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Date: October 8, 2022
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I can agree with that. Don’t know why people think asking their partners what their body count is a good idea in the first place to be quite honest.
Yeah. He got around to saying I hope it does work out, I do, but I don’t know why Initally he was so apprehensive, fear I guess?
Could you hook me up with the spark notes of it?
Yes you can. Adults do. But your husband is strange.
Shoot your shot girlll u have nothing to lose
Wait a little bit longer…she will come around…don't date other girls because that will hurt her and push her away
I think what he was trying to convey was: I'm your boyfriend, not just a gossip friend.
He dodged a bullet, methinks.
He's avoiding accountability for his shitty behavior. Why would you want to be with someone who has, and is going to break your heart? You can't build a relationship without trust. The easiest way to lose feelings for him is to move on yourself. IF, and that is a big IF, he wants to make a relationship work with you, he NEEDS to do the WORK on himself. Probably wouldn't hurt for you to find therapy to help you cope with how you feel. You deserve better, you deserve to not be cheated on.
She has a brat/slave kink( I think that’s how is called), it’s a mix of probably I am not good at it and she likes when I “ control” her or “dominate” her so when I go down she feels like she is the one in control and doesn’t like.
Which is why he’s taking you so much for granted.
She can’t control what he does. What’s she supposed to do when he doesn’t get a personality transplant and change into a good husband?
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Jesus Christ not only did you cheat on your husband with one of his friends, you also totally emasculated him by sharing his porn preferences? You’re a horrible horrible person.
It's not totally unambiguous, but there's a strong hint there. However, not everyone who invites someone for coffee or lunch necessarily wants to get in the other person's pants.
You'll just have to gage her reaction. Has she answered yet? If she accepts your invitation, you can make it clearer during your “date”. Just because she is willing to have coffee or lunch with you doesn't necessarily mean she wants to date you. If she acts like she likes your company, all signs point to her being interested. But you have to say it in a clearer way, eventually.
I wouldn’t text her.
Good job and the tough internal introspection and growth. Apply that to your next relationship.
I was expecting after a few sentences to find out he asked you in bed over coffee, or proposed with a ring he purchased for an ex or something ?
I don’t understand exactly what your issue is when everything you “dreamed” of is also public things? You have your proposal beautifully photographed and recorded, you were given roses, and then taken to a fancy restaurant? Like in all honesty I feel like he really tried his best!
You just got engaged! To someone you love! This is exciting and wonderful, instead you’re sitting on reddit complaining that your partner was to know you’d have a problem with eating at a fancy dinner after being proposed to because you “struggle eating food” ? I don’t know, I feel like you had super high expectations and instead of looking at the bigger picture, you’re nit picking at things that are silly.
Also, Boat rides are expensive? Where I live, a boat ride for 25-30 mins is $75 EACH, I can’t even imagine the cost to hire a decent sized boat, to have a romantic setting for a proposal for at least an hour. Maybe he just did the best he could afford? Were you alone when you got home? Couldn’t you have continued the special moment and night rehashing that you just got engaged?
I didn’t make excuses. I simply have a different opinion than you. I specifically said it doesn’t excuse the text. But people change and it sounds to me like what they have is special and worth salvaging. Feel free to disagree. It’s my opinion and I’m entitled to it.
Thank you, that’s very insightful.
If you are “afraid of your safety” around your wife, not only should you get out of the trip, you should get out of the marriage.
Quit being a bitch (no offense) and talk to your father like a grown up. Imagine being in his shoes and dealing with all this while trying to keep everyone happy. You causing drama doesn’t help anyone but somehow makes you feel better because you hurt your dad.
Probably because you freak out. My sisters would hang all the time without me. I don’t care. You make your own path. Siblings and/or cousins usually mingle with their own age.
Um yeah thats what she's meant to do and you're questioning it? Why?
I workout 6-7 days a week. 5’10 170 lbs, 10% bodyfat. That means absolutely nothing to her. I also dress nice and she usually gives me her input on what I get or even put on for the day.
If you don’t wanna be in a poly relationship then do not be in a poly relationship. You’re both only 20 years old, already having a kid while being engaged and he’s already looking for a way to ethically cheat on you and sleep with other women. That’s a lot of yikes. So if you entertain his idea to be poly, what do you get out of it? Nothing right? I feel like if you agreed under the pretense that you’d also get to engage in relations with someone else he’d put the brakes on real fast because he wants his cake and to eat it too. Not saying that’s what you want, but that’s likely how that scenario will go, or he’ll lie and say that’s not how “healthy” poly relationships work. My point is, if you’re monogamous then you’re monogamous and he’s spewing a lot of bullshit to get you to let him sleep with other women because now you’re “unappealing” because you’re pregnant. I’d put some top dollar that he won’t go back to normal once you give birth either.
People go their entire lives without seeing their own butt. Pictures are the only way.
I’m going to try and be nice because your post made me more angry then I should be at this time of day
You need therapy and to leave your daughter alone and if the time ever comes where she wants to be apart of your life then you can show her the “changed” person you are but until then lie in the bed you made
I guess it all comes down to why you broke up in the first place, was it lots of little things or something big, like a fundamental incompatability that one or both of you will not compromise on.
Have either of you done things since the divorce that would be a barrier to trying again, e.g. bad mouthing each other to friends and family, sleeping around or with someone that was considered a friend or “don't worry about them they are just a friend”.
