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Date: January 6, 2023
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He's all about respect for him, but I don't see any respect for you and your wishes.
It's your body, your decision. Nobody can make the decision for you. You are trying to give him what he wants, it's not your fault that you miscarried.
If the miscarriage was caused by the fight, then he is responsible for what happened. He should be treating you like a queen and doing everything he can for you to have a safe and peaceful pregnancy, not picking fights. While a pregnant woman should try to make sure the baby doesn't get exposed to stress, this is a “takes a village” thing, everyone should be trying to avoid undue stress for her and her baby.
OK that’s kind of selfish and manipulative too. I always say suicide is a really selfish thing to do for the people around you. I wouldn’t look for people around her like him. I know she doesn’t have any family but she’s going to have some sort of support, no one person can be that for anyone else at least not on this planet we’re not angels do you also have to take care of yourself and at your age I would’ve felt like that too. You guys need to start talking is difficult it is it is. And I would tell her to quit telling you she’s going to offer her self if you’re not there, it’s really unfair and it’s very manipulative. I will start looking for resources in the place that you on-line. If you live near a city or she can join groups or something cause she needs more than you. Good luck to you.
This is a last ditch attempt for him to get attention from you. It is NOT your responsibility to see him through this. His friends and family can be there for him. If you were worth him losing his life, he would not have cheated and risked everything in the first place. It’s manipulation.
Pull the bandaid off and break up. Was she expecting you to love her and spoil her with attention and validation up until the day she leaves and then gladly let her go? And then put your entire life on hold and pretend nothing happened for the past 3 months when she gets back?
Nah. That’s not the way functioning adults handle relationships. You’re either dating or you’re not. If she needs freedom, give it to her.
I mean, she’s already punished you for her child’s actions by getting you to pay bills that she should have paid but couldnt due to buying toys. If you share a home and finances with her, it’s entirely appropriate to set boundaries with regards to budgeting.
Why are you defending porn lol
let her process, i bet she’s not so mad at you as freaked out about her own relationship
Sorry to hear this, you must feel terrible now. You did nothing wrong, what a weirdo. You probably dodged a bullet.
He has no business telling you those awful things. He is either mentally unstable or just a total asshole. maybe both.
Your gf is a loser leave her.
Yes you're right about that. I wasn't sure what time she wanted to do things but I should've asked her when I was woken up initially by her music instead of expecting her to wake me up when it was time. I just didn't want to bother her since she was busy with her transcriptions for school so in the moment I didn't even think of asking her, but now I see that it probably would've been better in the long run.
Try to get majority custody of the child after it is born. Consult a family/custody attorney. You can give the child a better life than she can or both of you together. She is not cut out to be a parent
Try to get majority custody of the child after it is born. Consult a family/custody attorney. You can give the child a better life than she can or both of you together. She is not cut out to be a parent
Yeah…those last two sentences deeply concern me. I'm not claiming you seek sympathy, I'm staying that you deserve more respect and understanding from your partner than he has shown you.
Reading your comment I kinda agree. She was not the best communicator in general, but obviously neither was I, lol. I never told her I loved her until it was too late:/ I asked why she went straight to breakup instead of blatantly talking to me / asking if I loved her before breaking up. She said she gave me many hints and that the talk we had about a month ago was her final straw. She did ask me how I felt about her, but I didn't take the hint to say I love you and I just said I really liked her, so I think at that point I really crushed her:(
This just reeks of toxic masculinity. Her dad viewing you as soft and a pussy is just classic 57-yo Eastern European patriarchy. Being soft is an insult to your ex-girlfriend‘s father because it isn‘t a masculine trait to him. This kind of toxicity is not unusual for boomers of his age tbh.
You, on the other hand should know better. You should have recognised the toxicity of what was being said about you, yourself being soft and „a pussy“. The toxicity isn‘t being considered these two descriptors, it‘s that these two descriptors are considered inherently non-masculine/more feminine and therefore bad.
But no, you were too busy getting insulted by not being considered „man enough“ by your ex‘s father. When that shouldn‘t even have played that much of a role. If he genuinely shit-talked you, spread lies about you or said nasty things about you, yeah, you might be upset. Him thinking you‘re a bit of a softie is his own toxic opinion of you, and you just ended up taking on this toxic view of how masculinity can‘t be soft. And then defended this toxic view of masculinity by getting in his face.
You said he‘d fought in a war, so of course you might come across as less tough. Nothing wrong with that at all.
