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Well, that was a twist.
I think you need to talk to your dad about it first. If she’s actually violent to the point where you fear for your life, the affair is kind of small potatoes at that point.
Does anyone else in the family know this has been going on? I'd tell the wife and let the family know he's been having sex with a child. Wtf?
How is everyone okay with this if they do know and how has your bf and yourself been letting this continue to happen if no one else knows?
Skill issue tbh, bro is not him
Let her make a move.
If she’s really interested you’ve already made it clear you are. She would know how if she cared.
She also clearly told your counselor about the note and even gave it to them. So maybeee she’s just like that?
I think that you are not wrong to be anxious about live disclosure of the age gap, especially if your live disclosure is on a platform that allows for anonymous and/or the public in general to make/leave comments.
If your live! disclosure is going to be to a “private” type group of people who know or mostly know you IRL, then I would hope that they would not have anything bad to say, but even in this case be prepared for some potentially insensitive statements and/or questions being asked to be asked, but in the case of your IRL friends and acquaintances, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt, and chalk it up to them being unintentionally insensitive, simply curious or because they are concerned/worried about one of both of you.
Personally, I think the age gap in your case isn't a big deal, because of your actual ages. The reason is that both of you are most likely in reasonably similar “life stages” since both of you are straight up adults.
If the “life stage” for the both of you were signifantly different, for example if you were 19 and still in or just finished High School or just started College or had just entered the workforce and he was 33 then I'd be concerned because there would be a “life stage” mismatch, and in most cases, you might not be able to “go out” to many of the places that someone who is 33 could go to (read: bars and the like), which can be a source of issues.
Then there is the potential of there being a “power difference” between the two of you, because there is probably a huge difference in income and lifestyle between someone who is 19 and is with someone who is 33.
But even in this case, as long as both partners fully understand and accept the “life stage” and “power” differences, an relationship between someone who is 19 and a person who is 33 is totally legal in most places.
If you were my IRL friend and you told me that you were going out with someone who is 44, I'd probably be a bit concerned, but once I can see that the things between the two of you are going well, and that the relationship doesn't have any blaring red flags, I'd be supportive, because the 29 and 44 age gap really isn't a big deal in my eyes, and because this is your life and not mine to online.
I hope this made sense and was helpful.
Best wishes and good hope to both of you going forward, I do hope that things continue to go well for the both of you, and that things turn out more positive than negative if you do decide to share your status/ages on-line.
Cheers!
Yeah, at this point, this is ridiculous. You're extremely hurt when you already cheated? You're guilty of the same actions. So essentially, you are both terrible for each other. A person you truly want to be with is a person you wouldn't cheat on. First thing, once you can get tested, you get that paternity test YESTERDAY. Next, if its not yours, you break up with her IMMEDIATELY, and not by stating that its her fault completely, because its not. If it IS yours… she needs either one of two things: 1. An abortion. or… 2. If ya'll are the kind of people that if there is a baby, it MUST be born, and you are also in the United states, you leave the child at a fire station or appropriate place where it can be taken care of.
Let me tell you something. A baby is NOT going to make things better. Its going to make things worse. You are both not “whole” people, and a baby needs two COMPLETELY WHOLE PEOPLE to make it work.
You both should leave each other. Thats not even a thing I say lightly. If you stay together, you are going to make each other miserable and that child is not EVEN going to get the future or life it should. I do hope you do the right thing, and sometimes…. the right thing sucks. But.. thats life.
I don't believe this story because who in their right minds brings up a conversation like this with someone who is on the phone.
I don't care if she (as you've said to others) muted the call.
This is just so dumb.
Bullet dodged. Congratulations
But even more than that they have a LOT of comments in r/HIV and r/STD. There’s nothing wrong with that off the bat but in connection with having multiple sex partners it makes me wonder why they are frequenting those specific subreddits.
It’s just my inner thoughts. I didn’t share with him and we were talking normally after this. We are not fighting because of this.
Thanks, I think I'm going to subtly point it out to her next time I witness it and then talk to her about it when we're alone after that.
The thing is, we can’t FaceTime because of our parents. Our parents don’t know that we are dating and won’t allow us to be on FaceTime. The only time we FaceTime is when both of us are just driving around.
