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  1. Honey, you have bigger issues than your neighbor, her marriage and her ghost pregnancy.

    Your husband helped another man control, monitor/stalk his wife. Do you understand how totally lacking in honor and ethics your husband is for doing that? Honestly, I would be reconsidering my own relationship if my husband did that.

  2. I’m laughing my ass off at this. My son is 8 favourite food is a random brand of lasagna that’s sold in 400g. He’ll eat 2 of them and ask for more.

    Buying frozen family sized food is so much cheaper than the smaller serves. It annoys me that the bigger serving of the one my son likes taste different. So I pay double the price buying 8 individual servings vs the bigger one.

    He’s probably taking it to work for lunch. Also do people not put 2l coke in the fridge after they poor some in the cup? It not a single serve thing that you can’t have again after you open.

  3. It probably won’t work for everyone but I make sure to try make every hot moment in life a turning point. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years. I know it’s nothing compared to marriage but I’ve used the break up and a turning point in my life to reinvent myself and become a better person. I try see the positive. I see it as now I have more time, less responsibility and no restrictions to let myself work on being the best version of myself. It’s been going well.

  4. Also dont feel ashamed or bad for breaking up with her and not coming around to having kids for her. In the long run, you are doing a favor to both of you. If you two were to stay together and one of you folded to the other, one of you would eventually resent the other. You are actually being extremely mature to walk away because you understand you would not be the father those (metaphorical) future kids’ deserve. It might be extremely hot, because you love each other, but nonnegotiable plans make you two ultimately incompatible.

  5. I don't want to. One, to create more distance from my family, and two, I can go without doing it from now on.

  6. If you feel like that and she is not responding for your feelings, invalidating them and even blocked you… To me that's bad.

    She is not worth your time and specially your love.

  7. If you feel like that and she is not responding for your feelings, invalidating them and even blocked you… To me that's bad.

    She is not worth your time and specially your love.

  8. No relationship ever reaches a point of perfection. It's a work of progress constantly and even after 50 years of being together couples are still working at one thing or another.

    The question is what is his ideal. 'Problems with communication' is a broad area. What specifically is the problem with your communication that troubles him? After 8 years, he should be able to name what bugs him and identify exactly how to resolve it because it's irked him since the beginning. In addition, he should also be able to handle the criticism that comes with being critical because if he retreats when this subject is discussed, then he isn't actually being serious about finding a solution.

    In my humble opinion, he's making excuses for some reason or another.

  9. You'll be hearing a lot of apologies I expect. And plenty more things that just aren't true. This is a very familiar type of behavior unfortunately.

  10. I don’t let him make jokingly flirt with other friends, even if I know them. I don’t want him to talk about sex with other people and stuff like that. I don’t like seeing him being remotely sexual or even jokingly romantic with other people.

  11. Idk if you'd want an update but we went out and long story short we've been dating since then and it's going great 😁

  12. Classic Reddit suggesting to break up because the partner they describe is always the asshole.

    Turns out they should break up, but not because of the BFs reaction, but because of the GFs provocation, so you were close.

  13. It’s his idol though , what if you saw your idol lose something that he worked so hot to get and he lost it and he will never ever have a chance to get it again.

  14. i feel very guilty but there's not much i can do.

    Correct. Let him figure himself out.

    What I would do is remind him that there's way more firsts than just virginity, but I'm not sure he's ready — or, frankly, has had enough sexual experience — to understand that. So ultimately you may need to just be hands-off and let him decide to dump you. You can give him experiences, but perspective he must arrive at on his own.

  15. Bro commented “doesn't seem like much of a fight” under a SA fantasy sub. Your wife is totally understandable

  16. Serious question and I don't mean this to be rude…Are you at all on the spectrum? Like, do you have problems reading social cues? It sounds to me like people are going out of their way to be supportive and encouraging and YOU are being rude and bitchy about it.