Do you need to consider a prenup to protect a change in financial status, or not repeat what happened last time when you got divorced.
Have either or both of you taken any steps to correct the reasons why you got divorced?
And do you even want your ex back? Do you trust her not to stomp on your heart or hold the divorce against you?
She can't control her dad's actions, but she can choose to accept them as okay or to refuse to tolerate them. It sounds like she has made her choice.
To Gf:
My parents behavior is unacceptable
Then why are you accepting it?
this is his time to show he really wants me.
It takes being abused by your family to prove that he wants you?
You’re absolutely right. I conjured up fantasies in my head solely based on things he was telling me vs his actions
Increase your fitness, stop masturbating
Okay? That doesn't mean he's ready for a kid. I also have a breeding kink, but that doesn't mean I'm ready to be pregnant for 9 months and parent for the next 18+ years
Take a hint. They both want you out.
Don’t take this advice. Revenge is no medicine. It’s a cancer. Nine times out of ten there’s a lot you don’t know. In ten cases out of ten it doesn’t balance things but unbalances them in some other direction.
So first, you did the right think by approaching him in private. Sure, you kind of went to worst-case scenario about what you thought happened, but you brought it up privately. His reaction was totally inappropriate and isn't at all the way an adult should respond to something like this. He should have said no, and then he could have expressed that he was hurt you would think that about him, but instead he reacted the worst way possible.
He needs to apologize to you for taking a private matter- that you handled privately- to a full group of people and purposefully embarrassing you and mocking you.
And by the way, take it from someone who knows, he did coke. There's no way this man never told you about allergies, then sits down with a runny nose and sweating, and then runs around the house yelling about you asking about it, if he really did just have allergies. Every part of your story screams “high on cocaine” and you need to trust your gut.
Don't do it. This could kill your reputation and career.
Obviously when women in male dominated fields get into sexual situations with their coworkers it justifies a lot of stereotypes to some people. So if you wanted to pursue this it would behoove you to at least go work for another franchise before you let it get started, just to preserve your reputation. It's also worth you recognizing the track record many athletes have in terms of pursuing relationships vs. just chasing notches on the bed post. You could clearly cause yourself a lot of damage here.
Thanks
My ex isn’t with anyone in their teens (as far as I know) but he is estranged from my oldest son who is in high school. My son refuses to even speak with his father. Well even though they haven’t spoken since last August my ex husbands profile picture is of him hanging out in front of my sons high school. Like what was he doing at a fucking high school, his sons high school who he doesn’t even speak to. And this man puts it as his profile picture. So like zero self awareness. People that have no shame definitely exist. Man is 40 years old hanging out at a high school. Still at least as far as we know the youngest is Oman he as dating was 23… but that was like 5 months ago so who knows
I could have told you she was depressed just reading the first couple of paragraphs. Home renovations place enormous stress on a marriage and especially when you have only taken one day off from that. You are literally showing her every day how much you care about this family because you are working yourself to the bone for them, right? Wrong. Let me tell you what she sees. A man who puts work before family. Mars versus Venus thing. Is she getting help for her depression and anxiety? If not, that comes first. If so, what she’s doing isn’t working so you need to look at other avenues for treatment. You need to slow down on the renovations and reengage more with family. You need couples therapy. This is broken but I don’t know if it’s beyond repair and it’s not all on her. Work together to fix this.
Why are you with this man? He sounds cruel and abusive. No, you should be appreciated. Both your husband and son are wrong and yes, you shouldn't do anything for his birthday. Or your son's.
If you have to check a usage report to see if the vacuuming has been done, it probably doesn’t need doing.
That is also weird controlling behaviour.
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I see that…I don't mind leading .my concern is managing the experiences and scenarios and the lasting impact before maybe seeing improvement. It can be 1yr or 10 yrs but with kids in the middle make it challenging with genuine concerns
My partner has herpes. She told me before sex ever happened and before we even got together officially. We talked about her medication and how it works to prevent outbreaks.
Unprotected is minimal, and never during a break out, and I get tested semi regularly, just in case.
I would never trust someone who only told me after having unprotected sex. That's not trustworthy behaviour.
What part of the world are you in? This may be a cultural gap.
I’m speaking from the US. If this was happening with one of my friends, my first question would be who the heck was supporting her before you met, and why can’t she fund her own needs? It sounds like you’re being taken advantage of.
Yea, there’s a lot to the church issue. Granted she worked at the church but when you start staying late at a church that’s closed you kinda put 2 and 2 togeather or am I overthinking this? Pastor John Fields from grace church I tried to email this scumbag about my marriage but the coward didn’t email back. This dude is also her boss at the time. This dude should be fired or never allowed to work in a church again. I can’t say for sure but I think it has something to do with him or someone else at this horrible church.
I’m sorry, the fact the kid isn’t hers wasn’t clear to me. You’re right. Run, don’t walk away.
block.
She absolutely gives off that vibe. She would be the type to poke holes in a guy’s rubbers, or pour sugar in his gas tank. Wouldn’t surprise me a bit if he broke up with her and he finds out she called his work and started some drama, or even spread false accusations about him to his family/friends. Crazier shit than what I’ve mentioned has happened before and it started very similarl to what OP is dealing with
Nah he’s dodging a HUGE bullet. Stop being so clinically live. Those fb groups are so hurtful to men but at least they weed out the controlling and emotionally immature women who aren’t wife material (you).
Man I’d have to unload on the in-laws. To be complicit and enabling is beyond wrong