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Okay she may be in love with the idea of marriage, not understanding the effort and consistency behind marriage itself. Forcing someone to choose you is not the way ! You don’t have to live together before you get married. I would not suggest getting married at 19. Honestly, late 20’s, early 30’s is more time to get settled into yourself, and figure out who you are… Yes, 9 months is a bit soon. I dated my ex husband for 4 years before marriage we met when I was 19, he turned 20. In hindsight, I wish we had a long engagement for more years, because we loved the idea of being together because we were in a long distance relationship for two of the four years , we were lonely and felt marriage would help. It was very hot, and took a realism we never developed. I’m the end lose of twins and infidelities broke us. I don’t regret marriage, just that I got married at 25. I plan to do it again one day, just not in a hurry to because I know now, it’s about sacrifice and true commitment not to run when it gets hot.
You do realize those pics are probably photoshopped to hell right? Women who post pics like that are selling a fantasy, not reality. You need to look up IG vs reality. People can make themselves look like anything.
I'm saying this as someone who is extremely insecure about their body, to the point where I am completely covered up even when walking around the house (I wear tights under my pajama shorts so no one can see anything): people do not see us the way we see ourselves.
We see something gross that needs to be covered up. They see something attractive/beautiful enough to be desired. Or maybe they see our flaws but they don't care. Maybe they think our flaws are attractive.
I know that's not helping the way you see yourself. It doesn't stop me from being self-conscious or paranoid about the way I look. But it does put things into perspective for me.
Just like you ignore/don't notice/are attracted to flaws in other people, they do the same to you. We are all flawed. No one has a perfect body, and having plastic surgery with the mindset you have now is going to be much more destructive than constructive for you.
Ohhh boy, when you had the ‘get back together’ talk, did she indicate any external factors aside from her not feeling the love for you??
If she grew out of love, but now finds the ‘start up again’ butterflies enticing… be very wary. Some people look for the constant excitement of new love… which wears out fast. Don’t be surprised if she constantly looks for the “exciting” dates… trips… large occasion outings… grand gestures of love… etc.
Heck, if your financially in the place to shower continually her with experiences and gifts, and able to always one-up your gifts, you’ll be fine, go for it. Just be warned, if she senses things becoming ‘normal’ or even feeling safe, she might get bored… and might look for instability to give her those butterflies. Unfortunately, this often leads to girls looking for/creating on-again off-again relationships… which can be massively damaging to the mental health of whoever was caught in the crossfire.
But, to your question; Maybe get her something or take her somewhere she mentioned she wanted to go, then frame it as a second “first date”.
Just, make sure you’re happy too. Noone should have to change for a relationship to make it work, not her, and not you. Definitely work on things that you’d want to work on regardless, but don’t make it your life’s goal to change who you truest are to try and make someone else happy.
Best of luck!
I guess he sees sex like it’s a transactional thing. You see like sex is an expression of love person. You should realize you aren’t compatible and he’s more likely to do it again because there’s no feeling involved with sex.
Be honest with her. Tell her what it looks like from your POV without accusing her. Make her realise that maybe she's being too friendly and close with that guy without realizing it. We don't know about him so he may be thinking she's throwing signs at him.
For me, it sounds like a good friendship, but her hiding the details of that dinner… either she's afraid of your reaction or ashamed because she felt something during that dinner. It's possible that she's on the cusp of growing feelings.
Best of luck
Just say, “So long, and thanks for all the fish.” That dramatic reaction coupled with a completely different demeanor when she returned AND she doesn't want to talk about it…just tell her you don't trust her and end it. She can go be as poly as she wants now.
Wtf does this even mean? Brown eyes are gorgeous and there's nothing wrong with being a little shorter than average. He obviously doesn't understand how genetics work because even if you wee 5'10″ with green eyes, the kids could inherit something from some long lost relative and be the exact opposite of both of you. Dump him and move on. If you don't, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Why would you accept a poor bedroom for 3 years and want that forever through marriage?
Has he shown any interest in improving? You sure he’s not fine with being selfish?