  17. My friend was hit by a drunk driver 16 years ago.

    Her mother was killed on impact, my friend suffered serious injuries and her beautiful little toddler son broke his neck and has lived the last 15 years of his life only able to blink his eyes. That's it for him till he dies.

    Cunt who was drunk was unscathed, bar a far too lenient prison sentence.

    But sure, you feel bad for getting pissy with your selfish cunt of a boyfriend.

    Grow the fuck up.

  18. My friend was hit by a drunk driver 16 years ago.

    Her mother was killed on impact, my friend suffered serious injuries and her beautiful little toddler son broke his neck and has lived the last 15 years of his life only able to blink his eyes. That's it for him till he dies.

    Cunt who was drunk was unscathed, bar a far too lenient prison sentence.

    But sure, you feel bad for getting pissy with your selfish cunt of a boyfriend.

    Grow the fuck up.

  19. This combined with your pro and con list from last month where you mentioned being very sexually incompatible is maybe a sign you’ve hit a point where you should think about going your separate ways.

  20. This wasn't thoughtful at all and he didn't want to do something nice for someone else — he wanted to do something nice for himself-as-a-toddler. He didn't think about the parents, their home, what capacity they have for keeping such a thing in the house, what damage it could cause to furniture, small animals, other kids, does it run on batteries that they now have to pay for to replace, nothing. This was 100% “Me!” on the boyfriend's part, he even admitted it.

  21. Let’s cut through all the noise: He’s dangerous, volatile, manipulative, self-destructive, immature, and has anger issues.

    This is a safety issue for you.

    What if he gets violent with you when you try to leave him? What if he decides to stalk you? What if he escalates and starts calling you 100 times a day? What if he shows up at your workplace or place of study? Your home?

    You need to get out of there post-haste, like yesterday. You need to stop expending energy and effort on this clown. Stop letting him walk on you, take advantage of you, exploit you. Block him and never look back. If you have friends or family you trust, tell them what’s going on. They can insulate you from him if he decides to act out and keep you on point. This is a time to lean on your support network.

    I know you’re not a fighter, but it’s time to fight. You deserve it.

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  23. I agree, but it's the current reality and so that's why it can be cheaper to try up front to dispute paternity, and hopefully even push for divorce quickly enough to prevent it from being born while you're legally married.

  24. If you are uncomfortable, go with your gut.

    If you are asking if we think the post was ick, I don’t think so. He said the future. He didn’t start a wedding registry.

    To me, he was saying he looks forward to spending more time with you.

    Also figure that the message may have been written with you in mind, to let you know that he is enjoying getting to know you.

  25. You didn’t overreact. I’d say that with a baby on the way, an emotional reaction was to be expected.

    Your sister is f-ed up if she thinks that this was an acceptable prank. It’s not funny! The moment you started crying she should have told you it was a prank. Even more so when you started talking about suicide. She is totally warped if she allowed you to keep thinking it was true for one more second, then.

    A pregnant woman is bound to react emotionally because of hormones. You might have jumped out a window and been dead before she could tell you it was a prank. She must be very stupid or else she actively wanted to play with your life and well-being.

  26. Well, try to get her into psychotherapy, and a pain management clinic that does not rely on meds but on holistic approaches. Also you may have to adopt a therapeutic approach to her complaints – think of the average “cheery” hospital nurse, send a lot of positive vibes Mom's way, and extend some sympathy as well, with comments like “That sounds tough, is there anything I could do to help?”

  27. Okay I'm going to spell it out for you. Your BF is transphobic, he was probably generally awful to Jacob all season…. and is justifying it in some competitive BS. The coaches do not agree with HIS assessment of Jacobs abilities and think your BF is not a good team player and gave Jacob the award because it's high school sports and the kid did his best despite having horrible teamates …. like your BF.

  28. In small space, if the blanket clashes with everything else or the style of the place why would op want it on display?

    Also, what if knitted blankets aren't his thing. Has his sister foisted her own style on to him?

