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so she went to DC with her real boyfriend and her boyfriends family lmao
Tell him that you would appreciate it greatly that if he really does like you to use better words to describe your beauty on a regular basis .U guys Need to open up more. Talk dirty!!Young guys aren't Like Us Mid 30 and up aged men who has no fear in grabbing a Woman by her hips and tell her how beautiful she is. Not all boys can know how to treat a woman they need to learn to know
Oh noooo all the boys are mad now??
It is NOT YOUR FAULT! He is a controlling person and for your own safety block him on all media. Call the police and tell them exactly what happened.
Disagree. My BFF died when we were 16 and I still talk to her. I’m in my 40s. I process stuff by having conversations “with her”. Just because that’s what worked for you doesn’t mean that’s the right process for everyone.
I’d be on Indeed instead of Reddit, but that’s just me.
I couldn’t date someone who doesn’t respect others time. He’s a 31 year old man. Is he 2-3 hours late every day for work? And in the first month of dating, he’s supposed to be wooing/ courting you. No ma’am.
Big red flag OP. No bounderies. Good luck.
God yes. There aren't worse people in the world than ones who waste your time. That is a precious limited resource.
Doesn't matter what is going on, unless there is some emergency, he should be there on time. Do not remain with this person. Even IF there is nothing nefarious here, think about how much time of yours he'll waste for the rest of your life.
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I went on to say it’s ok for her to try if he does come back she can see how things go with him.
I'll second this comment from /u/JustAnotherMaineGirl, especially given that you actually opened the door to the overall scenario.
He said darker skin tones ethnicities have thicker skin and tend to swell more.
This makes you and your parents so much worse.
Not to mention theyre working in the same department making similar money in a job that doesn’t require a degree…. from the boyfriends perspective her degree was probably a waste of time and money
He probably thought you knew what closing costs are.. which usually around $4k.
Leave
He cheated, period.
Genuine question: how often do you buy her flowers or surprise her with dinner? Are y’all doing stuff like that?
This relationship wont work pal. Nothing you did was wrong, you're just not compatible. Unless you both are willing to compromise a little bit it won't work, no relationship would.
You could ease into the dirty talk by saying things like, “I love it when you do XYZ to me.” Or talk about fantasies, like places or scenarios in which you would like to do it. Or if you can't think of anything else, just say you can't get enough of her whatever body part.
It just depends how raunchy she wants it. If she is expecting you to act like a porn star, then maybe that's not for you. Saying raunchy stuff and trying to come up with fakes lines isn't going to come off as genuine and it's just going to be distracting and awkward. Try vocalizing what you are thinking in the moment. Something simple like, “my c0ck feels so good right now” is way more effective than some uncomfortable, out of character line. Just keep it simple.
Surprised to see you are the only person suggesting this and how far down I had to scroll. The nervous responses she described seem more akin to being embarrassed than being guilty.
You also need to show him this comment so he knows exactly how he has made you feel. He is an ungrateful swine. Let him fuck his hand for a few months.
My cousin has maintained a relationship with her father despite his years of physical and verbal abuse of my aunt and cousins. He ran off with an affair partner too.
It’s definitely changed their relationship and soured that cousin’s relationships with her sisters. My aunt is incredibly hurt every time my cousin chooses to spend time with her father. They stay in touch but I really think it would be mentally healthy for all them to sever ties with the one.
I mean I don’t know much about UK law but I would assume that since you already told her and gave her a warning and where you put her stuff I would just leave it at your door so 1 she cant blame you for purposely throwing it away and try to take you to court(like I said no clue about UK law but I am basing this on common sense) for damaging her property/items. Tbh after that just block her and ignore her one day that trash bag will disappear no need to keep letter her know about it, if she really wants the stuff she will get it. Now time for you go online your best life and start paying attention to red flags anyone tells you that you can’t have a one-one with the opposite sex should immediately rasie up alarms. Lol I got cheated on as well for listen to that dumb shit.
