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Date: December 5, 2022
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Compartmentalize your feelings and fuck her brains out for awhile without “dating” her. Don't move back in. Just keep sleeping with her then when she asks why you aren't giving her what she wants you say thanks for the orgasms peace out ✌️
No it doesn't.
Also does she say he used that word first?
Oh girl, I am so sorry you're dealing with all this shock and confusion! This is all so above my head so I don't have advice except to take care of yourself, stay hydrated and keep as calm as possible. This is horrible either way-if he did it or didn't.
Why just ok? Where's the advice I asked for?
She needs to pay for it – she was cheating on you. How much does it cost in your country for the blood test? Tests have changed. It will even be cheaper for you to pay for that than waste your time and money in the months leading up to the birth. Then she might put your name on the birth certificate and refuse to do a blood test.
act on impulsive moments
That's not really a trait you want in a partner, regardless of the context.
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She cannot just block him, they work together at the same department… She told me she would leave this job immediately if I wanted, but I don’t know if this would be a good solution. I would rather have her address the issue and fix it somehow…
I know this seems like a failure to communicate on my part, but I don’t have the skills to wrangle with this guy. I don’t want to be with someone that can sucker punch me like that.
And that's the rub: this isn't for you to fix. You didn't cause this, and there's nothing for you to do here, but recognize what an absolute shit situation this is and walk the fuck away.
Congratulations, OP. Most posters in your situation are a good 5-8 years and a kid or two in before they come to your realization.
Take care and on-line your best life not accepting abuse from anyone.
I think they may not be. I can’t be certain at all, naturally. I’m going to look into it but I think this may be more credible than you think.
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I find it interesting that YOU think its disrespectful of him to do that. Its disrespectful to be on your phone when you are on a date.
I agree with others that it's not about the pillows. Something else is going on. You need to talk to him about things.
I mean they've done this from the start so, not sure that return ship holds water
how can you love your partner and not love their child? the kid is literally part of your partner!
What about safe and respectful to the other people on the road??
Ultimately you don't get to know what's going on with her unless she shares it.
This is not a person you should be in relationship with. Mental illness or not, a partner that doesn't keep you in the loop is not a partner at all.
Take this for the reality check that it is, there wasn't something of significance here, and it's time to start grieving that this is truly over.
She'll pop back into your life whenever it suits her. Don't be at her beck and call or you'll find yourself on and off wasting your life on her.
Put an official end to it. Hide her from your SM. When she tries to pull you back in, recognize that she's not the right fit for you.
Understand he may never see the double standard. Or maybe he does, but doesn't care.
So what does he even bring to the table? Does he do anything for you except tear you down because you work for your money? Why isn't he an ex yet?
The ex hasn't lain on your couch, whining about his man cold for a week. He hasn't picked on your TV shows, bitched about your mom, your sister, or the car.
You haven't had to ask him 10 times to do the same thing, and he hasn't had to ask you 20 times to not leave your cups all over the house.
It's so easy to romanticize the ex as this perfect man who got away when you aren't washing his underwear and arguing over money.
If this is what being happily married is like, I'd rather be single!
And hire a cleaning person.
Maybe Dad can remain Dad and step dad could get his own special name like Papa or something..
He is 10 years older and you are doing what he says. Why are you doing it? Haven't you thought about saying “No, I'm not doing that” “No, I do not want to.” “No.”
I don’t think that I demanded he does. I did want to have a conversation about how it made me feel, and he hung up and ignored me
Yeah no that's fishy. Clearly she's found a way to avoid him at the bus stop for some reason. Whether or not he hit on her is speculation but something def happened.
First thing – he now does his own shitty laundry.
Second thing – face to face come to Jesus moment with him. Calmly, lay out your concerns (his mental health/depression) and finally how it's affecting your intimacy and feelings about him. Let him know you support him getting medical and/or mental health help.
Third thing – Gentle ultimatum. Get himself back into the marriage, or you get a new roommate. Give yourself a timeline – 1 month? 3 months? 6 months? to see and have him maintain a new behaviour. Are you willing to on-line like this indefinitely?
It seems a little soon to be upset about not meeting his parents but I guess if they’re local, it is a little odd that there hasn’t been a single family dinner out, bday to celebrate, some kind of informal get together, etc.
If it were me, I think I’d reframe things.
While it was a small gesture, I think putting your name on the Xmas card was an olive branch. If they’re decent people, they’re probably embarrassed. And everyone got played by the cousin. Sounds like his parents are protective and wouldn’t you believe family over someone you don’t know at all?
I’d tell your boyfriend how you’re feeling because he really should be addressing this with his parents. I don’t think you should expect them to roll out the red carpet and apologize profusely. But your boyfriend could certainly organize a dinner out with them.
To me (44F) it’s up to your BF to manage his family and that includes how they treat you and when he introduces you. I agree with you that just “dropping by” would be a no. That just will potentially make things awkward for everyone.
It's not really though. Kids demand so much time the first X number of years of life.
I don't get how people think they can have multiple small children, jobs, cars, houses, bills, etc and an unchanged sex life.
Kids take a massive toll on women. MASSIVE. And it's like men are shocked by this reality.