Lol he want's a sandwich more than sex so that means he cares more about the sandwich than his entire relationship? As if a man has a martial duty to willingly have sex with his wife whenever she wants – i'd think this was trolling if half this post wasn't full of people who seem to sincerely think men's main purpose in a relationship is sex.
I am not a middle age white woman
I def think it’s already 50/50. Plus I am a gift giver and often give him thoughtful and sometimes expensive things like concert tickets, clothing.
It all comes down to which is more important to you, buying yourself the watch to celebrate making more money or keeping your relationship healthy and happy? If you’re in a relationship, it should be the latter. Like literally, you want to buy the watch or keep your girl?
You want to commemorate the fact that you can afford this watch. You can also commemorate the fact you have someone in your life that cares about you enough to buy you this watch. I’m sure that’s a new step in your life too.
And it’s just $350. Like there’s so many things you can buy for yourself to celebrate that you can afford $350. A ps5 is like $500 go buy that. Better yet, celebrate by buying her a $350 gift because you can do that now and you couldn’t before.
Long distance and all that ain't easy, and when you mix in some mental health struggles, it can make for a real rough ride.
It's good that you're both trying to work through things and not just giving up. But it sounds like you're both still feeling pretty raw and it's making it naked to really connect and move forward. I'm not gonna sugarcoat it, getting from where you are now to a good place is gonna be tough.
From what you're saying, it sounds like he's not really putting in the effort to make things better. Saying he's gonna go to therapy and then not doing it is a pretty big red flag. And that's something you need to address. You can't be the only one working on stuff.
But at the same time, you need to be mindful of the fact that he's dealing with some serious stuff and it's not something that's gonna be fixed overnight.
It's important that you both are having open and honest conversations about what's going on and what you both need to feel better. And if that means taking a break for a bit to work through some individual stuff, then that's what needs to happen.
The key here is to be honest and direct with each other and not just pretend everything's fine. Because it's not and you both deserve better than that.
Ultimately, whether or not things can work out depends on both of you. And it's gonna take a lot of work and communication to get there. But if you both are willing to put in the effort, then it's possible.
Som people make better friends than lovers. That is probably the case here. I assume he pushed for the relationship?
What post are you referring to? Can't say I've seen this phenomenon you're talking about.
You might be confusing reactions to having a list at all with having a list that includes demeaning or objectifying details. A list of names should not be a big deal for any gender.
Yikes, that kind of cheating is pretty sinister. I don’t think I could forgive that.
It’s a big mistake though if it does happen
What's the point of even being in this relationship if your time together is spent listening to him whine and complain about you?
You’re being a little clingy by wanting to be invited when he has plans, but you’re absolutely not being clingy by wanting to spend more quality time with him. Just talk to him about how you want to spend more intentional time together, not just passive time of living together.
I’m so sorry. He’s not attracted to you. He’s a pedophile. Please don’t stay and have kids with him. Take his laptop to the police and file for divorce.
I know this is extremely difficult & I wish you all the best in the future. Healing & wholeness, light & love to you.
Yeah for sure he’s fine with me venting to loved ones but highly uncomfortable with parents because that affects their relationship with him.
I agree I’ve been trying to tell them they need to back off a bit, it’s too much pressure on me to live up to their traditions.
You are worth so much more than someone's scraps! I said this when i broke things off with 3 month guy and I'll say it to you: People will come into your life all the time asking more of you than they can merit- and the day it stops is the day you start saying no!
Say no to bad deals. Being single is better because at least you're open and free for something better. Good luck on your journey fellow redditor lol you are not alone x
Yelling isnt gaslighting, jesus look up what that means.
Trust is a decision made when committing to a relationship that can only be broken with naked evidence. If this is not the case, you have not made this decision yet.
Looking at OP’s history, she might be pregnant
Yeah you two have been having trouble in the marriage and now your wife is dipping her toes in the single life. There’s no way in hell I would be cool with that, and the fact she doesn’t even acknowledge she did something wrong would make it worse.
What was her reaction when she saw you in the pub? Did she try to move the guys hand immediately? Might give you an impression as to what her motivations were if she acted like she got “caught”. And what do you mean her mate threatened to drop you? This is her female friend?