    Op., if you don't like the blanket and you don't want it out in your space thats fine. Lots of people dislike gifts they are given, and don't want them on show.. Just get a vacuum bg, and stuff it somewhere, and eventually charity shop it.

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  30. These types of comments are always so dumb. “If it was a man it’d be different.” Yes it would. Gender is important in society and our interactions/relationships and hypothetically pretending otherwise is stupid.

  31. Then just ignore her or be more assertive about it. Either you never respond to her again, or you just reiterate each time she tries to talk to you cheerfully « remember, this friendship is over for me, stop trying to talk to me » and walk away. Eventually she’ll pick it up.

  32. He needs to grow up and realise the pain he's put you through, and not make you feel guilty because if it. You were pregnant with his child, and feeling horrendous with it, then he took the word of a drunk woman who had just tried to get him to sleep with her over the word of his wife, kicked you out whilst you were pregnant, demanded a paternity test and didn't take you back until another person told him it was all lies, to top it all off he slept with other women whilst you were going through pregnancy alone and he wonders why you haven't forgiven him totally yet! He lets other people dictate his life instead of talking to his wife and making his own mind up, other people instigated this mess and other people solved it fir him. Not sure to be honest why you'd want to stay with someone who can put you through that much pain in such a small space of time, and then act like you are somehow wrong for being pissed off with him. You two need couples counselling but I'd probably keep the number of that divorce lawyer handy for the next time he believes someone else over you

  33. My advice on what to do:

    Put your finances in order, so next time he will throw you out you will be in much better financial position. He kicked you out from your own house – it means he is much better financially and everything is in his name, right?

    You have very good reasons not to trust him and you need reassurance that everything will be ok with you and the baby when another Ali makes her move on him.

    Maybe talk to a lawyer about a legal agreement you could have with him. That he gives you a financial safety net now, depending on your finances, you are getting your own apartment, you are defining custody, child support and alimony now. Because right now he feels guilty and he will be fair. You were lucky that someone was able to debunk Ali's lies, next time you will not be so lucky. Talk about it in your couple therapy.

    And never quit your job to be a SAHM. You can't afford it with him.

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  35. yea… where did these formats even come from. the other week i’m r/gaming TGWTLT (this guy was talking like this). the comments were hilarious. what happening to reddit

  36. She never cleaned the house and always complained about watching the kids when she is the one that wanted kids

  37. If he didn’t prompt using one with you, you can definitely bet he didn’t with other people he’s slept with.

    You need to take your sexual health more seriously, you literally have no idea who he’s slept with prior to you and who those people have etc.

    You both need to stop having sex for a few weeks (if you’re serious and want to pursue) or use protection and book tests.

    Don’t have unprotected sex until both of you have a clean bill of health. Always. Any relationship.

    I sound boring and naggy but hell, everyone who contracted HIV or whatever didn’t think it would be THEM.

  38. Your replies make me sad. You have a lot of growing up to do, maybe dating isn't best for you until you feel more secure in your adulthood. Go get an std test, and buy your own condoms so you don't have to rely on the man to bring one.

  39. She wants your permission to cheat on you.

    Basically she is trying to manipulate you in to accepting her propose so that she can sleep with someone else. She already has someone in mind and is just waiting for your approval to go ham on him.

    If she suggested this in the first place, then be sure she doesn't respect you, or even love you to begin with. Start planning to get rid of her

  40. I absolutely empathize with you and I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that.

    I think you’re hoping that he’ll just magically wake up and be the partner and father you want him to be. He won’t. You need to acknowledge that and look out for only you and your child.

    Full disclosure, I’m a guy, happily married and I have children. I tell you this so that you know I’m not here with an inherent bias against men or something similar. Reality is what it is. Stay safe.

  41. You’re in your 30s and have plenty of time to start over. Regardless of your age or what you put into the relationship, there isn’t any way to move on. You said it yourself. You can and should start over.

