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Date: March 26, 2023
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This is exactly what me and my gf have been doing for a few years now and it's worked out fantastically well. We each put around half of our salary into our mutual account as soon as we get paid each month, and then use it to pay all our bills/groceries/family activities/nights out/trips/etc. What we each do with our individual money after that is beyond reproach.
For a long time I earned more than her, for the past year or so she's earned more than me. Since we contribute a percentage or our salary, it always feels fair.
I agree, I’m just going to fall back
I’m worried I wont be so upfront about sex and confident in person. Ill update y’all about what happens. Just afraid.
Yes, its shitty what he did 100%.
Although… Nothing of substance really happened beyond the bar. Neither of you met up.
If you had more interactions such as dating/kissing/hooking up… I would say for certain.
He gave his number out while in a relationship, if you think that is something heavy enough in which you would prefer to know yourself… that is for you to be the judge.
Yeah that makes sense. I do eventually delete numbers of ppl I no longer talk to though, bc I hate accidentally calling ppl I haven’t spoken to in years lol.
This is not normal, and you are right to feel like it's far too fast. I'm 21 years older than you, and I certainly dealt with my share of the “love bombers”. Please end this relationship right away and be stern with him about your boundaries. No, you don't want to be friends either. This is a very big red flag. Please be careful.
Just a heads up that OP is also a man.
OP, your H's impulsiveness and anger issues cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to his having very weak control over his own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills he had no opportunity to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If that is an issue for your H, you likely have been seeing the following 4 red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, he started showing strong jealousy over harmless events — or started attempting to isolate you away from close friends and family? He would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing THEM over HIM. Moreover, he usually would hate to be alone by himself.
Second, you would be seeing him rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein he tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because he also uses B-W thinking when judging HIMSELF, he hates to acknowledge making a mistake. To him, it would mean he is “all bad.” He thus would blame nearly all mistakes on you and view himself as “The Victim.” Always “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” his victim status, he would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend himself in the most insignificant disagreement with you.
Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in his frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….” Because his close friends eventually will be “split black” and pushed away, he is unlikely to have any really close long-term friends (unless they on-line a long distance away) even though he may have many casual friends.
Third, you generally would not see him expressing his rages to casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. He usually gets along fine with them. Rather, the outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or his parents).
Fourth, you are convinced he truly loves you. But you often have seen him flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. These flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. And a few hours or days later, he could flip back just as quickly.
OP, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?