You need to reframe and detox your view of masculinity. Men can be soft. YOUR GIRLFRIEND CLEARLY LIKED YOU THAT WAY!!
Her opinion of you – which was good enough to date you – should have mattered infinitely more so than her father‘s opinion of you. Why did you value his comments to his pals in a bar more than her choosing to date you?!
Yeah, you messed up. Your ex‘s father talked about you behind your back and you didn‘t like what he said. Instead of taking it in context, you decided to prove him wrong. When you were aggressive, your ex chose her father over you. Of course she would. I can tolerate toxic masculinity in my father whom I didn‘t choose, and have loved since birth. But sure as hell I‘m not going to accept this in my boyfriend.
Yep, I was getting hoarder tingles.
This is the correct answer.
You could’ve easily stated in a completely different thread that it gets you jailed in third world countries for asking questions and OP can read and consider that. It’s as easy as that.
But no. You replied to me twice despite my comments saying “well this is how it works elsewhere”. The post still hasn’t confirmed location, but many people associate Xanax with America, and America is world famous for being trigger happy shootings of anyone that doesn’t fit the police preferences and I’m sure even mild drug users with a tan might even face that risk. It’s very rich of you to say wHo sAId aNyThiNg aBouT gEtTing sHoT when the reality is that the rest of the world has to read and hear about many innocent people and children during school getting shot for no reason. Let alone drug “possession”. Maybe just think about the fact that the world doesn’t revolve around your location, AND THAT YOU CAN SAFELY ASK PHARMACIES TO IDENTIFY A DRUG in MANY first world countries.
Also, there is absolutely no proof that this pill IS an illegal drug or regulated in any way. If you seriously are scared of being fined/jailed for asking a completely relevant and safety increasing question to the point that you get this upset over a reddit comment about another country , I would higher consider immigrating to a more developed country.
This, so much this, and all of it. This should be top. There's so.much logic OP read and learn please
The rage and agitatedness and storming around definitely point to coke.
If my allergies are bad I usually just want to curl up in bed while imagining lighting plants on fire.
He relapsed and was annoyed that you knew he had been snorting (having told you that he had stopped when a teenager). Even if he had allergies, he totally disrespected you his GF. Save yourself any further embarrassment, or worse, and say 'Goodbye' to him.
Tell her once again that its therapy or bust.
She has had 2 whole months to get a hold on her insecurities and get in to see a therapist. Therapy isn't instant but she hasn't even tried to put in a tiny bit of effort in seeking it out.
You owe it to yourself, your child, and your ex, to stick to your guns and end things with her if she doesn't seek help within whatever timeline you choose. Do not let your child grow up in an environment where your partner shit talks or otherwise criticizes you and/or your relationship with their mother. What you have right now is a healthy co parenting relationship. She will ruin that for you.
Don't let her.
yes please tell her. She doesn’t deserve this. And if you are worried anything will happen just know HE DID THIS. Just as someone else said, social consequences of cheating.
Firstly, don't date at a job you want to keep.
Secondly, fuck no what the fuck ????
It's option 3, my dude. It's not just about the cat, it's also about how she's treating your concerns and how she's seemingly altering the facts about her also wanting a cat. That's a big red flag for problem resolution going forward.
If you want to choose your GF, then fine, but give the cat up and let it be happy somewhere.
Because like I said it's one of the most basic rules of opening your relationship. If he didn't know that, he doesn't know what an open relationship is. And an open relationship is never something you should enter into with somebody who is going to unilaterally make any decisions without consulting you. He fucked it all up when he made the account. She might have gone along with it If only he had discussed it with her. Then he really sealed the deal by getting upset with her. There was no going back at that point. Even if it was it innocent mistake on his part, everything he did made him look like someone who can't be trusted. And if he doesn't understand that, he can be trusted even less.
I can't tell if you're really defending a potential cheater here, or if you're just so naive that you would be duped if your partner pulled this exact stunt on you. If that dude isn't already cheating, he definitely has somebody in mind and they were going to “accidentally” meet on the dating site. Even though we disagree on the internet, please tell me that if your partner ever did this to you you would be smart enough to see what was going on.
You don’t need to plan this welfare check. He isn’t going to threaten to kill himself if he is blocked. Stop putting up roadblocks and shut it down.
