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TravisWylde19, 32 y.o.
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Date: April 15, 2023
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Condoms “irritate his skin”. Girl! ?
Do you have a lawyer to sue??
Because shes barely started her life as an independent adult and he’s well into his. He should NOT be in the same stage of life as her. He’s weird for this.
I made no assumptions, beyond that someone at age 23 will have less life experience than at 32. The rest was my personal experience.
Everyone deserves healthy relationships – trauma has nothing to do with that.
You might well have had boundaries trampled by your previous relationship, I wasn’t there, but then that’s what happens in early relationships with young people. I sure as hell didn’t understand the importance of boundaries at that age. It’s a maturity thing and the situation won’t improve, by you going for the next immature person. Having said that, from your description, you also acted immature as all hell, though with less of an excuse. It’s good that you had therapy, but yet it looks like you are going to repeat the previous pattern of large age gaps.
Why are you attracted to women that much younger to the point where you seek relationships? What boxes do they tick? Are you attracted to women of your own age or older? Have you ever had a relationship in your own age range?
Again, personally, I find it slightly weird that you even seek people of that age, as friends. The youngest person in my friend groups is in her mid-twenties and I decidedly struggle around her, because her problems are just not mine. She comes to me for advice, because I’ve been where she is…and that’s our dynamic. I couldn’t imagine her as a close friend, let alone a life partner, because I find it hot to connect and even harder to talk about my inner world, because it is a very different place to anything she’s experienced. It also feels vaguely inappropriate, because it kind of makes me feel like I am putting adult problems on someone significantly younger.
I don’t know whether your boyfriend loves you or not, but this behaviour is cold and unacceptable. My thought is that it’s usual to comfort anyone who is visibly upset, from stranger to coworker. I know not everyone is comfortable doing this with someone they barely know, but my point is it’s still normal to do it. So that makes me think he’s either completely social inept in this way or that yeah, maybe he just doesn’t care and is a pretty cold character that can just be around someone weeping.
So I’m wondering, has he ever comforted you? You know, in the start of your relationship? Or comforted others, that you know of? Is he neglectful in other areas of your well-being? If he has trouble processing emotions then maybe he needs more direct instruction and a mutual understanding of where it comes from. But I think importantly, you have told him before so he does know. At that point, whether its uncomfortable for him or not, it’s his duty to care enough about you to try or to learn how. You deserve someone who can meet the needs that are important to you.
Not much else you can do bud if she doesn't trust you then she doesn't trust you nothing you do can change that. I wasn't judging you for having the girls number either you panicked I understand that it would only be if you texted back and forth for anything other than school work that this would be a problem for me but for your girlfriend this is clearly an issue she cannot move past.
I don't know why you would take this guy's word on this and not have an adult conversation with Ciera before nuking the whole thing. Sounds like you later found out he was lying and you still are holding it against her. Also sounds like Judas has ulterior motives. You are letting you pride get in the way.
You may need some distance from the relationship and possibly have a little fun on your own with someone else; and see what happens
I understood what you were saying. Have a great night. Cheers.