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Date: November 2, 2022
That's a first that feeds into my insecurities. Lol. She is the reason I have grown to be less toxic and a better person. I'm just still working on myself. She loves me and has done things to show for it. You don't know her so please don't say things like this. She's the reason I'm still on this earth… She stopped me. I won't get into it
You've posted multiple things that would be grounds for a divorce. Get out of this relationship.
Break-up asap. Hopefully, it won't piss her off, and she won't turn you in.
Some fucking lamp
This little boy does NOT care for you the way you care for him. Send him the link to buy a pocket pussy and leave him on blocked, sis.
Maybe put it more general? “Hey, I’m having some complicated emotions I didn’t expect about your new relationship and will take a bit of time to get my head straight.” From your original entry, it just sounded like you were trying to alleviate your own suffering by confessing to her…and that’s not the way forward in my mind. You might be able to recover your friendship from a breather, but not from you just confessing to her, which kind of implies she should dump her bf and choose you.
I kind of understand your problem, as I have a best friend I am super close to and I would really struggle, if my emotions freaked out on me, when he next got a girlfriend. I’d be devastated to lose that friendship. Absolutely devastated. That’s why I am suggesting all I can think of to salvage what can be salvaged without sacrificing your mental health.
Give it some time. It's not *him* you miss, it's how he made you *feel*. And now that you know the truth, you won't feel that way with him again.
You clearly didn’t ask about her pre-existing boundary issues and I didn’t explain bc I didn’t feel like it, so you wouldn’t get it. It’s fine lol
Chose what makes you happy. If you like the way things are going right now, why change it just to make someone else happy? That's just going to make you miserable.
We have 3 kids actually. If it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t be with him.
This is absolutely abusive
So you didnt ghost your husband for weeks? thats weird, because according to everyone here its completely normal and acceptable to do that.
You're very welcome. It's something that I have had to do a few times for my in-laws -my side of the family was just my mom- my husband came equipped with both parents, one grandparent, several aunts, uncles, neices & nephews…I have mastered the “Oh, shit, I'm sorry!” belated acknowledgement. My mother in law recently confessed that she doesn't mind when we miss her b'day because we go a bit overboard making up for it ?
She knows what's going on. Has far more info than you currently do. Go to the police. None of this is safe, normal or …..non-murdery.
Police and an open carry permit.
This was my suggestion. Also, if you’re not willing to take the dog, suggest she rehome him…for his sake.
You think the stuff you’re arguing about is stupid? Can you give us several examples please?
This is a very important boundary OP. If she can hit you out of 'fun' what will she do out of anger? It's not childish, it's calculated. This is what she does when she reacts to something you said. Nip it in the bud. It's not feminine. It's not ok to copy fantasy on tv and expect the real world to be fine with it.
I like how clearly you thought all of this through, especially your perspective that even though things didn't work out with this particular person, you now know that you can feel this way about someone again. That is very healthy. You are seeing life from a position of strength and abundance, which I think is necessary for finding true love. Good luck!
My husband (44m) and I (30f) have been married since I was 20.
Yep.
Good old fashioned age gap toxicity strikes for the 3 millionth time.
He doesn't care about you.
He chose someone that was 20 years old to marry and impregnate 3 times because a 20 year old is naive and easy to control.
He doesn't give a fuck about you now, what do you think he's going to do when you get older / develop a more serious illness?
He's going to get rid of you very quick.
While you're young and able bodied, get rid of his punk ass first.
Have one of your friends be on guard duty. Or give her some massive, but you don't care if it gets fucked up job for her to do so she's busy. Like make you guest book?? (But have a backup in case she “forgets”) Props for the Photobooth?? Usher? Make gift bags for children?
No advice here, you're a gross creep & bad person so you shouldn't be surprised she doesn't want you in her life.
But I'm also not surprised that an old man who married a high schooler lacks self-awareness.
Yeah, might as well be your mom using your first and middle and last name. You know it’s gonna be bad! LOL
(We do that with our dogs too)
1-800- Intimacy/Sex therapy.
Absolutely nailed it. Thank you.
Okay, any time you have to use the words “let me” you’re not in an equal relationship, you’re with someone controlling you.
My husband is loyal – but not because I don’t “let him” do things, it’s because he WANTS to be. Same with me. Stop letting someone control you.
my family is public. i cant unmask around them so it turns into meltdowns if we’ve been together for more than a few days that i try to hide. but with my best friends i dont mask and they dont mind so i never have to be in pain and since theyre also neurodivergent we just find accommodations for each other. they’re my family im fully comfortable with, not my blood family.
You should tell her about the environmental impact. It leaves a sticky residue on walls and electronic appliances. Same as nicotine. It will damage your property and your TV etc.
Timing is important. My gf sends me songs but if they're about her and I'm having a me day I won't have space emotionally.
I can make a pretty amazing gift basket of random candy and chocolate for like 20$ and some thrifting. If he's not creative then for something like that maybe have an idea for yourself and have him make a similar idea but his own. That way he knows his gift is appropriate, he can put easy effort in, and you represent yourselves as a couple. Aka you make a basket of your favorite candies and he does the same next time.
It doesn't sound like you've been fighting it sounds like you've been trying to talk things out and he refuses to come to terms or acknowledge you. He probably just things “fine” is over and shut. What can you do? Do t expect anything from him but also he should expect anything from you. Don't call unless he calls or text. I know it's naked but like… Go for a run instead. Write a book. Find something else because you're lucky to be alive not lucky to be with him.
It’s a really good analogy, and possibly very accurate in this case. Thank you
I didn’t even read the whole post but I read the title and my answer is no
19 is a grown up physically. You need to find one mentally too.