That would wreck me tbh, hearing him call me an “obligation.” Also, entering the room like that when you had locked it is NOT okay and should not be tolerated. As an outsider with limited information, I don't see him changing too much and I think you should consider if you want the rest of your future with him to look like your present does.
Not to mention they've been dating under 3 weeks but he's already attributing his weight loss to her, ridiculous in it's own right, indicating she's made a massive impact but in the same breath saying it's not anything serious.
That literally what I just said though?
Dump the twig, real women have curves
I almost wrote a comment, but by God it isn't worth the time, look at the age gap, realize why he's acting immature , ✨️find someone your age✨️
Have some selfrespect. You are dating a guy who wants his ex back.
Absolutely not, they had MULTIPLE chances… They shouldn't get an endless font of chances because of a six letter word.
They had their chances… Yes, plural, and they chose to be bigoted aholes… They can weep into the shroud of Turin for all that would do.
Families should be more like cops, where they should be held at a higher standard and lead by example… Yet they are more like cops in the US that have immunity to all the shitty things they do, and use and abuse that to become even bigger bullies.
It's always the overtly religious that prove to everyone else just how far away they are from their “Savior”.
Don't tell people to continue on with their bigoted, abusive families… You're asking them to take more shit from people who can't get their own head out of their asses. It's shameful.
So you started dating your fiancée when she was 18 years old, we’ve survived a pandemic, and she had a whole baby, and you’re upset that she doesn’t look 18 anymore?
Your post is dripping with condescension and disrespect. There’s no hope for this relationship when you’re using words like “gut,” “lazy,” “glutton,” “eats like a child” to describe the woman you’re supposed to be in love with. At this point it would be kinder to break up and transition to a coparenting relationship. You’re being crueler to her now by pretending to love her while being secretly disgusted by her. Over time you’ll only grow to resent her even more for not being the person you want her to be. Give both of you a chance to be happy apart.
As sad as it is , I congratulate you on the courage to walk .
Based on the story you sound a selfless , caring person , matched with fight , determination and you have only acted reasonably.
You deserve better and now that you have mentally said enough , it’s important you go through with the act of making that happen as it seems you are .
The steps will be tough but at every point you will feel freedom and the capacity to make your own decisions .
You are unhappy , you need happiness.
Walk away so you can start to fly ?✔️???
I think this may be a case of “breadcrumbing”, Op.
*breadcrumbing refers to a person who gives you just enough ‘crumbs’ of attention or affection to give you hope and keep you on the hook*
She may be keeping you around for her own validation and self esteem but doesn't want you in a romantic manner.
I mean, yeah, she wants you as a friend but I think it's painful for you having been dumped but still be around for her when she deems to reach out for you. She wants to be friends with you on her time.
I would just cut her off, focus on yourself and move on, Op.
i don’t even know how i would make him think it’s his idea.
I do hope this isn't a troll. It's pretty impressive concept definition if it is though.
Yeah, I bet that makes for a great environment for your kids. How can you even stand to look at your wife knowing she treats your daughter so horribly?
That should take precedence over having him put your picture on social media that he doesn’t even look at.
It doesnt sound like you'll ever get her to call you “her son”. She simply doesnt see you in that way. I suppose there is something in being called a gender-neutral term, but I'm not sure I could say what it was.
Its up to your really. Its new ground for a lot of older adults and parents and there seems to have been an explosion of acceptance and indeed people openly re-gendering themselves in the last few years. It can be a tough thing for people that have never seen it that way to accept. Maybe nice 99% of the time is enough? Maybe acceptance needs to be 100% or nothing? Do you need to cut someone off 100%?
wtf is this childish shit. You made a comment about a movie and now he’s ghosting you?
I understand that he pulled her from daycare altogether, not just picking her up early that day. Not as bad as violence obviously but most couples discuss decisions like that.
Okay but anal sex isn't vaginal sex. Lol.
