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Happy New Year guys… kissssss
Date: January 1, 2023
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Personally, I’d just be upfront because to me it would be more awkward to have this unsaid thing affecting my relationship. Just let him know you’re aware of the messages, you don’t want to continue the relationship but you’d like to remain civil until your flight.
Personally, I’d just be upfront because to me it would be more awkward to have this unsaid thing affecting my relationship. Just let him know you’re aware of the messages, you don’t want to continue the relationship but you’d like to remain civil until your flight.
Your friend is jealous of you. Your husband made a mistake, but I think the love and dedication he’s shown you are true to his character. I know you’re in therapy, but is it marriage therapy?
Lol ?
If you don't feel it, you don't.
There's a reason you didn't know much about her. He groomed a teenager and got her pregnant
Yep. I forgot about the “roommates” conversations. But now that you mention it, I remember that feeling very well.
Some people are takers, literally all take and as little give as they can possibly get away with.
I think the difference between you & me might be that looking back I knew better. There were plenty of red flags that I just ignored. If she changed her behavior after you were married then you likely are dealing with what’s called a “covert narcissist.”
Honestly, I know this subreddit is not big on direct comments like this, but it’s not going to change. Life is really short. If this is not what you want and you know it, get out now. You will not regret it, but I guarantee you will if you don’t. You’ll have a much easier time knowing what you want in a parent now that you know what you don’t want. I sure did.
HMU in my DM if you want to discuss more. Happy to help.
Yes that’s exactly what I thought! This reads exactly like the start of a proposal
Talk to him again and see what he says. A conversation is necessary, not just you expressing how you feel and him staying silent.
It's important to still do the special things together and for each other even with a newborn, and to put in effort for each other.
She’s says she wants things to change. She says she loves me and would do anything to save us but her actions do not match her words. We have not done counseling. I don’t think counseling would help seeing that. I truly believe she’s not being honest with me. And that would probably be the case for therapist or counselor.
Dude! The gf is clueless as dust. Don’t take her too crazy places. Or, if you value life, break up with her. The sex isn’t that god that you die for it.
I know this feeling and why you want to buy them a gift, but I wouldn’t do it. This person doesn’t deserve your love and energy when they decided the relationship was over months ago. Channel that energy to the future and into moving forward. If you were going to spend money on a gift, buy something for yourself instead. In the past I’ve been the type to give and give and hold on too very hot to relationships that are ending or over. It’s draining and you’ll be happier if you can start the healing process.
You might want to find a new GF. Either she has mental problems, or she’s not being truthful about her prior experience.
HPV causes regular warts as well as genital warts. So if she’s mentally ill or just disingenuous, she could have a wart and be making a lot of something out of it.
But the thing about warts is that they are fairly localized. And she can’t have genital warts unless her genitals were exposed to warts.
These are some of, probably not all, the reasons that no women his own age will date him and he preys on girls young enough to be his daughter. He is a disgusting waste of oxygen and you should get as far away from him as you can as fast as you can. You can do better, EASILY, he has set the bar so low it's underground.
It is an old tongue and cheek innuendo for lesbians.
In the legal profession, there is a significant difference between “general advice” (you should add tarragon to your spice blend, use a licensed realtor for out of state purchases) and “legal advice” (I have reviewed your case in detail, consulted with local code, and we are under attorney-client privilege).
The lawyer above is asserting that nothing they say should be considered at the legal advice standard, and OP shouldn’t rely on it.
Fair point and one I did not consider yet. There is not really a reason. But not telling her feels like being a bit overly protective, a tendency I do have and which annoys her at times.
(Occasional sexual incompatibility hence the open relationship,
For most, this isn't actually a “small” issue at all. Non-monogamy is a lifestyle, not a band-aid. If you don't think you're sexually compatible….why not date other people whom you are more compatible with?
, his difficulties with expressing his emotions and my psychological/self-esteem issues)
Also not small issues at all. Communication is essential.
We still love each other a lot. I don't think either one of us wants to lose the other, but we don't want the other party to be unhappy either.
Love is never enough, and from the sounds of it, it sounds like you rushed things quite a bit, and have been avoiding talking about the deeper issues going on.
Not saying you should just throw away your boundary… but moving in together can tell you a lot about a person and you will learn new things about them that you haven’t learned in the four years of your relationship. Living with someone 24/7, having their things in your personal space, and determining financial decisions all bring out qualities and habits you may not have known about your partner.
Is it possible to find a compromise? Have a long engagement, say two years, so you have plenty of time living together before getting married? “Move in”, as in move all your stuff and live! there and discuss finances, for a limited time but do not give your own apartment/house yet until engagement? Move in together with a known timeline for engagement?
I've had friends like this. They only continue to do this. It doesn't get better. I still see these friends on occasion and one of their more egregious comments I've called them out on several times (as they bring it up repeatedly like it's a funny joke) and they just don't feel bad. I think many people would so much rather be average looking than receive unwanted attention constantly but that's a perspective they don't understand. They don't see the drawbacks to the attention and if they continue to belittle themselves with pettiness about things like this, they won't ever see it
>>it's something akin to child not eating their vegetables at the dinner table.
Seriously? Very funny
Of course, if she doesn't want to, your third option is to break up for incompatibility or talk to her about an open relationship.
I agree with you. I interpreted your use of affection to mean sex.
It’s healthy and normal to be yelled at 0% of the time. Being yelled at should be abnormal, and is almost never acceptable, though it can be forgivable if it happens under extreme stress.
Your partner’s behavior is abusive, because he know that his behavior affects you the way it does, and he becomes apologetic after that fact, but he’s not willing to change.
He needs anger management classes, or some kind of anger management therapy. Or you may need to choose to protect yourself from your relationship with him.
Jasmine isn’t your friend. She’s using you to get to your brother. Don’t even associate with her anymore. And your brothers are mean. I dunno if you want to have another chat with them about how they always leave you out, but if you don’t I’d just stop making an effort with them too.
I was getting to know a guy last year. We started making out and used to talk about sex. The night before it was supposed to happen, he told me (over the phone) that he has herpes. He said he would understand if I couldn't date him because of it. I was grateful for his honesty. That was the decent thing to do and your girlfriend didn't do that. She caused all this panic and worry, plus wasting money on blood tests. That's why you should leave. She's wicked.
If you are not comfortable, you say no.
If he then proceeds to have one, then you break up as he has cheated on you.
This doesn't seem like a big deal, to me… Different people have different ways of doing things. If someone was cooking for me I'd be happy to do their dishes, not even just my own. If you don't want to wash your own dishes then I suppose don't eat their food?
He is on the home loan but not the land.
On second read, this makes no sense to me. Why would someone who plans to live! at the property co-sign instead of being on the deed. This is something that parents do, not partners. Most likely, she is lying to you about this.
It sounds like arrangements for the property have not been decided at all. She is not going to be available for a relationship until the property and custody have been sorted.
She “ended” things in December.
5 months is an awfully short time to be this into it. Was she “kinda” with you before she “ended” things in December?
Projection? Idk. Either way, we’d be done. Too young with too many options to deal with that nonsense.
At least if it went all over the floor by standing you wouldn’t just walk away from it? You’d mop it up surely. Otherwise how are the billions of other men managing to do it? It’s not a matter of cleaning up before people come around, the seat is stained now