Wearing an oxygen mask at night is not a serious response to sleep apnoea. It’s a way to avoid dying in your sleep, but other than that it is a neutral response. It’s merely acceptance of the condition. You are not taking your health seriously. You’re playing around with it for kicks.
This is weird, and you are NOT overreacting—he’s underreacting. Next time he goes, you go with him. I mean if it’s not a big deal, right? Go hang out with the young mother. Make yourself at home. Call his bluff.
But if I call him out on that he really really can’t understand that, even from his own personal perspective. Hence, why we need a mediator. Because his mom never required thought from him in this way, that’s just the way their family operates, it feels like nagging when I ask him to take an emotional standpoint.
She's telling you all the time that you're trying to cheat on her and she can't trust you. Does that sound like she thinks you're a good person?
Wearing an oxygen mask at night is not a serious response to sleep apnoea. It’s a way to avoid dying in your sleep, but other than that it is a neutral response. It’s merely acceptance of the condition. You are not taking your health seriously. You’re playing around with it for kicks.
This is weird, and you are NOT overreacting—he’s underreacting. Next time he goes, you go with him. I mean if it’s not a big deal, right? Go hang out with the young mother. Make yourself at home. Call his bluff.
But if I call him out on that he really really can’t understand that, even from his own personal perspective. Hence, why we need a mediator. Because his mom never required thought from him in this way, that’s just the way their family operates, it feels like nagging when I ask him to take an emotional standpoint.
If you don't feel comfortable, let her know. But you make a fair point.
OP comments on porn subs asking for creators to DM him. His problems go way beyond this post.