    I want to say this plainly: this man has proven that he can kill you. This stuff escalated and if you stay and nothing changes, it is most likely that he will kill you. He threatened you with a weapon over a simple request of being left alone. Whether he keeps his weapons or not, what’s stopping him from doing it when you get into a worse fight?

    He doesn’t work. He’s an addict. He doesn’t seem to be actively working on his mental health. He’s abusive. What do you get out of this relationship exactly that you don’t want to throw away? 2 years of you holding everything down and nothing changed positively. Don’t fall prey to the sunken cost fallacy.

    Do not marry him. Leave as soon as you safely can. Contact a women’s shelter for help and guidance. Get far away from this man and protect yourself. Then focus on getting therapy and building your life up again. You deserve to be safe, loved, and supported. Never has my husband ever exhibited any form of violence toward me when we have disagreements. We talk and come to an understanding. When we ask for space, it’s given. Your experience is so sad and abnormal. I’m sorry.

  42. Age is not just a number, it's years of life experience. I think the word hindsight was created from these exact types of scenarios.

  43. You seem to be looking at her not dating anyone else as a positive when in fact it's a pretty glaring red flag. It's absolutely normal, even healthy that people reach a certain age and start wondering if there's more out there than the person they dated in childhood. If she hasn't done that yet it's likely coming at some point. So don't get your newly experienced self into a situation where she'll do the same thing to you that you did to her. If you're the only person she's ever been with she simply doesn't have the experience to know if you're really the one she's meant to be with.

  44. Well this got me confused because why would she pursue me at first place just to give a cold shoulder after

  45. Negative. You guys were broken up. She had unspoken expectations of the break. That’s some cringy “nice guys” level stuff.

    There was no guarantees that she’d work on her stability. She’s disappointed because she needed the break. She’s likely feeling insecure because she knows she’s “replaceable” in your life.

    You keep doing you.

  46. I don’t know: if you can see “both sides”, then it sounds like your boyfriend is manipulative and controlling. If that’s the case, break up with him. Don’t date people who are manipulative and controlling, and it sounds like your parents are trying to get you away from him because they know you can do better.

  47. I'm sorry for deleting the post, everyone. I am still very keen on learning from my mistakes and doing the right thing, however this was very vulnerable for me to share and I didn't want it to go viral. I just want to focus on getting help now.

  48. Solid advice, but as someone that was raised to be an enabler (different topic for a different time) when I love someone it's hot for me to go in on them super hard. You ain't wrong at all, I'm just a bitch lol. I really appreciate you commenting btw.

  49. Well you should be wanting to cut him out if your life. You should never talk to him again, except to tell him to fuck off

  50. Funny, you never realise what you have till you lose it. Great marriage then she wants to open it! You call a lawyer and shit, she don't want that I want you! To late now you can be single! Shame about the poor daughter being weaponised!

  51. You shouldn't compromise on comfort to please someone else. He's 45 years old, time for him to learn that the world doesn't revolve around him.

  52. You didn’t make a mistake. You made a bad choice. There’s a difference. A mistake is “oops I added too much flour to this recipe.”

    Consider perhaps she doesn’t want to be with someone who would do that. Because, in your heard when you did this, you felt it was a reasonable thing to do. It’s okay for her to be disappointed in the fact you aren’t the person she thought you were.

    The only way forward will probably be to either end it, or to do whatever it takes to change the part of you that seeks out content like this.

  53. Go and speak to a divorce attorney and hire a PI, ask the divorce attorney to hire a forensic accountant to look for money spent on their affair. Sue her for defamation and if you find evidence of an affair name her as the AP.

    Do you want to fight for your marriage or walk away?

    If you want to fight for it, along with getting divorce papers drawn up, as your husband to meet, and tell him you know about the affair and now is the time to come clean. If you don't think your husband will come clean, you, with a neutral party, could meet the friend and ask them for their version of events re their affair with your husband.

    Your friend and your husband deserve each other for making your life hell. She deliberately blew up your life for a lie. He is having an affair with her. Sue her for defamation and divorce him on the grounds of infidelity and get your attorney to get as much from him as possible. Then let everyone know what scum they are.

