I spend a lot of time over on r/justnomil. Maybe go over there and read how men who don’t protect their wives and children against their families are perceived. It’s not pretty. Because you are going to be a father, your family IS NOT your parents and sibling. It’s your girlfriend and kid. The family you were born in is now demoted to extended family.
If they aren’t welcoming to your girlfriend, you’re going to have to put some serious distance between you and them. If they don’t treat your girlfriend as one of their own, they will be forced to choose between your ex girlfriend and their grandchild. Don’t say you haven’t been warned when they choose your ex. Happens more often than you’d expect.
Hes not your boyfriend anymore then ?
I spend a lot of time over on r/justnomil. Maybe go over there and read how men who don’t protect their wives and children against their families are perceived. It’s not pretty. Because you are going to be a father, your family IS NOT your parents and sibling. It’s your girlfriend and kid. The family you were born in is now demoted to extended family.
If they aren’t welcoming to your girlfriend, you’re going to have to put some serious distance between you and them. If they don’t treat your girlfriend as one of their own, they will be forced to choose between your ex girlfriend and their grandchild. Don’t say you haven’t been warned when they choose your ex. Happens more often than you’d expect.
She only is with you because she doesn’t have any body else.. so your basically letting her use you until she finds somebody else
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