You should probably break up, tbh.
If you've been together for two years and this is still an issue your relationship just isn't as solid as it should be. In a healthy situation you wouldn't feel the need to lie and he wouldn't need that because he'd be more invested in where you are now than where you used to be.
Hi, this is very eye-opening advice. Thank you so much for taking your time.
Actually, I tried to convince my parents about this trip and they said they'll only allow me to join his family IF my brother will accompany me. So they still want me to have a chaperone. I told him about this over video call and he dropped our call without saying anything. He was extremely annoyed. It's really unfair and I felt so unheard and invalidated.
Does she see your son as an object – aka, a perfect doll that represent her perfect life, or does she see him as a distinct person? Narcissists tend to see other people as objects, not as distinct people with a whole interior universe.
I know a person who is like this. Who likes to show a perfect image of her family and her son and I find that she is already grooming him to be a narcissist. She’s doing things like: always comparing him to other children in a superior way – even when he is present. Always praising him (praising is not necessarily bad, but excessive praising is). Always filming him doing stuff, even if he doesn’t like it. Buying him toys and clothes really often, like a lot. She also was saying that she doesn’t know if she wanted a second child because it might hurt his son who is accustomed to have all attention on him. Is this healthy?
Listen you are trying to make him something he is not. He is into porn you are not. You are incompatible. I will not give you validation for wanting him to not watch porn. Those are your personal views. I personally don’t mind it and quite enjoy it myself but porn addiction is something else. But let me put it this way at it’s like being against drugs and then dating a junkie asking them not to do drugs. It’s unfair to you or your partner. Let him go. You have different needs
Like others here, I find it stunning that a therapist would suggest you “let them in” especially when I am sure you have given all the social cues that you are not healed from what they did, they never once apologized (only scolded and tried to shame you for not calling your dads wife mom), nor mentioned any interest in this. The therapist seems to e deaf and not well versed at reading the room. Time for a new one?
In regards to your father and his wife. It seems that the heart of the problem is in several layers. 1. Him bringing her into your life so fast. 2. The two of them taking liberties of erasing the existence of your dear mom from the home. 3. The constant demands, brow beating, and forceful nature of trying to push you into calling this woman your mom or even thinking of her as one. The two of them come across as emotionally and empathetically tone deaf. No decent person would have gone about things this way. And if she wanted to be your mother so badly, she should have actually acted like one rather than worry about the label. In acting like one, she would have prioritized your needs and feelings over everything, including making sure you had memories of mom, and listen to your fond stories. Not just that but a whole lot more. These two dingbats never once gave you much of a chance to develop a bond organically. Now they get to lie in bed with that mess. They did all that, not you. You do not have to forgive them to heal or be at peace. It might be therapeutic for you to write them a letter about your issues with them even if you never send the letter. I am glad you have a very good supportive wife to be by your side during all of this.
Depression doesn't excuse you being a total piece of shit of a human being. You could have fucked literally anyone but your friend's wife. The fact that you didn't feel bad until you started hanging out with him again makes you a massive piece of shit.
Are you still in therapy? That helps a lot! I wouldn't stop.
I think you're overthinking this a bit though. Yes – ideally you wouldn't be doing this stuff, but you said your boyfriend is “incredibly understanding!” But you “feel like a burden.” Why? Has he said anything to you or are you projecting these feelings onto him?
It will get better with time and therapy.
I wasn't talking about the child. I was talking about people in general. Anyway. Thank you.
She's a very young mother demonstrating some extremely concerning behavior.
You need to put your own needs and this relationship on the back burner end. Make sure she gets assessed for postpartum immediately, and by an actual trained medical professional. Not just like a conversation or your best guess.
Making some extremely serious decisions immediately after the birth of a child.
I would sleep with my mother if I had to, but never my father. He’s never acted in any way inappropriately towards me, but the idea of sleeping in the same bed with him would be a definite no.