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Date: November 24, 2022
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That’s the point that I came too, I thought about this brutally honest. But I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship right now.
Or he wants to set a dynamic going forward in the relationship: OP caves to his demands no matter how ridiculous and cruel they are.
Wow, this sounds like someone I know.
Don’t get so hung up on someone that never wanted to go all in with you. You’ll find someone that does and you’ll laugh at yourself for even worrying about this girl.
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If he hasn’t moved in with you in 6 years of dating it is because he does not want to.
dude her kids safety is more important than her MILs mental illness. it is not this lady’s responsibility to take care of her, it’s the woman’s responsibility to take care of herself.
The title is so misleading. She isn’t selfish, you just don’t know each other yet and you not committing to dates you set up isn’t really helping.
And the comment that she is 31 but looks like 21 is kind of creepy and not helping you in the least.
I appreciate your comment. I’m the person that this happened to but I was too embarrassed to write under my point of view. I realized how much of a doormat I was. She made me feel crazy for being hurt, so I quoted what she said to me over text. You all have helped me realize that my emotions are valid and that blocking her was the best decision. What I listed was only a small part of things, but she had the audacity to ask me for money a couple days before she told me about her date.
There are a ton of concerning things here but I would definitely point out, being “in love” with someone is a completely different thing than loving them the fact that he would say the first thing is very much enough to be concerning
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If it wasn't I wouldn't be here, I don't like wasting people's time
It sucks but I don’t get why you’re taking it upon yourself to punish your mother. And it’s creepy tbh that you’re placing any demands or expectations on her going forward. I get that this truth is horrific, and their betrayal is painful. You get to decide the relationship you have with your mother going forward, and it makes sense that trust and respect have been lost. But the demands on her behavior going forward aren’t yours to make.
You reap what you sow. Don’t be too very hot in a divorce
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Shut up.
i dont want her to feel like im a misogynist, i just dont really respect other women as much as her because of the way most of them are these days
says the misogynist.
Put your foot down and explain to your wife that even when your kids are middle aged, they're still your kids. Kudos to you and your ex for maintaining a good relationship after you ended things. Ask your wife how she would feel if she was the ex in the scenario but be careful with phrasing so it doesn't sound like a threat/ ultimatum. Make it about what's best for the kids
Get a lawyer now. One that is representing only you. Break up with him.
she’s saying that she is 100% straight
We kissed for the first time in high school (we were both drunk). Since that time we keep doing it pretty often. We even had more than that. She is always starting it first.
Sounds like denial to me. Honestly, don't bother with the heartache and find other friends. Distance yourself from her.
Even if he was low and upset about the break up, the bigger thing is he felt it was ok to lie and manipulate someone (“crazy” or not) to just have sex. He thought it’s ok to play with someone’s emotions, especially someone he know already has feelings for him and is not necessarily stable. Then, even after you get back together, he continued to let her believe they could be more by continuing to communicate with her.
That is a likely justification in his eyes, but OP hasn’t really said how much of a present father this guy was for him. Also, maybe this daughter had a father in her life, and he was kind and caring so this is bonus dad and extra stuff. There are a lot of unknowns. Best case, everyone sits down and discusses everything- including making the financial help to the son fair in regards to college. Maybe once the anger over that is out of the way, and the relationship with the daughter is out in the open, a relationship can form between the daughter and son
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You asked. He answered honestly and now you’re hurt? Everyone finds other people attractive. There’s a lot of pretty people in the world. It’s completely natural. That wasn’t fair and it was immature.
Yeah I think he's found someone else, and he's making her miserable so she forces the divorce and is the “bad guy”
Nod and Smile, that's all. From what i understand in your post, Seems like overworking is the norm over there?
Don’t text him. If you’re not good for each other than it’s best to be separated. I know that you want closure but if he’s not willing to see you, the conversation wouldn’t be what you want anyways. Best of luck to you.
Why are you with him? You live in your house. You pay all the bills. He treats you terribly. He risked your health while you were pregnant with his child. Herpes can spread to your infant. He refuses to help with your child. Stop worrying about his bandmates’s girlfriend. Worry about yourself and your child and get out of this relationship.
