a virgin. Somebody local is less likely to worry about that. Since you've mentioned that you are less strict about things than when you were younger, that's another reason that you should be with someone more “westernized”. To improve your odds, it might make sense to consider marrying someone who similarly ended up divorced. Please make sure that he wasn't the cause of the divorce (avoiding a repetition of the same or worse issues!). If he is always stressed out, don't even try. You should never feel like you need to “fix” someone. While it would be much easier if there are no children from his first marriage, that's a judgment call. The children themselves often aren't the issue, it's the fact that the ex-wife who is their mother could manipulate the behavior of the children, and cause major custody and financial issues to turn everything into a hostile situation. Another option to consider would be someone who was widowed young, but only if he isn't obsessed about his previous wife (comparing how you dress, how you cook, etc.). He needs to be happy to accept you as you are, not trying to change you or complain.
If you are unable to find a partner who is traditional, and you reach the point that you will consider more options, non-Muslim men would be shocked (in a good way) to meet someone who's only ever been with one man. But you would end up in a complicated situation with your family, friends, members of your church, etc. Hopefully, you won't need to deal with that.
Best of luck!