  54. Your gf is a POS who lacks empathy.

    She doesn't care about what you went through.. she cares about her own role in your life being important enough to tell anything. This is about how she feels not about you.

    Leave her. You do not need a woman like that in your life. You're supposed to be a team who support each other. She isn't that person.

  55. We would take care of her pretty evenly. She works in the morning so I would take care of her until she was off and then I work at night so she’s watching her usually until I get home.

  56. there are no nuances, you just can't accept you are in the wrong, 100% in the wrong and keep making excuses up hoping someone with validate you

  57. How do you know her chess playing hasn't overall declined?

    Even the OP thought playing against her would be a good idea to make sure, since it had been months since he played her.

    You're literally fabricating details to whip up your own righteous anger, which would be a bad look, even if it wasn't very obvious you have zero experience with rapid cognitive decline, which can be rapid, profound, and can affect anyone at anytime.

  58. Could be legit, I’d say pretend to believe him and try hot to gather more evidence and build a case. If there’s no more evidence to be found over the coming months then believe him.

  59. Have a longer conversation with him about your goals for the future and how your relationship is going. Then, propose to him if you want to. Don't sit around wondering if he will propose.

    Decide in advance if you would rather marry quickly in a small ceremony , marry after a longer engagement after you have bought the house together, wait to get engaged until he feels like it, wait to get engaged until you can afford a big wedding, or whatever.

    Speak to him about what you would like, not hinting, not nagging, not pushing, but very clearly. Generally, if 7 years have passed, you have some idea if you are likely to want to marry or you have some issues that need to be resolved before you move forward. Have conversations to uncover that.

  60. Was the problem that it was too big for you and fell off. I’d tell him because it maybe something that can be claimed on the home insurance. Will he be annoyed- maybe but at least you’ve told him now rather than him finding out

  61. My advice is that you're part of the problem and you won't admit it.

    When you do maybe you'll improve your situation.

  62. Tough situation, but I have been in your position before. Here's what was said to me that snapped me out of it: There doesn't have to be something wrong with the other person for the situation not to be right for you. You looked elsewhere for emotional fulfillment because you were missing something in the relationship you had. There's a solid chance that you asked for that stuff in various ways, but it was still absent.

    You need to step back, take a very serious and clear look at your relationship, and make sure you're not glossing over the shortcomings just because you want to see the best in him. He could be a wonderful guy, and yet not the right guy for what you need and that's okay. Don't try to hang on or fight for something that was already incomplete just because you're afraid of starting over again. It WILL pass.

    My first advice though would be for you to stop calling yourself stupid. The whole psych ward thing is way WAY too much. Give yourself a break.

  63. Speaking from experience of 40+ years of knowing women with “guy best friends”: most of the time they’ve loved male attention while keeping that “safety net” of no sex. What guy wants to be part of a woman’s collection of guy friends?

  64. thank you :') if it happens again then it would be worth talking to the doctor's about it but it could just be a fluke

  65. Go to the interview. You know the relationship would be over if you got the job, and you wanted to go anyway. You want this job more than you want her. That's not a bad thing. Don't turn down what you actually want for fear of losing what you kind of want.

  66. Dude, what is wrong with you. I'm hoping you're a teenage and your complete lack of empathy and eq is due to inexperience. It's sad to think you might be 20+ and have had so many shitty experiences with partners like OP's asshole that you think this is acceptable behavior from a person you are having sex with.

  67. thank you for this response🤠 i did pour myself entirely into the relationship, so it's been hot to extricate myself from it internally even though it's been over for months – i finally deleted a lot of things only a couple weeks ago. what you've said is what i need to be reminding myself, so i really appreciate it!

  68. I suggest you hold yourself to an outrageous high standard with respect to contact with coworkers (for any partner).

    Why? Because surveys find coworkers are the #1 source of affair partners.

    Plus research of couples (good people)that experienced infidelity finds that intent and/or current level of physical attraction is irrelevant.

