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There are these things called boundaries and consequences. She does something spiteful like that then there should be some sort of reaction from YOU to discourage her from doing it again.
Did you give the personal trainer your contact details so he could spam you with calls and texts? If not: he’s being inappropriate with information that you gave the gym. You should report him. It’s also a bit of a red flag that he kept pursueing you when you were trying to avoid him.
Your friends do not know him. But if you don’t want to go out with him: don’t!
I'd say I'm pretty healthy. I eat well, and I work out at the gym regularly (4-5 times a week). I backpack, rock climb, snowboard, spearfish/freedive. I'm very active. My aunt conceived naturally at 42. I think I could maybe get pregnant at 40, but I don't want to. I'd be 50 when my kid is 10.
I think he doesn't really understand that time is an issue. He always talks about how he feels like he's 20 and not 40 (he looks very young and is very active). But maybe you're right. Maybe he's just being nice and doesn't want to say no. But when we started dating, it was one of the first questions I asked, and he said he wanted kids then.
The sad thing I'm realizing now is that I wanted to be child free up until 2 years ago and dated accordingly. I was with my ex for 10 years (I got married young), and he didn't want kids either. I may have honestly just changed my mind too late.
In other words, your wife is trying to exploit polyamory due to issues with sex and marriage. Might as well get it over and end it now because the only way these work is when the couple enters into a relationship as poly AND their relationship is very solid and healthy. Poly is NOT the go to answer for when monogamous people are struggling maintaining their relationship or sex life. Not to mention, usually when one person suggests it, they already have someone in mind. Do a search on this subreddit on how opening up the relationship ruined it, and you will see lots of sad stories because of monogamous couples trying to use it to fix their problems only to have it cause even bigger problems.
There are these things called boundaries and consequences. She does something spiteful like that then there should be some sort of reaction from YOU to discourage her from doing it again.
Did you give the personal trainer your contact details so he could spam you with calls and texts? If not: he’s being inappropriate with information that you gave the gym. You should report him. It’s also a bit of a red flag that he kept pursueing you when you were trying to avoid him.
Your friends do not know him. But if you don’t want to go out with him: don’t!
I'd say I'm pretty healthy. I eat well, and I work out at the gym regularly (4-5 times a week). I backpack, rock climb, snowboard, spearfish/freedive. I'm very active. My aunt conceived naturally at 42. I think I could maybe get pregnant at 40, but I don't want to. I'd be 50 when my kid is 10.
I think he doesn't really understand that time is an issue. He always talks about how he feels like he's 20 and not 40 (he looks very young and is very active). But maybe you're right. Maybe he's just being nice and doesn't want to say no. But when we started dating, it was one of the first questions I asked, and he said he wanted kids then.
The sad thing I'm realizing now is that I wanted to be child free up until 2 years ago and dated accordingly. I was with my ex for 10 years (I got married young), and he didn't want kids either. I may have honestly just changed my mind too late.
That means no. You don’t get to impulsively break up with someone and expect them to jump when you change your mind.
In other words, your wife is trying to exploit polyamory due to issues with sex and marriage. Might as well get it over and end it now because the only way these work is when the couple enters into a relationship as poly AND their relationship is very solid and healthy. Poly is NOT the go to answer for when monogamous people are struggling maintaining their relationship or sex life. Not to mention, usually when one person suggests it, they already have someone in mind. Do a search on this subreddit on how opening up the relationship ruined it, and you will see lots of sad stories because of monogamous couples trying to use it to fix their problems only to have it cause even bigger problems.
Yeah it was, thankfully he no longer lives with us. He’s mooching off someone else now.