Thanks s lot. I feel like she waited for me to get better, almost 3 yrs, i wonder why she allowed me buy her meals, take her to restaurants, even travel with Mr s few months go, or spent time with me knowing that she just needed s excuse to be over with the relationship. I know i am blaming myself and lots of people say it is not healthy. It has been 33 days since the breakup… I haven't moved on and she , looks like, did already. I know i shouldn't be her second choice. I know i need to take it one day at the time, 1 week at the time, but it is hard. Thank you again!!!!
You get married because you love each other, how do names play into that? You could hyphen names, he could take her name, you can make a conjunction of both of your last names, these are all solutions I’ve seen in couples in my own life. Beautiful, happy, wonderful couples who know compromise is important in relationships. Christmas cards and monograms aren’t the most important thing in their relationship because that’s not what makes a marriage.
You still chose not to believe her and chose to remain ignorant and think ill of her rather than taking 20 seconds to Google her condition. That's not loving behavior and after 5 years of being together, there's no excuse.
After having COVID, my fiancé broke out horribly in a full body rash that turned out to be psoriasis. He'd been previously undiagnosed because his immune system had suppressed all but a few spots around his eyes for most of his life.
The first thing I did after he was diagnosed was research everything I could about his condition. I changed laundry, health and beauty, home products, everything that we used, looked up the treatment options available to him, educated myself in the side effects of long-term steroid usage since that was a possible outcome if other treatments failed, everything. Equally, knowing I have chronic migraines, he's learned to help me manage and treat my migraines and we're now going on a journey together of getting me treatment for long COVID after my diagnosis with that.
“In sickness and in health” is not just a fun saying for shits and giggles. It is a promise you make to the person you're supposed to love most in the world and as such it bears a burden of responsibility. You are responsible for educating yourself on your partner's health issues and doing your part to help care for them. Hypothyroidism is not a 1 in 1million people type of disease. There is zero excuse for you to be married to someone struggling with it and yet be utterly ignorant of every aspect of it. You broke your vows before your ever made them.
Thanks s lot. I feel like she waited for me to get better, almost 3 yrs, i wonder why she allowed me buy her meals, take her to restaurants, even travel with Mr s few months go, or spent time with me knowing that she just needed s excuse to be over with the relationship. I know i am blaming myself and lots of people say it is not healthy. It has been 33 days since the breakup… I haven't moved on and she , looks like, did already. I know i shouldn't be her second choice. I know i need to take it one day at the time, 1 week at the time, but it is hard. Thank you again!!!!
It doesn't matter if her family isn't near. Contact them!
You get married because you love each other, how do names play into that? You could hyphen names, he could take her name, you can make a conjunction of both of your last names, these are all solutions I’ve seen in couples in my own life. Beautiful, happy, wonderful couples who know compromise is important in relationships. Christmas cards and monograms aren’t the most important thing in their relationship because that’s not what makes a marriage.
“If I’m lucky”, wow. Man up bro
You still chose not to believe her and chose to remain ignorant and think ill of her rather than taking 20 seconds to Google her condition. That's not loving behavior and after 5 years of being together, there's no excuse.
After having COVID, my fiancé broke out horribly in a full body rash that turned out to be psoriasis. He'd been previously undiagnosed because his immune system had suppressed all but a few spots around his eyes for most of his life.
The first thing I did after he was diagnosed was research everything I could about his condition. I changed laundry, health and beauty, home products, everything that we used, looked up the treatment options available to him, educated myself in the side effects of long-term steroid usage since that was a possible outcome if other treatments failed, everything. Equally, knowing I have chronic migraines, he's learned to help me manage and treat my migraines and we're now going on a journey together of getting me treatment for long COVID after my diagnosis with that.
“In sickness and in health” is not just a fun saying for shits and giggles. It is a promise you make to the person you're supposed to love most in the world and as such it bears a burden of responsibility. You are responsible for educating yourself on your partner's health issues and doing your part to help care for them. Hypothyroidism is not a 1 in 1million people type of disease. There is zero excuse for you to be married to someone struggling with it and yet be utterly ignorant of every aspect of it. You broke your vows before your ever made them.