sex is an important part of a relationship. If you're not feeling valued and having your needs met, and he wasn't seemingly willing to work on that for you, that's a problem. Has he ever vocalized why he couldn't quite ramp up a bit more for you?
As a guy, I can't seem to think of any time I turned down sex from any of my partners aside from one- and that was because I just was NOT into her the more I got to really know her, but that didn't last 4 years so… i'm stumped for you.
I appreciate your comments on this pal. I am trying to tell myself if she goes crazy about it then i need to bounce and it wasn't meant to be like you say. I'm too emotional tbh i need to try and scale back somehow. On the flip side, I might talk to her and she might be totally understanding and I may get somewhere..
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sex is an important part of a relationship. If you're not feeling valued and having your needs met, and he wasn't seemingly willing to work on that for you, that's a problem. Has he ever vocalized why he couldn't quite ramp up a bit more for you?
As a guy, I can't seem to think of any time I turned down sex from any of my partners aside from one- and that was because I just was NOT into her the more I got to really know her, but that didn't last 4 years so… i'm stumped for you.
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I appreciate your comments on this pal. I am trying to tell myself if she goes crazy about it then i need to bounce and it wasn't meant to be like you say. I'm too emotional tbh i need to try and scale back somehow. On the flip side, I might talk to her and she might be totally understanding and I may get somewhere..