    Bottom line. It's not unusual for daily contact at work to suddenly escalate out of control.

  69. Age matters. So does location and culture. 7 years is a long time but 29 isn’t that old to be married. If he can’t answer it, perhaps encourage him to talk to a therapist to explore his feelings.

  70. We need some more details here to actually give any helpful advice I think.

    I think overall women want emotionally available men. The idea that men don't cry is toxic.

    But it does seem like maybe you're doing something else weird. The one comment where someone gave solid advice about how it can be draining and off-putting to have to comfort someone else about your trauma seemed logical and not mean or catastrophic but your reply was to catastrophize the situation immediately going to well I guess I ruined everything then. Nowadays everything is disposable.

    Dude what?!?

    So first off did she have to comfort you? Did she have to put aside the hurt and trauma she feels about the situation and have to be the one comforting you about her own trauma?

    Because that sucks. Hot. And that is not an attractive quality in a partner.

    Secondly do you jump to these overblown assumptions often. It's hard to say because this was just one comment but it made me recoil. This is something I would consider a huge red flag in a man I was dating. You have to tiptoe around people to make sure they don't overreact and make everything about them in a gross self pitying way. It's manipulative.

    Now to the cats. What exactly was the pretense in which these cats were adopted? Did you talk about adopting the cats together before? Did you pick them out together? Did you discuss who does what for the cats? And now that they are here how do you divide cat care duties?

  71. You made your bed. Tell him and deal with the repercussions for your kid. This isn’t the end/worst thing, but literally fucking stop your whining because it takes two to tango. Woman up, talk to him, see where he is at, and raise your child. In the end, this might end up being the most wonderful stupid ass choice you could have ever made with this amazing kid.

  72. What good would an apology do? He expresses his true feelings when he is enraged. An apology won’t turn him into a normal, loving husband as his rage will return the next time he is behind the wheel. Do you want this to be your future? You are not safe.

  73. read you comment about how when you asked to met him he bailed on the whole thing, he had date intentions on this “dinner” and was probably shooting his shot with your gf. Once you were going he realized he couldnt do that and cancelled. He clearly was trying to build something more then a friendship, the whole my relationship is bad, lets go talk, lets go for dinner, pity me bs is so commonly used by people trying to seduce others its really sad

  74. I agree, context is often lost in text. I really appreciate your input.

    I feel like even if I was out and drunk, and the same thing happened but the roles were reversed, I'd never message her that because I feel there's a chance it could be taken the wrong way 🤷‍♂️

  75. He expects you to clean and do laundry and you do it. Why would he start? Just give him a form ultimatum or leave

  76. I will be as kind and compassionate to her as possible. She is a wonderful girl. Thank you for your comment and understanding of my decision.

  77. Her parents failed her too. She was still a kid when she started embarking on this path. They made to much for her to qualify for federal loans so they shuffled her off to a fancy school anyway and left her to pay for it herself, clearly without enough guidance.

  78. They both were just fun people to party with, plus we have a lot in common with tv, music, etc. but I now realize that probably isn’t the only quality I should look for in a friend

  79. Girl you do you. You are an adult and you can make your own judgement and relationship decisions.

    It’s mostly the 42 M we tend to worry about.

  80. Try and focus on where it came from. It came from a good place, your wife wants you to be happy and your happiness is crucial to her.

    I am jealous, not because I would take it as an opportunity to fuck around, but because of how much she cares about your happiness and how far she is willing to go for it.

    Dude you are lucky, you got a keeper.

  81. I have a few questions before I'd like to give you any advice if that's okay.

    Have you quit completely? Why is it important for you to make her to quit? Does she have any other vices that bother you? Why does it bother you? Can you give a direct example of what she's doing, that makes you label her as passive-aggressive?

    Thanks,

    Dr. Reflection B.S.D.

  82. Exactly, unless you specifically had a conversation about exclusivity then don't automatically assume their exclusive just because you are.