He's in biotech so that doesn't strike me as overly niche. I'm not sure how many applications he's actually sent out (2-3 interviews) but he told me he's being very picky with where he applies as he wants his next employer to be a long haul one, with 'good pay and fair vacation time'.??♀️
Just because you don’t want her to dance with other men doesn’t mean she can’t dance with other men. Get over yourself.
Al relationships have an expiration date. Most last months or a few years. Very, very few expire due to being widowed.
I mean, they are all women in their 20s on Tinder they are all going to get endless likes. I think Tinder stops showing past 99, all the girls will hit that soon enough as long as they are decently attractive haha. Guys just swipe right by default looking for a match. I don’t get the point of this “game” if they are actually being honest about this. Which I doubt
Holy crap that sounds like a marathon. I’m too old and weak for that, haha
Nothing wrong with losing attraction when your partner reveals an ugly side to himself. You have to decide of this is behavior you want to on-line with and eventually be a part of in one way or another later.
Tell her that she's a bigger liability than an asset and that it's over.
No, not even a tiny bit
“He feels like I'm trying to force him.”
Because you literally are. He has told you how he feels about it, that he doesn't really enjoy it or want to do it and yet you keep bringing it up to him over and over. Why would you do that unless you wanted him to do it? Especially again, when you know what the answer is. That's sexual coercion and it's fucking gross.
I hope not. For all my complaining and insecurity, if this is what finally makes him happy. Good on him. I just wish he'd have realized this is what he wanted earlier so I didn't feel like he found me repulsive for 4 years.
If my partner's family treated me like that, I wouldn't want anything to do with them or that relationship either. If his intention was to be serious, there is the possibility he would have to deal with that shit forever. He saw his future and ran for the hills.
Thank you I wasnt sure. Another thing he did was when we had -6 degree Celsius weather and I asked him to turn the fan down in the car…not the heat and not off. I have sjorgens which causes very dry and sore eyes. He switched off ALL the heat and opened the windows and made us all (two children also) sit in the freezing cold because “mummy said I had to turn the heating off”. He's done this before also. I'm just tired of the moods
This should absolutely be a deal breaker
This sounds like a crock of bullshit. But I don't know what any of this means. You guys are adults. How is this any different than if he were to be your boyfriend?
My niece feels like all the positive things her mom says about her are only said because her mom has to say them… she is 4 year old little girl and already has this understanding of the world. My husband also feels like the good things I say about him are said because I have to. Moms and partners are often discounted because we feel like they “have to” say nice things even if they’re white lies.
It’s not personal, it has nothing to do with you or her not respecting your opinion. Take a breath.
It is worth a discussion afterwards. Let her know that you feel hurt that she dismisses your opinion. Remind her that you aren’t obligated to love her, you choose to. Then listen to her with patience and compassion.
Right, that's what my post is about. The problem is, it goes on for long periods of time. It just seems a bit strange to me that he “doesn't want to” for that long.
The weed isn't what destroyed his life nor did it affect his intelligence or memory, his actions did. I have a friend like that as well, brilliant guy but spends his time in degeneracy. Also felt like I had to lecture him on basic human decency. Not much you could really do for someone like that. You can't monitor him 24/7. The truth is, it doesn't matter what you say, because the moment you hang up, they'll go right back to it. Not up to you to fix.
I feel some guilt bc i kind of accepted his behaviour during years and i could have harmed people during this
nah man, this has nothing to do with you. What he does and what he believes is appropriate or not are completely disjoint from you.
Clarify what you mean by exploded. Was he yelling at you, throwing stuff around? Or was it a calm discussion?
Leave her and never look back, but maybe you should get into therapy yourself. To figure out why you are attracted to a specific type of person that is unable to respect you the way you deserve, and to work on your emotions rn, maybe your jealousy too (being jealous is exhausting and unproductive)
Some are really bad indeed. Dated a woman who went to a therapist due to having sexual trauma etc. And having issues with wanting sex and seeing the loving part of it or much of the positive part. The therapist told her that men want sex four times a week and she should aim for her pleasure to be included on two of those times and the other two just let the man do what he wants. Just bend over while brushing your teeth and let him do what he wants, it doesn't take long. Weirdly specific advice especially coming from a female therapist. And she did go on about how she should just let men do what they want etc. Like wtf. Especially from a so called professional to someone with that history of men just using them out of their want. And their discussion began with her saying that I don't want sex to be for me and for her to be sure she wants it when/if we do it. And the therapist just still leaned very hot to going against what anyone in the situation wants. While she was just trying to find ways to heal from old trauma and get rid of that exact way of thinking.