I hate the internet so much, I would’ve gone no contact with literally all my family if I held them to the impossible standard you apparently do.
You’re not supposed to yell at your kids, you should try your best to not do it under any circumstances, but never? For a lot of otherwise good people that’s unrealistic, people are complex and multi-faceted and they do have their moments, people can improve. Yelling at your child once does not automatically lead to all the psychoanalysis or visions of doom in your comment.
Maybe he has been putting up a ‘good act’ to ‘trap her’ and is actually a vicious abuser because he grabbed and raised his voice at a child a single time, but you don’t know that, it’s conjecture.
Please try and be respectful. Do you feel all couples in consenting open relationships are cheaters?
I hate the internet so much, I would’ve gone no contact with literally all my family if I held them to the impossible standard you apparently do.
You’re not supposed to yell at your kids, you should try your best to not do it under any circumstances, but never? For a lot of otherwise good people that’s unrealistic, people are complex and multi-faceted and they do have their moments, people can improve. Yelling at your child once does not automatically lead to all the psychoanalysis or visions of doom in your comment.
Maybe he has been putting up a ‘good act’ to ‘trap her’ and is actually a vicious abuser because he grabbed and raised his voice at a child a single time, but you don’t know that, it’s conjecture.