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Doesn’t matter who makes more or pays more. It only matters that you have roughly equal free time. If she’s still doing chores or errands while you’re relaxing, socializing, or enjoying hobbies, your free time isn’t equal.
I think there are a lot of people who are richer than me that have never cooked in their lives.
Lacking basic life skills is really not very common, even among the super rich. I make enough to order from nice really every single meal, and very often do. But JFC I’m still capable of preparing a wide variety of dishes. No one taught me, it doesn’t require any classes, you just…do it. That you would claim you don’t know how, at all, is just bizarre.
This guys watched too much porn. Wtf. He is just a kid (a big one). She is scared ffs.
And you know she fucked up only once because….? She could easily have been a serial cheater in the past. And where in the post did she mention telling her husband about her cheating?
Thankyou so much. Really appreciate the advice ♥️
So, in her mind, people didn't show or prove their love before social media existed?
Step 1: Be honest with yourself. Write down all the pros and cons of staying in this relationship, as well as your best guess outcomes in the next 5ish years for each choice.
Step 2: Talk to someone you can be totally honest with about this issue without possibility of consequences. A therapist if you don’t have someone like that in your life. Listen to their feedback.
Step 3: have the hot conversation. Share how you feel with your partner and listen to how she feels about it. Try to avoid making any decisions until you’ve each had time to rinse and repeat steps one and two a few times.
You say that he has a high sex drive also – yet what you've said here seems to be totally the opposite to that.
You're ready provided you have a pulse it seems, whereas he appears to only want it, what…..once a week? fortnight? It's not that clear how often it is but irrespective, this could do with clarification a bit.
This is going to be one of those things you can't really expect Reddit to answer for you – as the answer is, apparently, in bed knocking one off and you need to speak to him, not us!
There could be a multitude of reasons and the best we can do is list these off and prepare you for the possibilities – but that's redundant, pointless and not helping in the end if 99% of them are really unlikely in our minds, but could well be true.
The best I can say to you is that it could be he's just not that into having sex and likes to vary it between you and masturbation – maybe he'd be into mutual masturbation as a compromise? Perhaps it's a coming/going porn addiction that he's managing himself? Have you tried “spicing things up” with anything from dressing up, roleplay, toys or trying different “attitudes” of being more submissive/dominant at all?
I can entirely appreciate and understand from your perspective that as he's not communicating with you that you may be getting to the end of your tether a bit, as it'd be enough to knock most people's confidence to the point of worrying they're the issue and focusing inwards and not outwards – so bravo for cracking on still and finding out what's what!
The one thing I will suggest is not Divorce, but perhaps seeing if he's open to you both going to a sex therapist and giving it a go? You'd be surprised at just how much these can help and speaking to someone else or taking on some of their advice can wind the clock back 🙂
Why would you date someone who keeps company like that? That’s the real question. Also, why would your sister know all of these things about him? It’s not like he told her all of that at the party and if YOU invited him into your home while she was over, she likely assumed he was safe and a trusted person. For future reference, don’t hang with people you’re uncomfortable around.
You plan a special date with him the day after his birthday and you go to the party. He said it's ok. It doesn't mean you don't do anything for his birthday, it's simply just on a different day.
I’m an an open marriage if that matters.
I need more context: how specifically did you confirm that they never stopped talking? When and how did this weekend come about?
Does he know that you know he continued his friendship with her? If you haven’t, this needs to be addressed first before you decide anything about the trip.
Yes, this relationship is dead. He just told you that the relationship is not enough. He loves you but is not in love with you. He wants to be with someone else. Leave without him. You have a new life awaiting you in a new city. The pain you are feeling won't get any worse if you end it. If you take him with you, to try and save the relationship, you'll always know that it's not enough for him, trust will be gone and you'll be on edge waiting for his next crush or betrayal.
Or simply exist as a woman on earth.
Everything was in your head!!!!!!! Seee the reality woman and run!!!!!!!!
Sounds like you should make an attempt to save it, although with the knowledge that it may never happen. It sounds like he got hardcore shamed by church elders into leaving you behind (they probably gave him a serious guilt trip).
Ironically, I would say that you should do a hail-mary throw and tell him that you have strong romantic feelings for him and want to try dating him. If he says no, then that's that.
Good luck and here's hoping it all works out.
