I tried the advice of looking for deleted messages, there weren’t any from or to her. Apparently that only works for deleted messages not unsent ones. So I still had no idea what was said in the unsent messages-which no, he’s never ever pocket texted me before so this would only be happening in his conversation to her.
I tried texting her and it was strange but the message never went through. Almost like I was blocked but I’ve never texted her before, she doesn’t have my number. I thought I’d try to send her a message on social media but couldn’t find her.
So I decided to just go talk to her in person yesterday before my husband came home. I walked over to her house, around dinner time. It was a bad time for her, her son was running around and she was in the middle of dinner but she said she could talk for a minute. She was very nice if not kind of awkward and anxious (that might just be how she is though, I haven’t talked to her too many times). I asked her about the texts with my husband and she said she didn’t have anything much more to say than what was there. I asked what the unsent text messages said and she said she didn’t know, she hadn’t read them. Then I asked what the conversation he had alluded to was about and she said she didn’t remember it at all. I told her he had told me it was a joke and she said it might’ve been but she couldn’t remember. After that I left, so I don’t have any answers except a bad feeling in my gut but that could all be in my own head. I’m sorry if this seems rambling. I don’t know if I drop it now.
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Yeah I agree that it's sad. I use to tell him a lot that his job mattered even if he wasn't infantry. Until this day he feels uncomfortable when someone thanks him for his service. He also hates standing up during events that like to acknowledge military.