She wants to talk to us and hear their side of the story.
Problem with that is: You don't know Angels side of the story. She didn't tell you anything so you can't compare both stories and see what might be true or false.
Also: This is not your decision. It's your husbands. And Angels. Both don't want that contact. Respect it.
Pregancy and hormones make things understandable but at the end of the day any of you think that will change the way OP feels? She still took a strangers word over his causing him to miss his child's birth. The kid didn't even have his dad on his birth certificate for two weeks. All of this because no one cold be bothered to give him 5 minutes to explain himself.
Even if she had her “reasons” that doesn't change the fact that she hurt OP in a way that can never truly be made up to him. Expecting him to just get over it is unrealistic and shows a complete lack of emotional intelligence. OP has every right to be angry at her and anyone that contributed to him missing the birth of his child. If this kills his relationship with his gf then she only has herself to blame.
LOL. I've never heard of someone keeping a dead pets hair, so I'm also surprised by some of the comments. I have some clay imprints of paws. Vets often offer those when you pet gets put down. Those I like, they're a cute reminder and can become part of decor, on a mantle or something.
You need to reassess the way you are viewing and approaching your relationship. Your boyfriend is not one of your girlfriends who you chat with. The truth is that men and women communicate differently.
What else do you want from him? He's already doing weekly check ins with you. He's telling you that nothing is wrong. He's obviously committed to you and putting in the work. You would leave him simply because he doesn't sit around and gossip with you and chatter on endlessly about feelings like your girlfriends? Do you honestly want him to behave like your girlfriends? Are you attracted to your girlfriends? I'm thinking the answer is no. So, why would it make you feel more attracted to your boyfriend for him to start behaving like a woman?
So she lost the kids after she was admitted. She stays on her medication pretty regularly but her number one concern is her kids. That’s one thing she kept repeating last night was that she’ll be damned if she lets anyone or anything get in the way of getting her kids back the right way.
Dump his ass
She wants to talk to us and hear their side of the story.
Problem with that is: You don't know Angels side of the story. She didn't tell you anything so you can't compare both stories and see what might be true or false.
Also: This is not your decision. It's your husbands. And Angels. Both don't want that contact. Respect it.
Pregancy and hormones make things understandable but at the end of the day any of you think that will change the way OP feels? She still took a strangers word over his causing him to miss his child's birth. The kid didn't even have his dad on his birth certificate for two weeks. All of this because no one cold be bothered to give him 5 minutes to explain himself.
Even if she had her “reasons” that doesn't change the fact that she hurt OP in a way that can never truly be made up to him. Expecting him to just get over it is unrealistic and shows a complete lack of emotional intelligence. OP has every right to be angry at her and anyone that contributed to him missing the birth of his child. If this kills his relationship with his gf then she only has herself to blame.
LOL. I've never heard of someone keeping a dead pets hair, so I'm also surprised by some of the comments. I have some clay imprints of paws. Vets often offer those when you pet gets put down. Those I like, they're a cute reminder and can become part of decor, on a mantle or something.
You need to reassess the way you are viewing and approaching your relationship. Your boyfriend is not one of your girlfriends who you chat with. The truth is that men and women communicate differently.
What else do you want from him? He's already doing weekly check ins with you. He's telling you that nothing is wrong. He's obviously committed to you and putting in the work. You would leave him simply because he doesn't sit around and gossip with you and chatter on endlessly about feelings like your girlfriends? Do you honestly want him to behave like your girlfriends? Are you attracted to your girlfriends? I'm thinking the answer is no. So, why would it make you feel more attracted to your boyfriend for him to start behaving like a woman?
So she lost the kids after she was admitted. She stays on her medication pretty regularly but her number one concern is her kids. That’s one thing she kept repeating last night was that she’ll be damned if she lets anyone or anything get in the way of getting her kids back the right way.