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Date: November 5, 2022
This is the best way to handle this lol
Yes you sure can lmao. This kind of crap is weird and creepy, just watch some porn live. She had every right to be upset by this
Did he pay any portion of the trip?
I think he was being honest.
What exactly is your chore split, what do you do? What does your wife do?
Misread and thought he splurged. That def changes things but it also sounds like OP knew about her spending before getting hitched.
Point still stands, she needs to change her ways, he needs to help eat her debt and then mange their finances himself, or get divorced. I don't think OP needs to post on here to know he needs to get a professional financial advisor involved or a divorce lawyer. I don't know what we can say to him. He knows his wife better.
If his wife is gonna spend irresponsibly, it'll take her acknowledging her financial illiteracy and working on it either way, whether he stays or not. But otherwise OP is gonna keep hitting his head against a brick wall because it sounds like she is refusing to see why she's creating extra stress for someone sge cares about. Maybe she won't change. Therapy, ultimatum, divorce, not much else he can do without his wife stepping up.
You must’ve been cheated on real bad in the past and I can’t help that. Stop taking your anger out on me and get a real therapist. I bet you wouldn’t say none of that to my face. You going real hot about a situation that doesn’t have anything to do with you. You’re weird and probably have no friends. You’re a loser in real life. I don’t understand people like you who are rude to people who just want some advice, it’s very weird.
I’m with my GF but I still follow a couple of old tinder dates I had in the past.
The difference is that most are not living in our town (or even country) and we kept talking on a friendly demeanor after the dates.
For me personally, it would be weird to unfollow and ghost them, since I know that I’m not doing anything wrong.
I personally believe you should trust your spouse 100%. That is enough to leave a marriage. If you don't believe you have to trust your partner 100% then you don't have to leave. This all depends on what you are comfortable with and how that affects your safety and happiness.
Ouch…you could've said something else…that was kind of harsh…also never turn down a friendship with a nice and kind person…good people are hot to come by. You should send him an apology.
Sounds like he is trying to cut everyone around her.
stuck in a career she cannot stand
So she wants to be a SAHM? And you will provide for her?
she makes it known that its her house
Do you believe that's how a loving person should behave? Looks like she's training you like a dog.
I think you should get some time and place alone to very carefully think if you are ready to always do what she wants.
Think about how much development you've gone through between the ages of 14-18. A lot, right? Now think about how much you're going to change between now and 25, or even between now and 30…Can you even visiualize what you're going to be like as an adult that age?
The point I'm making, is that you go through a hell of a lot of growth and personal development as you grow up and as time goes by, your tastes in the partners & age ranges also reflect that. And in the the eyes of normal, well-adjusted 32 year old, and 18 year old looks like a virtual child in a barely grown body. I can tell you hands-down, that no 30+ year old person would want to date an 18 year old unless they were suffering from some significant issues in personal development, or were proactivly looking for an unbalanced power dynamic relationship where they could retain all the control and dominance over a partner due to their weaker, younger, less life-experienced status (or both!).
This guy isn't dating you for any good reasons. He's goaded you away from your friends and family, and now he's got you isolated he's manipulating you into submission. You were never in a balanced relationship to begin with (and now it's just getting worse).
Get out NOW whilst you still can, because it will only get harder to leave this issued man as time goes by. Forget your ego/pride- you need to get back in tough with your parents and friends again because they're the ones who can get you out of this mess right now. Don't worry about “I told you so's”- your parents knew this man was a bad type right from the get-go (because of their own life experience) and they will just want you back home safe and sound.
Stay strong and get out of this relationship (you can do it!), it is full of more red flags than you can shake a stick at.
OP needs to get away from her husband, not her birth control.
That is not the point at all. It could have nothing to do with OP at all. She could just be feeling sorry for herself and be hurt that she wasn't seen as marriage material. It doesn't mean she still wants him. It doesn't mean that OP is a second choice. It could just mean her feeling of self worth was hurt as a human being.
I continue to tell her my thoughts, like how I really am just a back-up and essentially I'm not good enough.
okay but you've shared NOTHING that would indicate that your gf is the cause of those thoughts. You're projecting your issues onto the relationship. I can understand not being comfy with the two of them being alone but are you really gonna punish her for having a past before you? They werent committed. You two werent committed. She was talking about a restaurant, not what it was like in bed.
Oh, really. As a former 18 year old who got taken advantage of by older people I completely disagree.
I agree, I just feel stuck and I don't know how to deal with these feelings. A voice in my head says that “maybe she was the one he wanted to be with but it did not work out so he decided to come back to me” I just don't know how to stop this feeling.
I don't know what part of what I said is supposed to be wrong.
He knew that you could get pregnant. You knew that you could break up. You broke up and got pregnant. You have both made your decisions, and you both have to live with them.
The only difference is that there is one choice you can unilaterally make for both yourself and him, and that is whether or not you are about to be parents.
Go make your choice. I'm not going to tell you which choice is right or wrong. But clearly, the fact that he doesn't get to make the decision at this point doesn't mean he has to like it.
Why are you worried about this, they're in an open relationship? This isn't your business. Telling your partner who you're making out with at a party isn't part of every open arrangement.
Thanks, I think I’ll do this better late than never I guess
I feel like I'm taking care of a child. I worry about his mental health if I leave.
His mental health is not YOUR problem. Are you really going to live an awful life in fear of how he's going to take a break up?
I've never been so comfortable with someone in my life and fear never being loved again.
You're 19. So, really….you have never been so comfortable in the what 5 yrs of dating history? Really, you have had only had 1 adult relationship.
Being happy and single is better than together and miserable. You will find other partners and the will be fine, maybe even more compatible.
Does she like camels?