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Date: October 27, 2022
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You’re going to need to get a bit more active
You need to lay out your struggles and emphasize it’s a NEED he bring in money – not an option
Having a child with him will always leave a door open between you and him. He will always have leverage. He might try to take this baby from you or try to insert himself into your life just to spite you and control you. Because you chose to get pregnant with an abuser and that is what abusers do.
Assuming he will just leave you alone and you will on-line happily ever after with your children is almost as naive as allowing this pregnancy to happen in the first place.
Please make smarter decidions. Having a 4th child somewhere down the line is not more important than your existing three children and their saftey. The risk of infertility after an abortion is very low. It's not worth it. Don't tie yourself to this man. You will regret this.
Thanks mate.
Wait… he snaps his fingers at waitstaff?! What in the entitlement?? And he’s only 18?! That is learned behavior. If he acts like that now, imagine what it’ll be like when you have to be parents (raising a baby) with that! His entitlement will just get worse. That and the boyfriends parents will also teach your child the wrong behavior. I agree with others, get an abortion. You don’t want to have to raise two kids (the baby and that man-child), do ya?
It sounds like he was just trying to play you, sorry. Not a nice guy and you are better off without him. Remind yourself that you deserve better.
yea thats what im saying lol
I'm guessing that's why his lawyer was consulted on that decision
Yeah you need to leave her.
make sure he discuss things with a lawyer and whatnot and dump her ass. That’s an absolutely disgusting thing to accuse somebody of, ESPECIALLY when you have a child together.
You get over it just by living your life. Life is a series of hot lessons. When I look at it from the outside, this situation did seem rather doomed. Try to learn from it, and let go.
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Ask him what him being sweaty has to do about a meme of girls being lazy.
Ask him what message does the meme send? If he has to explain it then it’s a problem.
That’s what makes me want to stay. If he had actually cheated I would leave. But he’s done so much work on this issue and it’s never gone past even just doing it mentally. I just feel so conflicted.
Is she a SAHM? It sounds like she is bored and lonely. She might need to get out more with friends or find a part time job or other activity.
I just wanted to give you a perspective on the kids thing, cause I have been there. My ex told me he'd rather be together with no kids than have kids with anyone else, guess why we are exs? Those are empty promises. And given that he does no housework, I think it's safe to say he will be expecting mom to do the heavy lifting once baby is here. I have seen that exact scenario cause many divorces despite both parents wanting the kids. So even if you did change your mind (which you shouldn't assume you will) you won't enjoy getting pregnant since he's selfish in bed, and you'll be the primary parent. This man ain't it.
You were broken up. You have two options:
Get some new mates Suck it up
Sorry.
what the f ?♂️ she a stupid hoe
Don’t be a cheating scumbag. How you get them is how you lose them. Respect your partner and end it if you don’t want to be with her. Cheating is the lowest of the low.
Best advice ever!
Pick one of the two. You are either a troll or a fool. I in no way think that all people are the same. But there are things that tend to be common among different demographics. And for women validation and attention are extremely prevalent.
And that's why I say that you have to be a fool to think that your girlfriend is not getting any pleasure from this job. Put yourself in her shoes imagine if you were beautiful and everyone wanted you. Do you not think that it would feel good to know that people thought of you this way? And that you could get with people that are basically out of your league just because you were born a certain way?
I get that you want your girlfriend to communicate things to you better but at the same time you have to be realistic about what this career actually is. Even if it's relatively tame it's still sex work. And sex work always follows a cycle of escalation.
I was kind of thinking the same thing. I know that caregiver burnout is real. I have chronic pain and I am partially disabled, I on-line with this shit every day. It isn't easy. It is the absolute most difficult thing I have ever experienced in my life, and I watch it wear down my mother daily, as she's my caregiver, and she's getting older. But she won't ever, barring death, stop taking care of me, even if I tell her that I'll be okay on my own.
He agreed in sickness and in health, and if he isn't willing to hold up his end of that deal, then it's time to admit that to her and leave. It's hard to watch a loved one suffer. But he knew what he was getting into. And I have to wonder, if the situation was reversed, would she abandon him? Or would she stay no matter what, as women often do in cases like this?
Legally nope. As long as they have not lived long enough for common law marriage to kick in, assuming they on-line in such a state, and she has neither made significant upgrades or payments towards the house, then she would be owed just a standard eviction timeframe.
Well the fact of the matter is your friend thinks you betrayed her and can't trust you. No matter how you might want to “explain”, you pursued her ex and she ended up finding out from someone else. That tells her you tried to hide it. It's a harsh lesson, but I guess it's better to learn it now rather than later.
Let it go. He was drunk. You guys need to drink less.
There really is no need to binge drink at your ages, that's something that people in their teens or very early 20s do.
Reddit has a hate boner for cheaters and anyone that has been cheated on gets a pass even when being unreasonable. Like this guy is being..
