What? I know people who treat friends like that. Just because your not as loving to your friends doesn't mean everyone has to conform to your standards.
This is abuse pure and simple. You need to do your research. Because I suspect you just think he’s damaged and can change him / heal him etc etc. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN. And he’s literally stealing your college experience from you.
That sort of relationship requires a lot of communication. It has to be formalized with safe words and a expectations. Just 'throwing that into' your relationship is an accident waiting to happen. If she is unable to talk to you about it openly you should put a stop to it.
What? I know people who treat friends like that. Just because your not as loving to your friends doesn't mean everyone has to conform to your standards.
This is abuse pure and simple. You need to do your research. Because I suspect you just think he’s damaged and can change him / heal him etc etc. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN. And he’s literally stealing your college experience from you.
Welp. Whatever it is she’s decided that you don’t need to know about it.
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That sort of relationship requires a lot of communication. It has to be formalized with safe words and a expectations. Just 'throwing that into' your relationship is an accident waiting to happen. If she is unable to talk to you about it openly you should put a stop to it.