He isn't a Liberal. Lmao.
Run in a straight line or diagonally away in the direction of his off-hand. Since the muscles in this rapist's main arm are probably going to be double the size of his other's with that death grip, he'll wear himself out trying not to veer off course following you.
Idgaf what the fight was about this LEECH threw your rape in your face to win an argument. This is not a good person. Reclaim your space he's gotta go!
How have you been with this guy for 3 years lmao
The fact that she won't talk to you about it is a huge red flag. She's trying to control you and it sounds like it's working.
Hey, lots of people take the bus. It's not shameful and she is probably used to it.
Once you offer you may be on the hook forever so remember that. I'm not saying not to, but no good deed goes unpunished.
You’re right Ima have to hold out on this one and see what she’s really about.
And you have kids too? Damn, watch her attain a male “bestie” and watch the tables turn ????????????
He knew that but he didn't know that we would touch each other. I thought it's fine because it's not cheating, it's my job. Actors and actresses do hot scenes with people and they have boyfriends in real life who understand that it's just acting.
His hand was only covering my vagina though, and he just felt my boobs. It's not like we are kissing or licking or something
OBVIOUSLY he'd be upset seeing that. Are you for real? Job or not, if you're in a monogamous relationship what you're doing in that link is not copacetic. I would break up with you.
Yes, some people could handle that and not be bothered and some can't. I'm in the latter group and apparently so is your bf.
Going to college as a 22 year old married man and woman? Yeah let me know how that works out for you.
Men are not an oppressed race. Men are in power. We don't give a fuck if your feelings got hurt honey ? Now GTFO.
So he just admitted that he is selfish and quite happy to manipulate you if it benefits him. Pretty scummy thing to do. Someone who is so deceptive when things are at their best is not someone I would want to be with. Imagine what he can do when things are not so good. Honesty and integrity are not part of his personality.
And he is about to have a large involvement with this ex for the next 18 years. And a child, who should always come first. Why willingly sign up for this.
Hey now, if writing “for you!” on a green sticky note isn't the greatest declaration of love then I simply don't know what is.
This guy sounds like my ex husband who was always looking for signs that I was cheating. Ridiculous stuff like if my phone was phasing screen down then I was clearly hiding something. ?
This guy might be projecting but he might just be a controlling and jealous ah like my ex.
Well this sounds like a relationship that is clearly ready to end.
If you've been able to get your jollies via just sexting before and it's not happening with this person then it could be you and this person just don't have aligned sexual appetites. You may not be a good match. But it doesn't sound like you've ever even met her so asking her to be your girlfriend seems way premature. You're supposed to date someone for a while, talk a lot, get to know them, make sure you're sexually compatible and only then if you're feeling it talk to them about relationship titles. Just feels like you're doing things in the wrong order here.
I’m with the potato
Hey op… This is how a Real Man thinks and speaks. Listen to him not to that boy you’re dating.
Okay good i agree i just wanted to make sure i wasn’t being weird about it because i was thinking i dont wanna meet them for like u said till we talk about being serious
That would be fine and I would be happy to do that but I work on a different mine site and never visit hers so I will never meet these guys… I know exactly what kind of guys they are and it’s fine if she wants to go out and chat and do whatever but it’s their disrespect towards me, after her telling them she has a partner, that they carry on and I’m incapable of doing anything about it. So we are wondering if there’s something she can do, and I’m wondering if maybe she actually likes the attention
And give him permission to jump in a volcano! Scratch that, no child support or alimony if he did.
You can do everything right in a relationship, but that is no guarantee that it will work out.
She told you all you needed to know. The relationship didn't feel right to her, so she ended it.
You need to stop reading into every little thing that you did, trying to look for a reason, because she has given it to you.
The throwing stuff away is not ok.
But guys are allowed to not ‘be in the mood’ at times. You need to respect his choice. This stuff doesn’t just apply to women. He shouldn’t have to fake a headache.
Both of you need to work on communication and anger management.
You should end this relationship and look for a partner who makes you feel good instead of bad.
Imo if you ask your friends to ask their wife and fiancee to apologize and there's no apology, then tell your friends you're just not gonna invite them to the wedding since the wife and fiancee hurt your fiancee. Or just not say anything and don't invite them altogether.
Yeah I just don’t