  83. One's early 20s are a time for tremendous growth and a lot of times couples grow apart instead of together. What you want often changes as well. I'm guessing it didn't help that she wanted to elope and got stuck with a small wedding and a big party she didn't want. She probably realized that you want different things.

  84. My advice is to stop having sex with her and to ask her to move out ASAP. If you don't, you will be a Dad very soon. She isn't listening to logic. She isn't listening to what you want. She is an incredibly selfish, 22 year old, who has a picture in her mind and is totally naive about any sort of real life with a baby and a single income household.

    Don't be dumb. Be smart.

  85. Thank you. I wanted to ask but wanted to make sure I wasn’t overreacting for feeling some type of way

  86. Oh dude, don't even start with a compulsive liar. Nothing but pain, angst and shenanigans (not the fun type) are down that path,

  87. Yeahhhhh thank god you posted this because I was like cracking my knuckles, preparing to write some super dirty stuff for him and then I scrolled by 40 cheesy pick-up lines and realized I must’ve totally misunderstood the assignment. All those suggestions are so cliche and, if anything, will only illicit an “awww” not an “💦💦💦💦”

  88. Dude, run, speaking from experience you're way too young to deal with someone that crazy. She has 7 years on you, it's like if you dated someone in middle school. Red flags all around

  89. We are actually having intimacy in our relationship, we make out and do foreplay but no sex. Also, I see that she is kinda talking things about future when we talk which makes me think if she's waiting for marriage but don't you think it is a long time to wait for in a healthy relationship? We are both virgins, btw.

  90. For the love of God don't do that. That's a horrible situation to be in, and it makes me not trust her in the slightest.

  91. They didn’t agree. Go read the post again.

    Her fiancé asked him to be the best man and it was right after that they had an altercation.

    The best friend was in denial hoping it wasn’t gonna happen but once he got asked to be the best man he know he couldn’t hide anymore.

  92. I'd like to think she's naive, or she's borderline stupid. Dangerous behavior. Anyone who has the slightest bit of awareness should know you CANT TRUST ANYONE. I know not everyone is bad but there's far more bad/dangerous/Ill intentioned people than good ones.

  93. this is the real crux of the matter. allowing herself to be in a position where her only option was to sleep in bed with another man.

  94. I mean, how heartbroken could he be if he refused to fight for you? Thank the gods you didn’t waste anymore of your life on him. Like I always say, if he wanted to, he would. But Ben obviously didn’t want to stand up for you, which shows how truly unimportant you were to him. Remember that.

    You deserve better.

  95. My husband is like this. I leave the blanket off of me, and he scoots behind me and snuggles with the understanding that it's probably only a few minutes and then I can say “too hot!” at any time and he backs off.

  96. So how did you get a video of a man coming up behind you and grabbing your breast? Why were you video-ing this guy in the first place? Was he one of these “mutual friends?” Why would a rash on your thigh mean you were spiked? Do you remember what you did?

    Your post makes no sense.

  97. Right now you want to respond and be witty and cutting but it won't actually help. So write out all the clever, mean, honest feelings you have… And then delete/burn/destroy them as a way to let go.

    Yeah it's fun to think of the what ifs you see in sitcoms and movies, like if she can see you're typing a response, keep typing every little bit for days but never send anything, or send the Rick rolling video link followed by meatloaf's hit cause while getting her with a Rick roll and then blocking would be classic internet it sends the wrong message lyric wise, hence meatloaf's inclusion. But in the end sending nothing and purging this person from your life and mind are your best courses.

  98. You know that you're not legally obligated to being a relationship with someone who is selfish, abusive, and dangerous, right?

    If you need help and resources to break up safely, just let me know.

  99. He will never change. He will never go to therapy bc he doesn’t believe what he’s doing is wrong.

    There’s no reason for you to stay with him.