And i got downvoted too for saying the same thing. What happens if he thinks she cheated. What will he do and how will he react? If he's that bothered by fiction will he get violent when presented in real life? It's scary.. you don't get to gloss over this and just pretend nothing bad could happen.
No, no no. If you’re paying and this is your girlfriend going with you on a private trip, do not take her best friend. Read a few of these Reddit’s on here and you will see it is not a good idea. I’ll kinds of boundaries can be cross you’re not taking your children out on vacation you’re taking your girlfriend alone time no no no.
Someone starting a relationship on lies, even white lies, IMO isn't a very trustworthy person. Listen to your gut.
What a gross oversimplification of male friendships. We're not all racist, sexist morons. That is not the default to the male condition, people hate broad generalizations tham you get half a thousand upvotes on this hot take.
What about her family ? Why do they avoid him ?
Don't tell him even in desperation.
If he stays persistent, I would just tell him that it's not him and that you've realized that you wouldn't want to be with someone whose job can be dangerous like a cop's can be.
Eh… old fashioned woman here..
Meaning it took me legit a whole while before i slept with my husband who was my then bf as i insisted on getting to know him as a person first and see how he was really before getting intimate with him. Also to kinda see if the relationship dynamic would work when i wasn't just putting out and if he actually cared about me not jst sex… i digress bt jst for context basically im a very traditional woman.
This isn't normal.. for 2 years?
U are the one constantly having to in essence “pay” her to spend time with u through some form of entertainment and dining and then she gives u minimal attention and sometimes ur “lucky” enough to get intimacy with her but other than that she spares no thought to ur relationship?
U sound more like a hookup than a bf sir.
Have u guys said i love u? Does she tell u she loves u? Does she show u any affection and support in terms of just caring about what's going on in ur life and ur general well-being? When you aren't taking her out on your dime does she ever plan anything for the two of u to do? Ie myself when we were broke students would plan indoor movie dates and jst cook for us so we cld watch movies and jst chill or go to a park and have a picnic. Nice things that don't require money if she's maybe broke bt means she actually is being thoughtful enough to do something sweet for u? Do you feel like you could in a crisis depend on her to be there for u in need? Death in the family or if you had an accident?
2 years is a long ass time to be together and if ur saying no to all of these.. my last question is just what are u getting out of this relationship you wouldn't be getting by literally just hiring an escort?
Seems like ud get more intimacy from a tinder hookup.
Whoa if a family member or loved one was going through what you are I'd at the very least be willing to cut my trip short to be there for them. Your girlfriend seems a bit selfish imo. This isn't you being out with a cold this is pretty serious shit and you need her! Wtf?
My phone (Samsung) has a screen record option when I swipe down from the top, with the wifi/data/bluetooth stuff. Super handy if you can replay the snap and use the built-in recorder
You’re not his girlfriend, you’re his ride.
I think you should be honest with yourself first and admit that you underestimated the situation. You are clearly hurt by the past, and while there isn’t anything wrong with that it’s clear that this relationship is doomed. You shouldn’t tell him you resent him and make your feelings his problem, you need to sort out your own feelings. That being said I would suggest you do break things off. This seems destined for failure.
Cause women back in Victorian times who wore long sleevd dresses down the ground and up their necks didn't get hit on or attacked. ?
Maybe it is maybe it isnt.
Maybe she's thinking you dont want to be bombarded with messages when all you want to do is be quiet and rest. Imagine an alterantive post, “I told my gf Ive got flu but she wont stop pestering me with calls every few minutes”
See how it goes and dont read too much into things it wil become clear soon enough whether she is being unreasonably annoyed with you or considerate.
yeap. been there done that.
I hate the constant texting too. it drives me fucking nuts.
daily phone calls too. it's fucking obnoxious.
FTR, it's not just a 21 year old thing. I have dated people near 30 who act like that too.
you just have to explain to them why it's not healthy to text that much and if they don't listen you should break up
You have a gf problem, not a mom problem. Your gf sounds like a real treat.
Youre right. My tone doesnt come off properly, I can only convey so much through text. I know in my heart I attempted to do everything for our future and had nothing but the best of intentions. But everyone that says I didnt consider her feelings is correct. I thought I was, I truly, that and what she wanted. Yet I didnt take the time to communicate that or her wants. Which I have come to learn. And she dodnt definately say she didnt want kids, she just says shes not so sure and feels selfish (no because of me).
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Consider the possibility that they know his medical history and you don't. Also, this is a task and it's possible that he didn't think you wanted the burden.
You're allowed to have any feelings you're having. You don't need permission to have feelings. You're probably mistaken if you read this as an insult or as somehow not caring.
She needs to grow up before you can have a real relationship with her, while it might be fun and im sure you truly like her, its best to say “I don’t want to ruin what we have, I think we should take a break and see other people until you can mature a little” or i mean word it however you need to just dont be a total dick about it lol. Shes clearly going through something but you don’t deserve the sneakiness and lies. If you want to try again give it some time and it’ll happen if you both want it to.