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Date: March 26, 2023
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It would be a deal breaker for me but as long as he does get you off somehow and you're happy and the relationship is healthy ??♀️ you don't want to break up so idk what advice we can really give tbh ? I'm inclined to agree with your friends, all the men I've know who don't give head have in fact been dbags.
You should break up.
You could try couples counseling to learn to communicate better with one another. Also possibly look into screening for PPD, if you feel your insecurities how gotten worse for you after delivery. You should consider individual therapy for yourself. Work on your self esteem and self worth. You are worth it OP, reach for some help to better yourself and your relationship.
I just wrote something on another post, and I'll repeat it here.
This person may be the best thing that ever happened to you, but that's only so far. You have so much time and love ahead of you, with or without them. It may feel catastrophic now, and it may hurt for a long time, but if you split, you can and will find love again.
Also, its not just something that happened 10 years ago. Yes, those examples happened back then, but they are still disrespectful towards you NOW.
You tried to talk about it recently, he showed no remorse, did not listen to you, was disrespectful and tried to make you cover and scare you. All because you felt hurt by something he did and wanted to talk about it.
I'd take a wild guess and say that this is also a common occurence if you have different views on things.
I think you should think about how he behaves towards you in the present, not just what he did in the past. Ultimately, its your choice to cut them off or not.
It’s possible he didn’t do it very “bad” (pain or mark) to transition you into accepting abuse. Like the frog in the boiling pot theory. :/ it would just be good to take a step back and evaluate
What do you mean no “obligation”? What kind of transactional, cold-hearted way of looking at your relationship is this?
“Sorry babe you’re SOL until you put a ring on it” like what?? keep that up and you won’t even make it to the marriage part
OP I’m sorry your gf is acting like this. I’ve been in a long-term relationship for 3 years (not married) and I’d take a whole WEEK off work to support my partner through something like this. You deserve better.
I’m not comfortable with her potential intentions
Surely if her intentions were to make a move on your boyfriend she could find a less convoluted way than planning an entire wedding and having him in the bridal party so she can lure him to an Airbnb with another person present and try to fuck him in secret.
From what you wrote, she had a crush on him six years ago and things have been platonic between them ever since. You say she doesn't make effort to hang out with you as a couple, do you make that effort? My best friends are all married or in very serious relationships and while I like their partners and get along with them well, I don't usually third wheel them when I hang out with my friends. It doesn't mean I'm trying to sleep with my friends behind their backs.
If you feel weird about their friendship, maybe this is an opportunity to get to know her a little better. It takes two to lay the foundation of a friendship so you extending an offer to hang out at your place or whatever might help foster that. I don't think it's appropriate to tell him that he can't go on this trip. You either trust him or you don't. If you trust him, her intentions don't actually matter anyway because you should trust that he would shut down anything inappropriate if it did happen.
This is a perfect litmus test. If he’s not into the idea, there’s a bigger problem.
You are both disgusting. How dare you talk to your fiancee like that?
You are both too immature to be getting married. Married people don't demean each other this way.
You need to grow the fuck up.
Appreciate your feedback.
Police for a cease and desist or restraining order
I have been in situations where I've had my SO with a roommate. I would go out for a run if the roommate or my SO was working at home. In those instances, we had two floors. So I could always go to another floor. We do have another place that is one floor. I will go out on the balcony to read or draw or go out for a walk. I need downtown time to process and be by myself. Sometimes I just drive around to be alone in the car.
WIth COVID, my worklife changed. We work from home now.
Your parents
As someone who has travelled around South America with a friend of the opposite gender, I can say that it is way cheaper to share a room than get one each, and it was often easier to find a double room than a twin room.
I’d suggest he date people his own age. Except. . .they wouldn’t date him.
You go out and keep yourself busy, staying inside and wallowing in your self pity will only make yourself feel worse. You don't focus on the stuff that reminds you of him, as nude as that may be, you go and hang out with your friends and loved onee, you do the things that you like and make you happy, do the things you wanted to do that he didn't.
Granted, all of this is easier said than done, and tbh the only thing that will make you less sad is time. But doing all of the things I listed above will speed up that time. If he comes back to you, don't take him back. He made his choice, no backsies. I say all these things as someone whose been through this all before. Just know that you WILL be just fine in the long run.
Fuck all that noise. Run my son, and don't look back.