If your relationship is so great why’d y’all break up
Keep the baby if you want to have a child and are ready to have the baby alone as it’s clear that this relationship is over. Why would you ever want to stay with someone who responds to pregnancy news like this?
especially since I also like girls it could be like a 'love' triangle
You can't just randomly fall in love with whoever your bf tells you to.
Thats not how any of this works.
You should focus on helping yourself. You're not qualified to help her, and that's something she needs to do on her own.
Depression or not, you two don't sound like a good match at all.
I wish karma was real, but it is not.
Both of our zodiac signs are cancer btw
Where is the original post? Id like the full story
You have done nothing to apologize for. Javing empathy is not a reason to apologize
Not HER home.
Her PARENTS home.
She should get her own home. That's all.
Dude it's no big, she probably didn't tell you to avoid an awkward conversation that could've affected your friendship. Past relationships are in the past, she chose to be with you.
But there are context clues.
She was the first person friend told about engagement. They've had multiple conversations about it.
Friend also made a big deal about posting pics of giving gifts to those she asked and posted it on social media.
No no no, I wasn't referring to you! I meant it toward people like your ex who say dumb shit about other people not meeting all their needs.
Absence doesn't always make the heart grow fonder, I know because I'm one of those ppl. I can't do long distance relationships because I go out of sight out of mind. This is usually the reality when you go from seeing a person all the time, to not at all. Facetiming doesn't count as in person. You should have a talk and see if he actually wants to be long distance or if he wants to be single. He's doing what most 20 year Olds should be doing.
It might have been an accident, it might have been intentional – but either way it sounds like a compliment.
Considering her dad is present and a good father, maybe she wants a way to show you your elevated status in her life. Maybe that’s a change of name to more of an affectionate name if she usually calls you by your first name. Maybe that’s next to come.
Either way, take it as the gift it is ?
Why the fuck have you just been putting up with this for years? Give him 5 mins then just leave. It’s so weird you don’t go inside and the fact he makes you wait in the car. Girl get a backbone, why you waiting that long in your car for some dude.
Yeah pretty much this. She’s prob pretty unemotional about physical injury – which both makes her good at her area of focus and will only increase her natural callousness around it.
Literally all you can do is tell her how it makes you feel and what you would like to see instead. She can change or not, and then you can figure out if that’s good enough.
Advice? Dump him. He sounds awful.
Being comfortable enough to have sex can take time and effort. Really? Because I went on one date with this guy. And I knew I wanted him after that, and we had sex on the second date.
Yeah, I get what you're saying I know my issues and why I acted the way that I did towards him. I've talked to my therapist about this we have been talking about it since my first session.
Everyone is telling you not to tell her, but your guilt is going to eat you alive. I say be honest & see what happens.
I don't see how morals factor into this. It's simple supply and demand. You have a skill set that is in demand, and there is a fixed quantity of 1 of you. 2 businesses wanted the inventory and bid on you. The winner acquired you.
Has she explained in what way this is “slimy”, and what about it reflects (negatively, I assume) on your character?
This is halfway joking unless this would somehow work for y’all:
Pornhub had a whole big section/genre dedicated to finding the clit.
If you don't like their advice, give better advice. At least they're trying, all you're doing is looking for people to pee on.
If you're so keen on helping your sister who won't actively try to upstart her life maybe you should be the one sleeping on the couch instead. Or why can't one of your guests sleep on your couch? They're the guests after all.
I would If i could but I don’t know where I stand legally since she has paid for everything.
Zero, the awnser is zero. You two don't sound compatible sexuality, but that alone would not be a deal breaker. What I'm concerned with is the amount of pushing and manipulation your (hopefully soon to be) husband does when he doesn't get it his way. That's just awful behaviour.
If the items were intended for shared use (like, game consoles or kitchen appliances), and he paid for them, then just give them back. You don't need that kind of karma hanging around the artifacts in your life. And he could make a plausible claim that they are his property, and you don't want to be explaining that crap to a sheriff's deputy. Law enforcement is likely to conclude that it's a civil matter, and they won't come back without a court order, but… you never know.
If it was a personal gift to YOU, and there is no dispute about that, keep it, throw it away, give it away, or return it as you see fit. Morally, you're under no obligation to do anything at all with it. Legally, you might want to give it back just to avoid a law enforcement encounter over it, but that's your call.