If you forgive her, she will do it again. Cheaters are fundamentally flawed people; something has to be broken inside to do something that bad to another person. She will hurt you again. But let's say she genuinely never does; you will always think she is going to. You will always be wondering every time she goes out somewhere with “friends”.
You did nothing to deserve being cheated on. And now she and her family are trying to manipulate you into taking her back. Tell her you are done with her, and she can run back to her ex all she wants now. Then block her, and move forward with your life. You are far too young to be dealing with her shit.
It's not only the cat issue. There are other things.
Ah, because he loves her so much?
Quit that crap, would you?
Welcome to 2023!
If you forgive her, she will do it again. Cheaters are fundamentally flawed people; something has to be broken inside to do something that bad to another person. She will hurt you again. But let's say she genuinely never does; you will always think she is going to. You will always be wondering every time she goes out somewhere with “friends”.
You did nothing to deserve being cheated on. And now she and her family are trying to manipulate you into taking her back. Tell her you are done with her, and she can run back to her ex all she wants now. Then block her, and move forward with your life. You are far too young to be dealing with her shit.