  100. Part of our job as parents is to demonstrate healthy relationships for them to model. Even if you two aren’t fighting in front of the kids, they pick up on tension and are very observant. Kids who grow up in dysfunctional homes tend to be more prone to anxiety disorders and other mental health issues.

    It seems like you’ve tried the usual things—like therapy—but he’s just not that interested in making a change and in fact feels attacked. He needs individual therapy for himself in a bad way but he won’t get anything out of it if he can’t accept feedback.

    He may be a nice guy and you may love him, but love isn’t always enough.

    If I’m honest, the only thing I (44F) regret about my divorce is that I didn’t do it sooner. I spent so much time in individual therapy and couples therapy trying to “make it work”. Sometimes, it just doesn’t.

  101. Ok, this will be a very controversial take. Look into this performance enhancing drug stack. Viagra/Cialis it’s tried and true. I would consider stacking that with a low dose of MDMA (1/4 or 1/2 tablet) and possibly albuterol (more oxygen). Research it first before taking my advice.

    But anecdotally, he’ll be hot and go for hours. It’s also hard to have better sex than being on MDMA. But that should be reserved for once in awhile. MDMa really helps with the emotional bonding as well. I also think your it’ll boost your bf’s confidence a lot as well. After 7 years. I would look into it.

  102. I dated someone like your boyfriend! I was miserable the whole time 🙂 I didn’t realize until months after the relationship ended that I was, in fact, miserable the whole time and they were verbally and emotionally abusive. You deserve better. Also, he’s not “happy, fun, and loving” if every time you have a conversation he immediately starts berating and insulting you.

  103. Ask him why, if it's a common family custom showing respect, you never saw them kissing each other like that until very recently. And what his mother thinks about your relationship, given that they are so close and she sometimes acts like you are stealing him away from her.

    I assume it's just a quick peck, the typical social greeting type? I mean, they aren't locking lips and making out, are they?

    So many of my own friends and family members are lip-kissers that I really can't view it as a red flag per se. It really is more of a cultural thing, with no sexual overtones whatsoever. Adults kiss babies, grandmas kiss teenagers, big bearded men kiss other big bearded men. But if his mother happened to notice that you looked upset after you watched her kiss him that way the first time, I wouldn't put it past her to keep on doing it whenever you're around, just to get a rise out of you.

    OTOH your concern that you are indirectly kissing his mother, if he kisses you shortly after kissing her? Sorry hon, that borders on crazy talk, and it won't help you at all to tell your BF that LOL. Just stick to your concern that his mother seems to consider you a rival for her son's love, and how he plans to deal with that tricky situation.

  104. Do not give him your hot earned money. You barely make anything being a teacher then to put that money into his house that you aren’t part owner heck no! And f him for talking to you like that. What a jerk trying to guilt you. Listen to your Dad.

  105. I'm gonna get downvoted for this but does she actually like that stuff or are you just getting her generic woman gifts? Like the jewelry you get her, is it her style? Is it generic stuff like gaudy hearts or costume jewelery? Does she wear jewelry? Maybe she is giving you paintings because you give her basic feminine interest gifts that a lot of women don't actually like receiving. I could be way off, but I also could be right.

  106. Girl, if you have to hold up in your room for 5 hours until he calms down, you have a lot bigger issues.

  107. Or maybe they care about having them there?

    I would never get married without my grandma there for example. Even if it means I need to accomandate her (and I do, given that walking for long is not exactly a thing she can do).

    Maybe OP or their future spouse care about this person. They are not happy about changing the plans, but they care.

    Yeah, their wedding is about the couple. But we are not islands. We have people we love outside that.

  108. I think the family member could join virtually? Set up a tablet or a phone during the vows and FaceTime/zoom/etc

  109. Wait about 6 month then ask the “what are your future plans” type questions. Just give it more time to see what the ups and downs are like so you can get a better perspective on the situation.

  110. this is horribly unkind to his wife. you don't know their interpersonal dynamic and you're actively contributing to their marriage getting worse by continuing to entertain inappropriate attention from a married man. it's not your place to tell him this.

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